Why???  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
3/17/2005 6:45 am

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Why???


Why?

Why is it that nearly all of the blogs only discuss sex? It often isn’t even in a somewhat decent manner. Far to many times do the words nearly come to cum guzzling, fucking, gangbangs, and wild fuck fests.

I do not mind the topics, but is it all anyone cares about?

I know that this is a sex site, but what ever happened to some meaning behind some encounters?

Do most Americans feel this way? Has sex become a mere sport with absolutely no resolve behind it?

This is a truly sad time, even back in the Roman Empire many of the orgies they had were not wild fuck sessions. Many of them engaged in very long but slow and passionate sexual sessions. While I do not think the government back then was even worth trying to imitate, I must say that they at least knew what sex was really about.

I got into a debate with my father Monday when he saw I was working on my book. He stumbled upon my “Manners” article. He said that many of those practices are much needed today, but many men just do not care. He praised the fact I am so young and yet mature.

When I grew up me and my family was not close at all what so ever. Now that I began studying sex even my father comes to me for advice about things for his new wife and himself. I am honored and slightly disgusted by this fact LOL. Despite my wisdom and maturity I still do not like the idea of either of my parents having sex. All we can do is deal and accept the fact that we are all human.

Perhaps someday things will once again have some meaning behind it. I do not see this happening anytime in the close future though.

rm_lickeetung 57F

3/18/2005 8:11 pm

I'm in total agreement with you here. The reason why I visit this site.......much deeper topics.

It is the blending of physical, emotional, intellectual or mental, and spirituality that results in truly satisfying sexual intimacy.

Grasshopper.......you are wise beyond your years. To answer your question......just jumping in bed for a quickie without deeper meaning is NOT all I care about....there is so much more to true intimacy than that. I don't think that's the majority though......not here anyway! ....or so it seems!


GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
3/17/2005 4:05 pm

and in response to your own post... when there's a real connection it can be much more than a complete body orgasm


GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
3/17/2005 4:01 pm

I have quite a few other posts in my blog... and I've had both mails and comments on them that are just telling me about how pleasantly surprised peepz are at my blog and how much they like it...

I still don't know if I'll continue my blog, but for now I'm posting my own poetry, and yes, some questions / stories on intimacy and sex matters, but more poetry than other things.


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
3/17/2005 10:33 am

I can understand that. You can however have meaning without actually getting married. That is the difference between being a adult or being immature. Most intelligent people know the differences between these things.

I do not recall saying anything about "only married people having sex". I made absolutely no reference to that.

You can not physically have a intense orgasm without a true connection to your partner.

I do not care who does or does not believe me, it is a proven medical fact.

All I have ever said is that people should at least have a little bit of a connection before they have sex. Without that connection all you have is a low level genital orgasm where as if you are connected you have a entire body orgasm.


strangedesires11 37F
3 posts
3/17/2005 8:12 am

if i wanted meaning id get married!!!!


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