What is the big Deal???  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
9/9/2005 7:19 am

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What is the big Deal???


Now that I am no longer a virgin I can ask the question…

What the heck is the big deal about getting laid and the vagina?

I feel no different now then I did before…

Many claimed that once I had sex I would feel differently and begin to act differently…

I will admit that it feels wonderful… but there are still many more things in life that trouble me then getting my penis wet…

It will be at least 7 to 10 days before we both have a day off together again and can be together again…

I am not worried though and it isn’t crossing my mind very much…

I had no trouble bringing her to orgasm numerous times so I know I don’t have to worry in the future either…

As time goes on her orgasms will most likely become more intense as I built the right muscles required…

I am glad that I do not follow the advice of other men and only follow my heart…

Many men seem to do things there way where as I believe in sticking to a basic format…

Some women can not handle rough sex and many men seem to think they can…

If you are rough when she wants it soft then she will not enjoy it…

If you do it slow when she wants it rough she can still orgasm…

It is safer to always be slow and then toy with pressures to eventually give her what she wants…

It is better to have some kind of orgasm then no orgasm at all…

At least then you have something to work with where as no orgasm at all leaves you frustrated and does not give her much of a reason to come back at all…

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A Blend of the Old and the New Intro (Rough Draft)

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A Virgin "no" More (Part One)

A Virgin "no" More (Part Two)

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LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
9/18/2005 2:33 pm

LMAO @ Magical Mystical Meat...

I will have to go back and look at that blog


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
9/18/2005 2:32 pm

LMAO Keith...

Nope, no horns growing out of my head...

YET!

Hehe...


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
9/18/2005 2:31 pm

Agreed Aq...

But there are still specific types of people in this world...

While the deeper aspects are different, the surface is the same...


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
9/17/2005 10:35 pm

Or at least change the recipie!


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
9/17/2005 10:35 pm

Hmm, I suppose I am going to have to remove MAGICAL MYSTICAL MEAT from The BlogLand Cookbook!


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
9/17/2005 10:31 pm

You don't feel different? Ya mean the sun isn't brighter and there are no horns growing outta your head?

LOL, I am happy for you my friend.


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
9/10/2005 12:28 pm

FUQ...

I am still not really snapped up...

Women are afraid of men like me because we posses as much passion as most women do...

Women tend to lean more towards men that they think they can help and men like me do not need help in that department...


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
9/10/2005 12:27 pm

Indeed Karma there are far to many people who are hooked on the whole "sex for pleasure" and do not require or care about a relationship...

I still feel the exact same way, I would rather masturbate opposed to having sex unless I am seriously dating the person....


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
9/10/2005 12:26 pm

Thank you Blonde....


funsailor84 32M

9/10/2005 9:42 am

Yeah homie, I knew you'd find someone sooner or later. Seriously, if found someone you connect with- don't ever let them go. It's silly how hard it is to find another. Good luck brother.


rm_FUQANDUS2 42M/43F

9/10/2005 7:00 am

Good for you....I think you said it well....relationships are not all about sex...the connection you have with the other person is what will make it most sensual....you seem to have a pretty good grasp on that...I am surprised you haven't been snapped up before now!!!


BLONDENEEDSSEX 57F

9/9/2005 9:48 pm

It is nice to see that you have found someone. GOOD LUCK


PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
9/9/2005 9:45 am

Oh, I'm posting the previous comment on my blog here.... I like how it came out

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
9/9/2005 7:52 am

"It is better to have some kind of orgasm then no orgasm at all… "

I have a confession to make. The best orgasms I've had are all ones I've had all by my lonesome. Well, with one exception, but it's explained below.

The big deal about sex for me is the connection with the other person. I have outgrown the "sex for it's own sake" approach, even if I find the guy attractive. I'd rather make love in a Relationship. If there's not going to be a Relationship, a sex toy will do just fine, thankyouverymuch.

I think all that stuff about mindblowing O's during intercourse is a myth created/perpetuated by the "adult" movie industry. Want to blow my mind? Really, truly LOVE me, dammit... that will work better than just a fuck.

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


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