What is Cheating?  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
7/21/2005 5:33 pm

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What is Cheating?

Many of us believe in different things. Many of us have different terms for words even though the dictionary exists and provides an exact definition for words.

What is your definition of cheating?

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
7/24/2005 5:58 pm

I agree with the Sugar...

A lot of people do things behind each others back. If you can't do it with them there, you should not do it at all.

rm_xratedsugar 34F

7/24/2005 1:44 pm

well cheating to me and according to Dr. Phil, is anything that you would not do if your significant other was standing right there with you. now that i have actually said that, i am a huge cheater, and i havent even had sex with anyone!!

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
7/24/2005 4:46 am

That is definately interesting Bea...

Mikey_B1972 44M

7/23/2005 4:18 pm

To me it would be someone that steers the other direction, or goes against an agreement of a relationship. To some, just the fair act of the partner going to a strip club with some friends for a few drinks, would be called cheating. Just because he/she had a sexual encounter with someone other than them.

Corqer32 43M

7/23/2005 11:33 am

Cheating is defined, it would seem, in one of two ways - either by the cheatee (in terms of the loss of trust, feelings of hurt/anger/etc) or the cheater (in terms of personal guilt). Fundamentally, it boils down to a trust thing, though - if the other person trusts you to not stray and you do, you've cheated. Stray could be as simple as being a member of this site all the way to routine visits to a lover for sexual fulfillment beyond the relationship. Unfortunately, what is cheating to one person often is not to another which is where the inevitable conflict comes - the disagreement becomes more about the definition of the act than the act itself.

rm_beaujelais 59F

7/23/2005 6:41 am

I think cheating has more to do with what's happening in one's mind than a physical act. I would consider a "connection" much more threatening to a relationship than a physical encounter alone.

sxy1foru3 38F

7/22/2005 9:25 pm

I think that once an unerstanding is made that you will be with that one person and that one person alone then cheating is considered if you kiss touch lick eat out let one suck you dick or do any sexual act whatso ever to you or you do it to them.

five_speed 41M

7/22/2005 5:43 am

A person cannot cheat unless he/she is in a monogamous realtionship, and by that I mean, unless a woman and I have sat down, talked it over, and agreed to sleep only with each other, then I can't cheat on her and she can't cheat on me.

If we are monogamous, there is still no harm in looking and flirting a little bit with someone else when I'm not with my lady. When I am with her, I have eyes only for her. a friendly hug wth a female friend is not cheating, letting a female friend talk to you about sex with her lover is not cheating. But any kind of intimate personal contact that involves or suggests a sexual connection - through physical touch or speech or writing - is cheating. No erotic emails, no massages, no kissing, no kind of sex at all.

pASSionwantd2 50M
1316 posts
7/21/2005 11:49 pm

A Grifter Guy that Hide's & Bend Card's at Poker Night on Friday's,lol.

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