Way to FUNNY  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
5/15/2005 2:45 pm

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Way to FUNNY

I am very distressed by another members comment and many members in general.

Sometimes in the process of fixing something, you may accidentally mess something else up. I have not seen AdultFriendFinder issue anything yet stating the “one comment” rule. What I do know is that a lot of members do not take this site seriously at all and that includes its features as well. The object of the site is to meet people you have common ground with and hopefully take that into a real life meeting. The object is in fact to have fun, but most bloggers just screw off writing false statements and general incorrect information.

I love hearing about other people’s experiences and life in general, and that is why I read some of the blogs that I do. Those people actually use it to show who they are. I study a lot of sex and history, therefore I write about it because it directly shows who I am. Many of you write stuff that is false and since the blogs are suppose to be a reflection of who you are I then have to assume you are a group of liars and negative attention seekers in real life as well.

Who gives a two bit flying fu** if you can only post a certain number of comments per person on each blog. Most of you write several hundred blogs a month and several blogs a day. You pharm comments and popularity, and absolutely nothing more. A couple of you complained because I re-post a lot of the same things. I re-post them because I drastically alter them and normally delete the previous ones. I have deleted posts that sometimes had 20 to 30 comments posted on it. Obviously I am here to meet people and don’t give a rat’s ass about popularity or I would not have deleted the posts and the several hundred comments I have.

The only other popular bloggers I have seen write a lot of very real and wonderful stuff is Goddessofthedawn, and sexyfitwoman.

I know that personally… I would rather see the same post over and over than I would to keep seeing so many (specific) people posting whimpers. That is all it is, crying and complaining. If you don’t like it then you do not have to be here. I never said a single thing about your guy’s blogging habits until a couple of them started posting comments about me within their blogs because I banned them from being able to post in mine. I don’t like their blogs so therefore I do not read them. That is the mature way of handling something. I noticed that despite how many of you that claim to hate my blog… the recent visitor’s list showed a recent visit from almost 20 of you today. You people are almost twice my senior and bit** moan, and cry more then I do. If you stayed off my blog and all that then I wouldn’t be posting this crap as I wasn’t posting this before. Act your age and be a role model for the youth like me.


keithcancook 60M
17822 posts
5/16/2005 9:02 pm

"To thine own self be true" , a wise person once wrote. Your serious nature is not unappealing, so why should you change it? You will have many readers still and I will be among them.


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
5/16/2005 6:18 pm

You are correct, this site is not just for sex, it is general personals site as well. I am here seeking a relationship, not random sex. I use it as a resource for finding one woman while many only want many.

I must keep my blog of the more philosophical nature I have been as I am that way 24/7. To post a lot of jokes and such would make me seem like I enjoy that stuff when in fact I do not.


papyrina 51F
21133 posts
5/16/2005 12:28 am

ok no insult intended,but this post of yours has just done what you have said we do,in answering to the complaints and your last sentance on here you have just proved your as imature as all of us,note us not you

I visit your blog at times ,read some but as i'm a busy woman i can not read all as some post are two long and unintersting to me,not your fault mine.

Yes most of here are here to find someone or something,and blogland helps in that,yes some blogs are gossip,fun total lies who cares really,we all have our favourates and flirt,talk,comment on them.

At the beguining of blog land we were given a blog if we wished to make our own and a lot of us did,due to missing comments,sometimes posts,delays in seeing them we all quite rightly got upset.

Give a child a toy without a rule book of how it works,the child learns how to work it out and enjoys it,then all of a sudden the toy starts to break ,the child gets upset and has a temper tantrum,toy gets fixed again and breaks,the child screams and crys,it works again but the toy works in a differant way to how it was bought,phones up manufactories and still no advise book on how toy works,so children take it into there own hands and complain as a team and hopefully we will get our manual and how this damn thing works and if there are going to be changes,to let them know before.

We are all children at heart,you never give someone something and take it away from them,unless its love.

Hopefully things will settle down in blogland and we can all get on with our blogs and commenting on others,sometimes positively and sometimes not,i would hate all yes people on here,as where not all yes pople i hope in real life,contructive critism is always good and healthy,competition is healthy if people strive to be better,popularity,is necasary to some who maybe are not too secure in there lives,thankfully were all differant and yet deep down were all the same.

Have a good week,


I'm a

and
i'm here to stay


missy97330 47F

5/15/2005 11:06 pm

"but most bloggers just screw off writing false statements and general incorrect information."

They do? Then I am a total sucker. I have believed each and every one, unless it was obviously meant to be funny and false.

And I have been totally honest myself, which might turn out to bite me in the ass. But there it is.


TakesTeatsStood 50M
505 posts
5/15/2005 10:18 pm

I have a suggestion, next time you have a problem with someone's (specific) blog, you might want to name them instead of painting with a broad brush.

I doubt one person has said they "hate" your blog. I read it a couple times and didn't visit it lately until your post in keithcancook's blog discussing the 'one comment' rule.

btw, both sexy and goddess are NOT happy with the one comment rule (unlike you).

I have posted my last comment on this issue on my blog - maybe this will be your last and we can all move on.

keep on bloggin!!


rm_LacyCuffs 49F
386 posts
5/15/2005 9:33 pm

If this bothers you so much Mystic then why give so much energy into writeing a post as such? I dion't myself understand most of the people here but I do like everyoneI hope That everything is well with you this evening!! Ps. Luv the Pic!!Finally a Face to look at..


Tala4u2 54M  
2961 posts
5/15/2005 8:31 pm

Bloody irritating that is for sure in the time I have been blooging the whines and moans in posts make a roman orgy sound like a mute's convention. Or perhaps a lack of inspiration to write is to blame. Blogging passes the time of day and is fun but not the world we are here to blog about.

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,
PERVlander


rm_Lets_rock4 36M

5/15/2005 6:49 pm

Oh man, this really sounds distressefull...As a new guy around I have to give you my support on this. It was the first anyhow intresting blog I was able to check untill now. Also curious on the art studyings you are on which feel much of my intrests.
Good luck 88


rm_tkwswing 51M/49F
114 posts
5/15/2005 6:36 pm

The blogs are a place to put your own thoughts down, whether they are truth or fantasy, fact or fiction...right?

I am not critizing your blog. As a matter of fact, I don't like it and don't usually read it. However, this post was a direct result of someone else's blog which made you angry. I had to read your response and comment since you made a generalized statement which is a reflection on all bloggers, and that includes us.

Let's just touch on the one comment rule...whether dictated by A F F or not, for us...it wasn't about being "popular", it was about having the right to finish a story which was being told through one of our posts. This new rule also destroys a sense of community and a way for people on multiple continents to banter back and forth with each other.

I think maybe you should think through your thoughts next time you decide to herd everyone into the same category....liars and negative attention seekers we are NOT.

tkw


rm_BigDnLady 43M/41F
1140 posts
5/15/2005 6:18 pm

I personally enjoy reading your blogs, they are interesting, even if I do not comment on them, however, I believe the reason a few of us are upset about the "1 comment" thing is because we banter back and forth about a particular blog. I know I am not in search of comment counts but do enjoy the banter! My blog is genuine, it details experiences, as well as fantasies!! I don't know who you are angry with or who have angered you, but don't change anything that you are doing, because like you said, this is your space, and do as you please!

Lady


dave35wg 48M
1 post
5/15/2005 6:07 pm

Well Said even though this is the 1st time I have posted and only the 2nd post I have read. I think your comments relate to alot of people in this world and not just this site. Thanks Dave


keithcancook 60M
17822 posts
5/15/2005 5:37 pm

Hmm, interesting post mystic and I think I understand your point. I beg to differ though. I think that the object of this site is open to different interpretations. In fact, there may be as many objects as there are members.

As a more personal example of OBJECTIVES and their myriad forms lets look at the Sexual Researcher/Philosopher blog that you compose. I think you will find many who agree that the object of this site is to meet people for sex. Pure and simple, end of story. However, you do not fit this object at all. Your object seems to be quite different. My object also differs somewhat from the example given.

One difference between the two of us is that I am not offended by your blog as you are of mine. Yet an even MORE SIGNIFICANT difference is that I would not be so haughty as to suggest that you or anyone else is a liar. Where are the "false statements and general incorrect information" that you refer to? You seem to find it important to back up what you say in your sexual analysis research. You have inflamed the situation by making slanderous and negative statements without backing up your claims with nary an example of what you mean. This is beyond your usual thoroughness that I have noticed in your other posts.

Personally, I find many of your ideas interesting and in fact I share many of your interests in history. Since I was a young lad I have been reading many of the classics of medieval and Enlightenment history including Le Morte D'Arthur by Mallory, Orlando Furioso by Ariosto, Spencer's The Fairy Queen, Hugo's Gargantua and Pantegruel, The Divine Comedy by Dante, and The Three Musketeers by Dumas to name a few. My first love in literature and history was with classical Greece. I read and reread everything I could find on Gods, Heroes, Myths... It just carried on when I discovered knights in shining honor and I still read this stuff today.

I too have felt at times a wistfulness for the days of chivalry where honor was important and women were cherished. But all that is an illusion. Those times had just as many liars, cheaters, ravishers, and what not as do the times we live in today. In fact it was worse then than it is today with regard to how women are treated.

In true point of fact this idealism did not actually exist outside of the romantic songs and stories spread by the troubadors as they travelled and plied their trade. Even in the times in question courtly love was an ideal not an actual fact of daily life. It simply was not practiced on any wide scale.

As for your opinion on my blog, well I do not think you have read it all have you? In some of my earlier posts there are subjects that are right up your alley. Why not give them a once over and weigh in?

In some ways I may have made a mockery of what YOU expect to see on this blog site, but I do not apologize for it. If you had taken time to read my entire blog you would have noticed its metamorphosis.

It simply shifted gears and in my opinion it broadened . It took on a new challenge. It became an entertainment in character. It was just me and my brain deciding to experiment with what a blog could do. I think that it was successful since it has brought a chuckle to desktops around the world. I have been very gratified by this response and will continue to post my storylines again when I have adjusted to the new site rules. This form of blogging requires me to comment often and the new rules prevent that somewhat.

I love hearing about other people’s experiences and life in general, and that is why I read some of the blogs that I do. Those people actually use it to show who they are. I study a lot of sex and history, therefore I write about it because it directly shows who I am. Many of you write stuff that is false and since the blogs are suppose to be a reflection of who you are I then have to assume you are a group of liars and negative attention seekers in real life as well.

In my opinion this is a misleading statement about your supposed broadmindedness in seeking out the life experiences of others. You certainly slandered me publicly without actually mentioning my name. My blog does in fact reveal who I am over the course of it if you had taken the time to read it and even more importantly the wit to understand it you would not have posted as you did. I am not a liar, but I have been lied to in the worst ways imaginable over the course of years. In fact, being called a liar is about the worst insult I can imagine personally. It raises my hackles and I controlling myself from venting very negatively to you over this baseless and shameful attack that you oh chivalrous one have launched without cause.

You have made a fool of yourself with this crusade. Why? Because your original premise was completely off base. For myself only, I say that popularity is only a small factor in the equation. It's importance to me stems from the undeniable fact that the popular list will generate readership and readership is what I desire. Yet I would write the same whether or not the list exists. So it's importance is not so all encompassing as you seem to believe. For a true measure of your mistake presented plainly and simply, please refer to the post my friend BLONDENEEDSSEX posted on my behalf and without my prompting. This states clearly where you erred in your understanding of these present issues.

"That is all it is, crying and complaining. If you don’t like it then you do not have to be here. "

Please refer to the post titled It is becoming a total JOKE... dated May 14, 2005. Here you will find the original whiner. Crying and complaining about the literary devices of others who have meant you no harm.

"I noticed that despite how many of you that claim to hate my blog… the recent visitor’s list showed a recent visit from almost 20 of you today. You people are almost twice my senior and bit** moan, and cry more then I do. If you stayed off my blog and all that then I wouldn’t be posting this crap as I wasn’t posting this before. Act your age and be a role model for the youth like me. Don’t sit here and tell me to be mature when I am only reacting to the childish crap that you keep pulling. "

These folks are here because there is a controversy and they want to stay informed. This controversy was unprovoked and brought upon by sour grapes on the part of yourself Mysticwriter88. Or perhaps I should refer to you as Sir Mordred . You appear to have some of his attributes.


573bear 76M
1 post
5/15/2005 5:23 pm

Sounds like you have been lambasted by small minds lately. It was interesting, but since this is my first time viewing your blog, it does not apply to me [and that is something you will have to find out as do we all]. I agree that more people need to act more maturely. But if my perception of you is correct [and they mostly are], you are more mature than most people and so will have less patience with those so immature. This would also be because of your above average intelligence [my guess is that it is way above average]. I will check back later.


leyndokona2 49F

5/15/2005 4:50 pm

I always enjoyed reading your blogs even though I haven't read all of them.


nightstogether 56M

5/15/2005 3:04 pm

interesting. I suspect, from reading your little rant, that much of it applies to you too. Perhaps you ought to read it, prior to the next correction, and take note.

Many people here post in their blogs as an additional means of expressing themselves, regardless of their age or intellectual capabilities. It doesn't matter what they post, it is their own blog and their own right to write what they wish, feel or believe. Much as it is your right to do so too. If you don't believe that people have a right to complain and correct what they conceive to be a wrong, then you also do not have that right and your post here is a wrong in itself.

I expect to be banned now, but it makes little difference. It's your blog.

nightstogether
private-intellectual (.de)


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