Virginity... Does Waiting Matter?  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
4/11/2005 5:50 am

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Virginity... Does Waiting Matter?

We all have different opinions about things… I have a question for all you ladies though…

Does waiting to have sex for the first time really matters? I mean, does it make a huge difference if it is with someone you know and trust?

I am sure I know what the responses will be, some ladies will say yes and a lot of men will say “hell no”?


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
4/25/2005 4:42 pm

I agree berry, I feel pretty much the same way. I am glad to see that there is someone else here who feels the same.


berry040 32F
2 posts
4/23/2005 9:12 pm

i think it is best to wait 4 the right time. by right time i mean when u perceieve it. preferably u believe u are in love with ur partner. i can honnestly say, being a virgin, that the right time 2 me is goin to be with my husband cos i hope that he will be the only 1 to have me and i know dat he is mine 4eva. its left 4 u 2 chose wat seems best 4 u.


SecretKeeperr 48F
56 posts
4/15/2005 10:00 am

Blond... profound, indeed. Your mother's words are not only wise, but also embraced you as an individual with love and acceptance. I stand in ovation to her uncommon wisdom.

Life is in the details that are often missed.


xxxHottie6969 33F
1 post
4/12/2005 8:05 pm

I'm a chick and to be honest my first time was no big deal. The hole romance thing is way over rated when it comes to your 1st time. Yeah sure it should be with some 1 u know but the hole extra special stuff is crap. u will have more fun the 2nd, 3rd and 4th time cuz u will be better at it. Eventually u won't care or even bother to think about your 1st time. Sorry but that just facts.


rm_2hotnwild4u 32F

4/12/2005 3:10 pm

i am a strong believer in going with your intuition and your heart.if you feel that it is right, its your body and no one elses so it really doesnt matter what others think.we are not kids being told what to do, i like to go with the flow on alot of things but i also analize my situations and make sure that what i choose is right. respect your partner and make sure you come to a conclution that works for both of you and have fun.virginity is sometimes over-rated
and yes it should be special but alot of people dont have a very good experiance their first time.i dont believe that someone should have sex with the world but after the first time for me it got better.


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
4/12/2005 6:23 am

I agree with you blonde, I now see why you are one of the few who likes my writing, we appear to think very similar in several ways. Thank you for sharing your wisdom m'lady!


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