LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
4/14/2006 9:04 pm

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4/26/2006 6:43 am


I am sure someone here can help me understand this…

If you are a paying member and you see someone who is local to you. Why would you send a wink opposed to just sending an email?

I never sent winks when I was a paying member. I always at least sent an email to say why they were appealing. I didn’t always hit on them but I most certainly did not pass up an opportunity to put a smile on their face.

Have a "safe" weekend everyone!

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
4/26/2006 6:43 am

Lol, Hi Princess

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
4/25/2006 8:27 pm

There have been a couple guys that i've winked at while i was silver member... mostly it was "you're profile interests me, but i'm not really sure we're compatible, so if you get my wink and are interested i'll hear back". but for the most part i never look at winks or respond to them myself.

PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
4/24/2006 7:08 am

Well, most winks I get are from standard members. Since most profiles will only allow silver and gold members to email them, a wink is a way of saying "Hi!" and "I think you're interesting and would like to contact you."

Oh, and while we're at it.. Hi!

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

jd29992z 54M
3888 posts
4/21/2006 8:54 am

For me I write a short letter first. (I used to send out these long letters explaining who I was, what I liked ect. and would not get a write back hmmmmmm kind of a waist of time new to this site and all.) But I get a few winks I think it they are cool and I write back. So as for men I don't think it matters one way or the other.

somethingelse40 74M
14676 posts
4/19/2006 3:13 am

the real deal …

Anal? You want anal? Well, have you heard of........

somethingelse40 74M
14676 posts
4/19/2006 3:13 am


Could there be any doubt???

Actually I like the way your mind works:

Sock it to me!!!

Tassle_Burrfoot 43M  
11 posts
4/17/2006 4:11 pm

You know I think that is stupid as well. Espically if you can see that the other member is not a paying member. Winks are good up to a point.

Toolkit2006 64M

4/16/2006 8:42 pm

... dammit , guilty as charged .
... however I have seen the error of my ways

Thanks for the enlightenment

hourglasses 47F

4/16/2006 5:38 pm

Maybe they are too lazy to write an email. Or maybe they want to make sure you are interested in them (by making you email first or seeing if you wink back at them)

diesel_118 33M

4/16/2006 9:24 am

Hey I would love to talk to ya more personal some time

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