To many lies...  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
6/19/2005 5:08 am

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To many lies...


Thank you for the responses.

NliteNme 52F

6/19/2005 6:18 pm

I have had some odd occasions where I was witness to women who saw this as a way to cure lonliness, but you see Mystic, there are women who mistake sex for love, they are two very different things, only some lost little girls out there can't make the distinction. All I can do is say that I will send light in their direction and hope they find the correct path.

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/19/2005 3:50 pm

I feel the same way Nite...

That is why I do not do it!

I am glad to see that you figured it out.

Most people do it over and over and learn nothing and cry like a baby over it!

You obviously made a mistake and learned from it. They did "not" learn anything from it at all and thus keep on doing it.

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/19/2005 1:41 pm

Wrong bux...

She went out last nite "Wanting" to have sex with a stranger.

She desired to have sex with anyone she could find...

That is not a man's fault...

She admitted she just wanted sex...

She had no intention of doing anything other then having sex last night!

NliteNme 52F

6/19/2005 12:02 pm

I think it is sad that someones self esteem could be low enough that being touched by a man, ANY man could lift them, Everybody has been or will be lonely, the way you handle that speaks volumes about your character. Myself, a one-night stand only leaves you lonlier and less fulfilled, but it has been years since I had that experience and it only took me one time to find that out.

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/19/2005 11:50 am

Yes it does take two to cheat...


Nevermind... you ladies do not see my point.

I was not stating "all" women in general.

I was directly commenting about one very specific person here who has lied for several weeks about why she does what she does.

Anyone who has read my blog for a little bit of time knows that I love women a great deal. However... this very specific woman has lied a great deal and has not taken any responsibility for her actions. She constantly posts blame on other men and refuses to acknowldge her own faults.

If a man does not know a woman is married and she does not admit it... he is not knowingly commiting adultery and she actually is without a doubt!

BuxomFrau 44

6/19/2005 11:27 am

1. Who is this mysterious "they" that put out some kind of "report" that you are referencing? Like Nightstogether said, it takes two to cheat, and if they aren't with another woman, chances are they are with another

2. I find your "you deserve what you get" logic faulty, and in certain situations, dangerous. Yes. She went out and had a one-night stand. But as you said, a man took advantage of her as well. So the way you say it, you've forgiven him of his wrong because she put herself in the situation. If you're going to chastise one, chastise both for their bad behavior.

3. Really, this whole blaming a whole group of people based of your very, very limited experience is beyond tired. I'm sorry the women you surround yourself, or only like to talk about, seem to have issues, but please, do try not to paint all of us with such a broad brush.

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/19/2005 10:11 am

True knights...

But in the eyes of the law... unless the man is married as well he is not commiting adultery.

It is possible that the women are not revealing they are married!

bella_ 47F
4030 posts
6/19/2005 8:40 am

Mystic...I don't think that is fair. Being truthful sometimes is contradictory. I write what I feel at a particular moment. If it is contradictory fine...I still write it.

For me to start writing in order not to contradict another post even if I feel my self contradictory then that is being dishonest...or writing for an audience. My writings will not become calculated to correlate with a previous statement.

I think you judge to quickly. I envy your age and your strength in your beliefs. I am not that strong and you have not walked in my shoes. I can understand your statement and this blog. I accept it. But be careful to judge as we all fall into the same traps, we are all human no matter how strong we are.

NliteNme 52F

6/19/2005 7:22 am

Yes, women are a an enigma, personally, I would like to see the age factor, I was never much of a one night stand type, although I was an avid "partyer" just had the good sense to go home alone. I see so many women now who are from single parent homes, they didn't live with the fact that DAD might find out how you're behaving.

nightstogether 56M

6/19/2005 6:05 am

You must, of course, bear in mind that if 87% of women commit adultry, unless they are committing it with another woman, then 87% of men are also committing adultry.

private-intellectual (.de)

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/19/2005 5:13 am

"One night stands and random hook ups are not what they once were for me. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot kind of looks pathetic to me these days." - B

You are right... they/it is truly pathetic!

Now why would you do something you know is pathetic?

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