That Time of the Month?  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
7/11/2005 5:59 am

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That Time of the Month?

Why do so many people get nervous about sex during menstruation?

lookn694 73M

7/21/2005 3:32 pm

Love to have sexddurning her period. My wife always keeps herself shaved but Im very hairy but don't mind the mess. Get in the shwer when its over. Nothing feels better than sliding my 6 in cock in her pussy when shes flowing . Feels so nice and warm and love the smeer from my belly button my pubes balls and stomach hair. We use to put a towel folded under her she spread her legs and Id slide it right in. God that was nice. She no longer has a period but sure wish she did. Then we'd get in Id wash her pussy for her give her a good fingering. Then insert her tampas for her. Nice hot fun

moonlady_62 54F

7/17/2005 1:12 pm

I enjoy sex doesn't matter what time of the month. But there are days that yes I do cramp but it does pass and I agree with the other lady sometimes right before starting having a great sex time makes me feel better about myself and makes me start sooner so I feel better silly huh but hey it does depend on who you are having sex with lolol Love your blog keep writing. (winks)

rm_finesse20032 44F

7/17/2005 9:20 am

ewww i am on my period and was just thinking the same thing. i have had some relationship where it was okay and some that it wasnt ok to have sex during my period. I guess it is how comfortable you are with your partner and how you feel

justbrowsing90 45F
1 post
7/16/2005 1:48 am

yes if u can have an orgasm during the worst of ur cramps it helps ease them for a few hrs

rm_BikerKing 57M

7/15/2005 7:26 pm

Most of the women I've sex with during their period say orgasms relieve cramps for a few hours afterwards. We just put down a towel, get creative with fore play...make passionate love with earth shaking orgasms...I carry them to the shower and lovingly wash their body...carry them back to bed and rub their back until they fall asleep...

KinkyMTgirl 38F
66 posts
7/14/2005 9:58 pm

Just have sex in the shower during that time...clean up is a breeze

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
7/12/2005 7:45 am

Thank you ladies

It is nice to see a variety of responses within many of you.

I agree, sometimes it seems icky, but other times it does not. I guess it depends more on the mood then anything else?

rm_little_gurl 32F
7 posts
7/12/2005 1:19 am

sex during ur cycle just seems a little icky 2 me... and when ur thinking about feeling icky u dont really think about how good its feeling or anything like that...just icky lol

nycbabe6969 37F
1 post
7/12/2005 12:01 am

Well, I've done it during my period and I don't do it anymore because I'm prone to getting infections, bladder infections. We get so horny that we could not wait, but now, I'll give him some great head, and he'll just finger me.

redmartinigirl 43F

7/11/2005 10:09 pm

Not everyone finds sex during a woman's period "dirty," "gross" or "bad." Just a personal preference. I adore sex while I'm on my cycle. I'm fortunate and don't have cramps and am incredibly horny during that time. Some bf's would totally get into it (screw the sheets! they wash!) and others it was a complete no - no. To each their own

czyswt1 38F

7/11/2005 9:05 pm

It all really depends for me. At the beginning, I just don't want to be touched, unless someone is rubbing my stomach or back because of cramps. Towards the end, when it's light, I wouldn't mind as much for the touching, cuddling and things like that. Sex could happen, but I like it a little more about a day after I'm off, because I don't like the smell that much. That's just me, though.

charlene4sex 39F

7/11/2005 2:50 pm

It didn't put me or my ex-bf off. In fact it he would make a move on me when it was that time of the month.

angelsstorm 38F
6 posts
7/11/2005 10:41 am

that would be because it is actually quite dirty, and a turn off unless means are put in place to deal with the resulting mess.

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
7/11/2005 9:11 am

hmm... well, it's messy and 'gross'. lol. sometimes religions say not to. when i got thinking on that, it does seem a bit logical... u don't really want to be pushing the blood back inside, it could possibly cause infection (though i've never heard of it). the biggest problem for me, though, is just that it seems 'gross and messy' and so i feel guys don't really want to. now ORAL sex during menstration... that bothered me. it's still a psychological thing though.

CuriousKitty675 41F
365 posts
7/11/2005 8:18 am

There's a number of factors both psychological as well as physical for this.

Psychologically there is the "Ick" Factor. Most women find blood, especially menstrual blood to be disgusting. There will be mess involved. There's the general aversion to blood in general not just in women but in men as well. Blood typical is associated with pain, suffering and death. Dark things, wicked things, evil things. It's a genetic programming that perhaps if you believe in the theory of cell memory or genetic memory where a person is born with certain cultural memories in thier subconscious, that somewhere deep inside they believe it is unnatural and bad. Going back to Original Sin or the concept thereof. In history women who were on thier cycle were sent away from everyone else during that time because at that time they were perceived as unclean. Perhaps some of that has carried over.

Physically there is a whole morass of reasons. Being bloated and not feeling particularly sexy. Cramps that make you feel as though your guts have been skewered by a serrated blade and ripped out through your abdomen. General lethargy brought on by the blood loss and subsequent lack of iron in your blood due to it. The dramatic drops in endorphin and seratonin(sp?) levels that regulate feel good feelings in the brain. There is a smell factor involved as well and studies show that females are more receptive and sensitive to smells than males.

Then there's the practicality of the matter where the woman is always gonna wonder who will clean up the mess when it's over and who is gonna have to sleep in the wet spot. LOL!

Hope this helps shed a little light on the subject.

pussinboots4u 50M/47F

7/11/2005 8:15 am

The sheets, my dear, the sheets! Actually - for me - the cramps are so bad - there is just no way I could - I'm down for 2 days out of the month and the rest of the days that it lasts are not too much better.

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