Swinging...  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
5/21/2005 10:31 am

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Swinging...

A Look at Swinging


While it may seem that us helpless romantics are only into basic sexual stuff, I would have to say that is a bad assumption. I would love to meet a woman who would be open minded enough to be hammered on while I am kissing and caressing her upper body or licking her clit for added stimulation. I do not wish to double penetrate her, instead I am aroused by it because it is two very intense sexual emotions.

If I softly kiss her and fondle her the same way I would if making love to her then it would keep her very relaxed and makes her feel my love for her. If a man is hammering on her then she gets to feel the lust he has for her. That lust combined with my love is two very intense sexual emotions triggering all at once. It is possible that she could gain both a uterine and blended orgasm from the encounter, which is rare and maybe physically impossible according to my research, and yet theoretically possible.

This makes it tough because it is not something that I want to do very often. Maybe 3 or 4 time a year at most. It’s just something new to keep the fire going and excitement at its absolute peak. Even if all she wants to do is suck another man off while I watch I consider that to be very hot as well. It isn’t about the added person cause personally I don'’ want to see my girlfriend or wife fu**** by another man, I do however want to see her emotional reaction before, during, and after the encounter.

The really tricky part is finding a woman who can handle that and yet not want to suddenly up and leave you because she might have just found someone better.

Once I have my degree as a sex therapist I have intended on taking some time to look very closely at the swinging life. In all my studies I have yet to see sexual techniques documented for threesomes or higher. Most people I know who end up in those situations always only fu** each other and I think there could be more fun to be gained then just rough intense sex. I think there would be a great deal more women less nervous about multiple partners at once if they knew they would be getting caressed and fondled lovingly while still being shared by many guys.

The porn industry is again a horrible point of reference when it comes to this. In the porno’s most of the actors treat each other like animals during the group sex scenes. People see and imitate this, which is again very bothersome, because much of the true intense and intimate things sex has to offer are getting lost in history.

As a result doctors are once again proving that the truly intense sexual emotions women once got to experience are no longer happening. Many roman orgies were lovemaking orgies. They were “very” different then what you will find in xxx porn, they were more a soft porn kind of style.

The biggest point in my mind of a group sex encounter is the ability to have multiple men fondle and caress the women. Having a whole bunch of guys hands rubbing and pinching her body could very easily make herself soar and then in pain quickly. Now on the other hand, having 2,3,4 or more men all fondling, caressing, kissing, and massaging her could be a very intense thrill and possibly unlock a more powerful orgasm then yet documented. While one man making love to a woman could lead to extreme pleasure, imagine what it could do to have a group of men all making very intense and passionate love to that woman.

To be continued…


rm_lovelyLady 64F
434 posts
5/22/2005 4:41 am

"having 2,3,4 or more men all fondling, caressing, kissing, and massaging her could be a very intense thrill and possibly unlock a more powerful orgasm then yet documented. While one man making love to a woman could lead to extreme pleasure, imagine what it could do to have a group of men all making very intense and passionate love to that woman" This description - sounds exquisite, Mystic....... In my dreams I am afraid I will have only imagined the posibility....... It sounds like this would be hard for me to find on my little island... Usually the double penetration I imagine includes a vib... Totally awesome... mmmmmmm


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
5/22/2005 4:31 am

I am not sure how I did that LOL. I am a big fantasy RPG gamer, and the Wyvern is always one of the monsters you have to fight a lot.

I think I ment to type Wyvern and somehow just missed the N at the end of it. Sorry, it wasn't intentional.


wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
5/21/2005 4:55 pm

Actually your the only one to have done it...

most either break it down to Wyv, or Wyvern or rose, how in the world did you come up with wyver?

I'm curious as to of all the people here your one of the few I would have thought would have at the very least have come across the term wyvern....

a Wyvern, is a winged serpent with 2 legs and a barbed tail......amongst other things although the other things vary depending on who you ask...

WyvernRose


wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
5/21/2005 4:20 pm

Oh and Mystic we don't 'takes turns' no one is Idle when I play, there is always something they can do!

WyvernRose


wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
5/21/2005 4:16 pm

Mystic it was a once in a while spice for us too until our kids took over our life, now it seems taking it in turns to get away from the interruptions for a bit of sanity from the kids is the only way it seems we get some lol

WyvernRose


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
5/21/2005 3:07 pm

I know not everyone imitates porn stars... but a lot of people here "claim" that they do in fact do that. Well not many women do, but if you read what the guy's write and see their words... well it is rather rediculous at how they look at and treat women.

I am glad to hear you do things differently Wyver... I hope I can find a gal at some point that would enjoy me and some close friends taking turns with her. She will have to understand that I won't want to do it very often though.

Just a new Spice once and awhile.


expatbrit49 62M

5/21/2005 2:07 pm

I have spend years working on my swing but I still have abit of a slice

Thank You for Your Time and Attention


wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
5/21/2005 12:43 pm

You sure you have never been in a 3 some with me boy?????

no we don't all imitate the porn stars, it's no different than if I have one than 2 or 3 really....well unless Boney is actually there and they kinda shut off on themselves and perform....the guys that is....it isn't about the fucking it's about arousal and pleasure with a dash of play...both giving and receiving

WyvernRose


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