Studying Sex... Why would someone do it?  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
7/2/2005 9:32 am

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Studying Sex... Why would someone do it?

I think it is funny at how many people think that the only people who would read a sex book is because they are trying to make up for bad abilities.

Part of the reason I buy books online instead of in a bookstore is because I can read customer reviews and the books are normally cheaper.

For instance…

Many women have posted reviews where they say they bought a book for a boyfriend and were worried that he would be upset. They thought the boyfriend would think that she was saying he was not any good in bed. Then she would express that the reason she bought the books was because things were getting dull, but still were very pleasurable. For this reason she bought Kama Sutra books where they could learn new and interesting sexual positions as well as new techniques when performing oral sex.

I agree with these women’s reviews…

I hate watching Webcameras mostly because it is always the same darn thing. Always the same activity and always the same positions over and over. I have only seen 6 different sexual positions used during a Webcamera showing. Most shows involve only 2 or 3 different positions.

I have to worry about someday finally having sex because I know that a woman is not going to know darn near any of the positions that I have studied. If she has had sex before then she is going to be used to certain ones and that will make introducing new ones a rather difficult thing.

Some of the sexual positions are highly strenuous to the body and I have to wonder how many women can handle them. I also have to wonder how many men could handle them as well.

I began studying erotic massage because I often have the desire to just touch a woman in a pleasurable manner but do not actually want to have sexual intercourse. I do not like the idea that in today’s society it might be impossible for me to find a woman that likes to cuddle frequently… all the women I have seen say that they like cuddling in their profile say that they only like it “after” sex.

I really like the idea of just having a woman lay back while I massage her body in a complete manner. This would mean both a back and frontal massage and her being nude in the process. It is very sexual, but should not always require having sex because of it. I am displeased at how many people have to have sex just because of a little arousing play.

Are there any darn women left in this world that actually like being pampered and treated like royalty?

Being massaged, or to be treated to a sponge bath?

Why is it that women have become just as slu**y as most men?

What ever happened to women who actually care about their bodies in a total sense and not just a sexual sense?

I want a woman that I can wake up to and see my life within her eyes. A woman I can look at and know I have made every effort to please her sexual and emotional fantasies to the fullest of my abilities. All I want is one woman in which I can live my life with… to experience all of the wonderful things in life with (sexually and none sexually).

I don’t care how wild or nasty some of her fantasies might be. I would not rest until we eventually completed all of them. Even if is meant her wanting to have sex with 100 guys at once, I do not care. It is the experience that I care about, not the number of men involved that I care about.


No such women exist anymore.

No such intelligent people exist anymore.

The only thing that anyone cares about in this world is strictly sex and absolutely none of the emotional connections that can come with it.

I had hoped that women were better then men, but most women are just as shallow and rude as most men are. Women seem to only care about sex, and the only thing men have ever really cared about is strictly sex!

This world is the greatest blunder in the existence of our solar system!

I am deeply sadened by the lack of maturity that exists!

lustmirror 63M
2897 posts
7/2/2005 11:00 pm

th*nk gawd....
one of the more than a dozen posts today, and I don't have a real thought about it....
and can just sign blindly in.....

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
7/2/2005 4:51 pm

mystic in this post it is nothing more than your immaturity shining through, you don't know what we all actually do when we play, you have no idea, you have no idea how often our encounters are casual or with long term playmates, you don't know enough to make that judgement!


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
7/2/2005 4:07 pm

I am sorry to you ladies I offended. I guess the women I keep meeting are seriously clouding my judgement. being on this site does not help because the only people who I keep seeing regularly here are people who want to do nothing but fu** like animals.

I hope I can find a woman like a few of you are talking about!

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
7/2/2005 3:02 pm

You seem to have the same mentality on several aspects as I do Venture...

I am glad to see another guy who actually cares about sex in a complete way.

rm_venture12002 62M
67 posts
7/2/2005 1:48 pm

First off I've studied sex seriousely since I was about 13.I've always been very open and all the guys said something (I don't remember what) would drive the girls crazy, So I asked one and she said that was stupid and I was hooked on learning what was true.I've read every psychology article I came across.As for positions and the best sex.It's old fashioned, but take it from an old man.You'll never come close mind blowing sex till it's with somebody you truly love.At that time the position won't matter.

rm_crazysweets0 37F

7/2/2005 12:27 pm

Mystic, I just wanted to point out that YES such women DO exist! Do not lump us all in one group due to your lack of finding such a women. Reading what you wrote, that would be heaven for me. To be touched by a man and not expected to "put out" would be a relief! Yes sex is good, but these days, to me, maybe because I have not found "the one" it's just an act, one that I don't get into all that well. I'm good at pretending though.

So yes, I would LOVE to be treated with royalty, and pampered, and I guarantee to you I will enjoy it.

But since society also places alot of "importance" on outward appearances, most guys go "Ewwwwww" when they see me because either I am too fat or too ugly for them, without them even trying to get to know ME (the me inside). Life can be so disappointing.

I also wanted to say thank you for not having sex yet. If I could take back my virginity I would in a heartbeat! I love my son, but as him being born out of wedlock, that is something I have to carry around all my life, as something "I wish I had..." type thing! Definitely wait for that special one, the one you are meant to be with and love, and finally have sex with ! There aren't many guys out there who are so openly admitting to still practice abstinance (whether for religion or personal reasons).

Anyways, before I bore you and all the other readers to death, I will end this. I just wanted to say, I am here, and I am sure there are other women out there as well who are what you are looking for.

Good Luck in finding "Her"


rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
7/2/2005 12:15 pm

You shouldn't include everyone in your statements unless you know everyone there is to know. It's a bad habit many people get into, especially women that make the blanket statement that "All men are pigs" when they've been screwed over.

One sign of maturity is keeping an open mind about things.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.

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