Starting off your exploration...  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
6/16/2005 5:48 am

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Starting off your exploration...


Let’s face it…

In today’s society most people prefer to learn strictly through physical contact as it provides pleasure. Why would a person desire to study a book when they could just learn through trial and error of viciously fu**ing numerous women? The only people I know who bother actually reading sexual material is people who care deeply about all pleasurable areas and not just the genitals.

For those who want an easy and effective way of knowing a woman’s body very quickly… you can use the sexology exam. Really it is just an intense make-out session, but it is in fact like an exam.

Women experience different sensations all over their body just as a man can. Women can be trickier though because their level of arousal can change in the blink of an eye. Sex therapists teach the sexology exam as a way to know the sensitivity of the man and women. The problem I have is that, in my eyes women go through three levels of arousal per sexual session. The professionals say that you only need to do the exam once, but in actuality you should do it for every different level of arousal your lover reaches. It would make sense that a woman would be able to take more pressure when fully aroused then when she is only partially aroused now wouldn’t it?

The sexology exam is simple…

You move around a woman’s body working the clock on all of her sensitive areas. For instance… the vagin*…

Have her lay back… and dip your fingers or tongue around the opening of her vagin* so you can help lubricate it (with you saliva or by spreading around her juices). Once she is wet enough, slide one of your fingers into her vagin* straight. Now… play with the clock! Move your finger to each of the hourly positions (1 thru 12). Each time you are at an hourly position… press with different amounts of pressure. Try gentle amounts and then hard amounts… before moving on, make sure you ask her what does and does not feel good. Pay attention to what hourly positions she reacts to the best so that next time you have your penis inside of her… you aim for those spots with your penis exactly how you are your finger(s).

A good example being that survey’s show that more then half the women ever tested are significantly more sensitive on the left side of their clitori* (cli*) then they are the right side. Knowing this can help to press that more sensitive area specifically, or it can help you be aware that she is more sensitive there in that spot so you might want to be gentler with it.

Many people learn these pressures throughout having sex with someone for a long time. Sure you will eventually learn what she likes best… but by taking an hour to do this at the beginning of the relationship, you can have much more pleasurable sex right from the beginning. Wouldn’t you rather have the most sexual pleasure possible as soon as possible? Or do you want to slowly learn over the course of several months or years and loose out on much more pleasurable sex?

It is really just a game of “red light, green light.” When she says go, you go… when she says, stop… you STOP!

You can do this with all of her sensitive places… anu*, vagin*, nippl*s, clitori*, mouth, toes, stomach and so on. You can literally draw a clock on her places with a washable marker, or you can do it by imagination. Perhaps you might prefer some chocolate sauce?

There are always places in every erogenous zone that are more sensitive then its similar counterparts. Doing this allows you to gain trust in your partner a lot faster as well!

I am sure that many people would be nervous about this kind of thing though…

It is funny; they trust enough to have sex…

And yet not trusting enough to be open and honest…

Many people lie to each other on the first date…

Yet they are willing to fu** like anima** despite the lies and deception…

Why have sex with someone you do not know or trust? The sexual pleasure is nothing compared to if you actually had a lover that knew your body inside and out. It is psychologically and physically impossible for what many claim to happen to actually happen. People who are good in bed during one-night stands are lucky lovers, not good lovers. A good lover is one who can please a woman single handedly for years on end. Being able to please a woman for just a few weeks or a night is nothing special at all and is nothing worth bragging about.

If all these people are so good at sex… then how come they are not good enough to keep a stable relationship?

There are great many factors involved…

One who truly cares about another’s pleasure over their own would be performing this kind of test with any and “every” women and man he or she might have a sexual encounter with.

For more information on this… you will have to get a book and find out for yourself. Being a virgin… I should not know any techniques that someone who is actually having sex knows. Someone who is having sex… should know millions times more about sex then I could ever possibly learn.

(I had to edit it this, AdultFriendFinder mods are denying everything left and right again).

hardcopy75 41M
47 posts
6/18/2005 2:13 am

YOUR STORY REMINDS ME OF THE STORY OF A YOUNG MAN AND WOMAN PLAYING DOCTOR AND NURSE. TIME MOVES AHEAD, AND SO DOES THE NURSE AND THE DOCTOR AND THEY FOOL AROUND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN. THEY GET MARRIED AND HAVE KIDS AND THEY FOOL AROUND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN, ONLY WITH OTHER PEOPLE, OUT OF THE PROFESSION.


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/16/2005 9:22 am

It is natural...

I don't need a checklist...

It is just a makeout session...

The areas you test are up to you...

The pressure is up to you...

I only read the material once... and dismissed it because I have done this with all the women I made out with since the very first woman I ever met.


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/16/2005 8:31 am

Sexology exam???? hmmmmm.....

Just how many AdultFriendFinder men know about this.... Hopefully, they will master it well... and not have to stop and look at a check list of sorts to make sure that they are doing it correctly!!! lol.....

I like things to be running seamlessly... and naturally....

Laters....


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