Something to think & talk about  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
3/31/2006 8:47 am

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4/1/2006 9:17 am

Something to think & talk about

If you were to analyze what sexual aspect you felt you needed to learn more about, what would that aspect be?

A lot of people feel that admitting they need to know more is a bad thing because it represents that they are failing at something.

The truth is… admitting you need to learn more (improve) at something is not failing. When you do not seek knowledge when you know you need it that is real failure.

As anyone who has read my blog for awhile knows, I don’t lash out at people or laugh at people who don’t know something.

For today… there is food for thought…

What area do you need to improve in sexually?

Remember that sex is not just physical. An improvement could be learning to be intimate after the physical part of sex. Things like staying around to kiss, cuddle, and talk after you have sex can always be something that certain partners will care a great deal about.

As always, some members are shy and do not want to be laughed at by others. If you fall under this category, you can just email me. Although emailing me is not needed… anyone who insults another person on my blog gets banned. Offering opinions is fine as long as it does not harm the person posting the bit of information.


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
4/1/2006 9:17 am

I think the most common response to this is going to be that "we all need to learn to be more vocal."


czyswt1 38F

4/1/2006 8:48 am

Hmm, let see. I need to learn to be more vocal when it comes to telling a guy what I like and I also need to learn how to relax.


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
4/1/2006 7:11 am

Lol Demonic


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
3/31/2006 5:08 pm

heh... ok... i'll add patience to my list of things to learn then thanks.


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
3/31/2006 9:46 am

Trust is not something that is all that easy to learn about.

Relaxation and female orgasms are rather easy to learn about. It takes time and patience to learn about those things though


bluegirl39 49F

3/31/2006 9:42 am

I need to learn how to tell my partner if he is doing something right or wrong..I often don't because I hate hurting someones feelings


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
3/31/2006 8:54 am

Umm... I need to learn more about the female orgasm. And somewhat related to that (or so it seems thru deep and details discussions with other A FF friends): trust and relaxation.


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