Sleeping around...  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
7/2/2005 8:52 am

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Sleeping around...

Why is it that so many women say men sleep around and yet women do not?

There are just as many women who sleep around, as there are men who sleep around.

Anyone who sleeps with numerous people merely for just sexual pleasure is a sl**, that is the bottom line.

There are just as many male slu** as there are female slu**.

I only have respect for women who bring home a paycheck from it. At least they have a use from their activities…

The only thing a sl** will give you is a deadly sexually transmitted disease.

It does not matter if every person you are sleeping with knows about the others or not…

A sl** is someone who sleeps around in general with multiple people.

Swingers do not count within this term because they are a married couple in which have mutually agreed upon an open relationship. They do not deserve to be called a sl** because slu** do not normally have a maturity level high enough to actually commit to any kind of relationship at all unless it involves a purely sexual one.

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
7/3/2005 11:42 am

Sorry lust I will be more careful

lustmirror 63M
2897 posts
7/2/2005 10:35 pm

You have the true mentality of a ingnorant who**

.....(memo from P.R. dept.).......
jeez chief.....can ya tone it down?
your makin' it pretty hard on us.....
we have families, ya know...
all this over-time.............

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
7/2/2005 3:04 pm

Some STD's can be caught regardless of practicing safe sex star. How about you educate yourself a little bit first?

You have the true mentality of a ingnorant who**

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
7/2/2005 12:06 pm


A man who sleeps with 20 women is also a slu* just like a woman who sleeps with 20 men.

Many people only use the term slu* for women...

I use it for both sexes!

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
7/2/2005 12:05 pm

To answer your question...

A swinger to me is a couple who is open and honest about it. If both partners do not know about the activities then that is not swinging it is cheating!

No I would not consider you a slu*, because you do not sleep with numerous people.

I would however consider you a cheater if your partner is not aware of your actions/behaviors. Cheaters are worse on my list then slu*s!

I am not personally saying you are one or the other, I am just voicing my opinion m'lady.

These two examples answer the numerous questions you asked.

Defining a sl** has more to do with intentions then it does actions.

The real question is: Why do they do what they do?

If the answer is purely for sexual pleasure... then they are a slu*.

If the answer is to fulfill a single fantasy and is only done once... they are not a slu**.

If the answer has anything to do with sexual pleasure they are a slu*. If they do it for a legitimate reason (which is in fact possible) then they are not a sl**.

Mr_sweetness 44M
2599 posts
7/2/2005 11:30 am

How come a man can sleep with 20 women he is a stud but a women sleepes with 20 men she is a slut....And i am begining to think no matter what anyone says it is all about sex...they can say oh i want this in a man or a women or i want that in a man or a women but when it comes down to is all about sex, how well the other can perform in bed then they try and see if there is some chemistry...but mainly they have sex and find out if the other person is a hot fuck and if he or she is then they go from there and if they are not then they move on to the next poor soul...Funny most animals in nature only screw to have off spring they have there time of year when they mate and then that is that...but humans seem to screw just to screw alot of times....but who i am to say i just go on past expereince and what i see going on around me....But there a good people in all of us....Peeeeeeeeeeeeace

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