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LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
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11/14/2005 5:45 am

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I know Header, thank you.

My girlfriend and I actually discussed almost everything you just mentioned about a day after I posted this.

I'm not all that worried because I don't have to use protection with her. I wouldn't go around sleeping with girls without protection or anything but I know we will be dating for awhile and she is on birth control as well just in case something does happen inside of her.

The last few times we had sex I felt around and the only place that really feels good when I am in there is nestled right near her cervix. I have to be careful when doing any thrusting though.

The only other thing that feels good is shallow thrusts that go fully in and out so that her labia caresses the head of my penis with each insert and removal.

While I like your advice…

The reason I am not ejaculating is not a physical issue at all nor does it revolve around my books.

I have a serious anxiety disorder that I have had all my life and it also keeps me from going anywhere public because I almost freak out when I am around other people for to long.

My doctor agrees that my inability to ejaculate probably has more to do with this than it does anything else. As I get to know her and trust her more I will probably start ejaculating much easier.

I might start taking an anxiety medication but I don’t believe in taking medications so I do not know yet if I will follow his advice or not…

Ag... Regarding your comments on public Nudity…

Your judgment is wrong...

Most people do not use caution when it comes to sex and violence and that is why so many STD's and murders happen as well as .

The statistics of our country support my warning...

As such, many sex books are required to have warnings such as this in them just as a precaution in case some idiot went out and took my advice without using caution in a public sexual act...

By adding a section such as this it removes all liability from my shoulders and that is why I did it and that is why publishers require sex advice books to contain these things...

I am also required to post a warning at the beginning of the book stating that I am not a licensed sex therapist or doctor so anyone who attempts the techniques in my book do so at their “own” risk.

RockURWorld269 44F

12/3/2005 3:50 am

HI LoyaltyandHonor,
First, I have to say I love your name, although, unfortunately, I feel a rarety in our world these days. I just wanted to say I know how you feel, I also have anxiety disorder. It has never been a problem in my sex life, but other aspects big time. I agree with your doctor about the anxiety being the problem. It will take time, but I know it will lessen as long as your girlfriend is supportive and you try to relax and forget about it, and just enjoy yourself. If you are on any medication for your anxiety, this also could be the problem. That is the only time I had a problem with sex, now that I recall. I could not have an orgasm for two months after starting a medication for my anxiety. I am now off the meds because of the side effects.
Regarding AQ, I think he may be jealous because your blog is one of the most popular? Just a thought.

header1979 37M
507 posts
11/17/2005 11:03 am

Good luck dude,

I knew it was anxiety but I didn't know it was an anxiety disorder. I think you are correct that as you get more comfortable you get with your girl friend it probably will go away.

I noticed on the Advice Line after you posted your blog on this, a lot of other people posted questions about the same thing. It isn't rare. So you have a lot of company.

Take it EZ.


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
11/16/2005 5:31 am

I agree with much of what you have said AQ...

The disclaimer I posted is not the same as the one I wrote by hand in my notebook due to my lack of being able to have time at the computer.

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
11/14/2005 5:48 am

On another note AQ...

Why is it you have not trashed my popular blogs yet?

I have gotten hundreds of praises from different women here over the last 8 months on some of my larger advice articles and yet you have not trashed them.

You must also remember that I can not post 100% accurate material here because the terms of service do not allow me to use quoted material even if I have permission from the author to do so.

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