LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
6/15/2005 5:16 pm

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:27 pm


Me a player?

Many women here can verify that during my emails to them in private we do not discuss sex and most certainly do not have cyber sex. Sure I flirt… but that is all!

Most conversations are about history and such (medieval times mostly).

I have only met one woman from this site… we did not have sex! Because that is not why we wanted to meet.

I study sex, and I write about my studies…

I have been on the leader board since the blogs first began…

The emails I get are mainly from standard members who I have never spoken to before, not even in my blog. They are also mostly from Asia!

I have never, and I mean never… led a woman on here. I have flirted with many in my blog, and corrected the flirtations through emails!

Call me a player all you want…

You look like a fool calling a man a player when he is one a virgin and two has never been on a date.

I send out about 5 emails a day and normally to different people each time. Some women have been waiting for several weeks just to get a second email from me. I told them that I am not here to get laid or cyber… I am here to talk about “sex”. I also like talking about history!

With the amount of blogs I post and the content of them…. It is pretty fu**ing obvious that I learned what I know from studying. No man my age knows what I know by sleeping with woman after woman like a player. At my age, if I was sexually active. I would not be studying Kama Sutra and such; guys my age don’t care for passionate arts.

Be careful with your accusations! AdultFriendFinder monitors emails as well as posts… if you accuse me of something I do not actually do then I will take it up with the harassment team.

I do not appreciate you calling me a liar and a player!

If I was a player then i would use my sexual knowledge to sleep with as many women as possible. I have never in my life actually hit on a woman. I did express an interest in bella... but in a flirting way and not in a actually misleading way. I did it publically as well! A player would not do that!

Add to the list, and I am sure the women who have talked to me for the past few months in emails can back me up.

keithcancook 60M
17839 posts
6/21/2005 1:02 pm

my oh my.... what a tempest in a teapot we have in here.

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/20/2005 6:01 am

Thank you m'lady

One must learn from their hardships... many however do not do this though.

Perhaps someday that will change?

Beautiful4ualso 51F

6/19/2005 2:57 pm

WOW... Mysticwriter! you sound like one very mature young man! I'm very impressed to say the least, Congratulations.

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/18/2005 9:07 am

I appreciate it goddess...

It is nice to not have to single handedly fight a thing like this. I've been solo my whole life in defending myself and others. It is a nice change that I am not use to.

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/18/2005 6:05 am

I never know how some people do that either Juju... I have a few ideas... but they would be considered more of assumptions of his personality and I prefer not to assume anything.

He missed my initial statement anyway and got offended by an attack that was "not" directed at him. The fact he took so much personal offense to it makes me realize he did not understand my words at all.

juju34single 46F

6/18/2005 12:16 am

My bad, Mystic.
Though I don't see how he get's jew jew out of juju. willfully ignoring It from now on...

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/17/2005 8:14 pm

Okay... I appreciate the defense... but it is not needed. We are all supposed to be adults here...

Yes my blog started with a personal attack stickit, but not towards you!

stickit77 39M

6/17/2005 6:52 pm

maybe u need to be educated too. this whole blog started w/ a personal attack. and jew jew, i got plenty of respect for people that deserve it. u the one jumpin' in my shit.....remember? now go ahead and make a comeback, and remember i was talking to misty not either of u. hell i like the dude after taking an hour to read his profile. lol. if i had a daughter i would hope she married a dude like misty. so shine off!

juju34single 46F

6/17/2005 2:03 pm

takes up a collection for the Educate stickit77 fund

Spell it how you want, you are just a disrespectful whelp.
Which is my opinion.
Shine on!

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
6/17/2005 2:00 pm

stickit77, you need to be educated as to what a personal attack is about apparently.

A blog is a personal thing. If you don't like this one, the one who made it or reading the posts in it... just MOVE ON..... sheesh, get over it already.

Mystic, I know you're more than capable of defending yourself but this is ludicrice.

stickit77 39M

6/17/2005 12:59 pm

comments like what? misty started this post w/ an outburst, so i bursted back. i wonder if callin' a woman a liar and a fool made misty feel big? so, umm... dont worry about me jew jew i'll be ok. oh yeah, come up w/ somethin' better than twiggy or stick thin, u can do better than that, cant u?

juju34single 46F

6/17/2005 11:21 am

Also, by you calling him misty, when he is Mystic or Mysticwriter88, can we call you something like stickthin, or twiggy?

Nah, then I would be like you, and that just ain't happening HOMEBOY.

juju34single 46F

6/17/2005 11:18 am

So do comments like that make you feel like BIG man, stickit?
Well, I suppose some have to make up for some things, if you feel you must ACT big, go ahead and make yourself seem that way.

Anyone else want a Testosterone Bar?

stickit77 39M

6/17/2005 10:41 am

i here ya. u are very unique. be careful if you find the one. i thought i did, until i caught her cheating on me. that really sucked,but i got over it. good luck bro. trey

stickit77 39M

6/17/2005 6:48 am

like misty said it is a "personals site", its not a personal attack any way , just trying to figure homeboy out.

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/17/2005 5:44 am

Stick it... I have posted previously about my past.

I care about love, not partying or sleeping around. All i want is one woman, not many. I am very shy in person and often make a fool of myself upon a first encounter. When writing i can speak from my heart, but I am not good at face to face "spur of the moment".

There are other reasons as well, but I already mentioned them over the past few months.

I desire a woman that knows sex and sexual aspects. My encounter with women thus far has only been women that know how to spread their legs and not know anything of romance or passion.

I have no need or desire for such women who are not actually "women" at all!

rm_qcao1 48F
197 posts
6/16/2005 11:04 pm

You are crossing boundaries between discussion and personal attack.

Please try to stick to productive and objective discussion.

stickit77 39M

6/16/2005 9:03 pm

just curious, but u are 23 and never even been on a date? umm, some people mite be afraid to ask but i will, what the fuck? thats not normal. yeah its your choice, but it aint normal. go ahead and say it, "what is normal". there is something wrong, were you abused by women as a child? i'm trying to decide if you are lying or just a computer dork that doesnt have any interest in being w/ a woman. trey

stickit77 39M

6/16/2005 8:48 pm

i think u just need to come down here and party w/ us georgia boys and girls. you would definetly like it, there are several news papers that u could write in. just dont act like u do here sometimes, cuz u mite not go back up there w/ all your teeth. i'll protect u, come on down. yeeeeeeeeehaaaaaaaaaaaw

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/16/2005 7:18 pm

I am not wanting to be #1 stickit... I couldn't care less!

stickit77 39M

6/16/2005 7:01 pm

you are almost there mistypanties , here is one more for ya!!!!! people,please comment so he can be the leader!!!!!

juju34single 46F

6/16/2005 6:35 pm

I can say I have had many emails from Mystic, and chatted as well, and I can't and will not say he is a player, because he isn't.
In my opinion he is very educated, and whether he is a virgin or not has no bearing. We all were virgins at some point in our lives, and I must commend Mystic for learning what he knows, instead of being a 'typical' male and assuming things. (Not talking about males here, just in my experiences in my life)

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/16/2005 4:15 pm

This is "also" a personals site... not just a sex and swinger site...

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/16/2005 9:30 am

Like the word "cun*t." It actually means labia, if I use it in such a manner and a woman does not like it then it is her problem and not mine.

Only in America do women take drastic offense to that word. It has other meanings in other countries.

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/16/2005 9:29 am

I used the "f" word in perfectly legitimate context that had no sexual meaning behind it. I was not swearing at anyone, I was using it as the proper word.

I offer no apology to any women if they take offense to something that was not directed at them.

lustmirror 63M
2897 posts
6/16/2005 6:16 am

I'm betting some of us are players...of one kind or another
remember...the tagline for this site is all about

The World's Largest Sex & Swinger Personals site

the above line is on top of THIS page.
Burger King is not vegan
this site is not sacred sex
( can have it your way, but not necessarily here)

you are entitled to your beliefs
your desires
your loves

but do not be discouraged, or discomfitted
if your searches here
are more chaffe
than wheat

A man is looking around a street corner, and a friend comes along...
"What are you looking for?"
"My glasses."
"Where did you last have them?" the friend asked
"Across the street"
"But...well, why are you looking over here?"
"Because the light is better"

....sounds silly....but we do it all the time

,...good luck

rm_qcao1 48F
197 posts
6/16/2005 5:41 am

I personally do not find anything wrong with a word "player".

You are way too serious.
I used to be as idealistic as you are in my twenties.
You will change later on, and change is good. You will view the world from different angle, but you will not understand what I mean at this time, I did not either then, but it comes with experience.

There is nothing wrong with peoople who "sleep around", there is nothing wrong with people who do not "sleep around", it is individual choice and nobody has the right to judge.

On another note, using an "F" word in any form in your conversation around ladies, is showing disrespect for ladies.

<< I think you owe many of the bloggers and myself an apology?>>

How about an apology to ladies for using an "F" word?

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
6/16/2005 4:22 am

Mysticwriter88, there are always others who aren't looking with a clear set of glasses ~ all of ours are coloured by xperiences and other factors.

I've been told ~ both in mails and in chat ~ that my blog is the laughing stock of here and doesn't belong, also an employee of ~this friendly site~ told me (and yes, I asked him to repeat in case I had misunderstood) that 'there was no point to my blog, or me'.

I've almost deleted my entire blog a few times, and sometimes still want to. But I also get other mails and messages... of the peepz who like my blog. Like Mr_sweetness states: we read you and like your blog... if someone doesn't .... sod off, go read other blogs and leave us be.

[ size 0] keep on blogging

stickit77 39M

6/15/2005 10:11 pm

now you are a few closer to your goal of being no. 1 on the "leader board" hooray, hooray....

stickit77 39M

6/15/2005 10:07 pm

one more thing, it sounds like to me you dont like women that have recreational sex, so you call it. well bud, look around. why are you here? play on playa, playa play on

stickit77 39M

6/15/2005 9:57 pm

i still aint through, and about the telling the harassment team, what the fuck ever. yeah i can see them kicking her off for calling you a player and a liar. u need to get laid , bad

stickit77 39M

6/15/2005 9:52 pm

nobody owes u shit dude. grow some nuts man. talk shit like that to somebody will give it right back. not a lady who may have upset you by mistake. pull the fucking tampon out your ass and see much better

rm_bella_ 47F
4030 posts
6/15/2005 9:03 pm

You are without a doubt not a player. You are sincere and sweet. You have a sensibility about you without the years of experince that usually accompanies it. I would ignore the comment entirely. It is so far from the truth. Be your sweet self and don't alter a thing...those who have had communication with you know what is truth.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
6/15/2005 7:24 pm

I never thought you a player either, mystic.... I have enjoyed learning a few things from you as well.... but, a player, I don't think that you are.....



LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/15/2005 6:59 pm

Yeah I protest a lot, I am not fond of someone making a snap judgement of me m'lady. If I want to play a game, I will go play a Xbox game in my bedroom. Playing a game with actual people is disgusting and cruel! My brother and sister were players when they were younger. I have done a lot to "not" follow in their footsteps and do not like being called something they are!

areugame4 46M

6/15/2005 6:42 pm

WOW... But would do my own wording! Or else I am going tp be known as that cocky arrogant fucked ass hole.... which ummm? NOT

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/15/2005 6:09 pm

You said… “The fact you are on the most popular list you must be a player and a very good one”.

I take it that you are calling me and all of the popular bloggers players?

You obviously have not read my blog… it is mostly sexual information and philosophical analogies. Out of my 309 posts, probably 200 of them are strictly sexual techniques from what I have studied or personally believe.

You obviously only read my most recent posts and made an assumption based off what you recently read. There is an old saying… “Assumption is the mother of fu**ups!”

I think you owe many of the bloggers and myself an apology?

None of us are players!

Mr_sweetness 44M
2599 posts
6/15/2005 5:42 pm

Do not worrie dude i read your blogs and no way do you come across as a player...always have interesting blogs...keep up the writeing..and flirting is harmless does not make any one a player...Peeeeeeeeeace

Peace, cause there is to much violence and blood shed in the world!!

Love, cause there is to much hate in the world!!

Happiness, cause it feels good and life is to short to be mean and unhappy all the time!!

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/15/2005 5:39 pm

I am very open about the fact I am picky...

A player will take any piece of ass that he can get!

I must make a correction...

I have discussed sex with several women. We discussed books and Asian arts though. It was a educational conversation and not a sexual conversation in the way you are accusing me of.

I still have never gotten an email from a woman with the topic of sex within it. Mostly women wishing me luck in my search for the perfect woman and such.

I clearly state that I am not looking for a one-night stand and that I have no interest in a woman that sleeps around with numerous men.

I will literally not even associate with a woman that sleeps around in a recreational manner!

I am a man, not an animal!

If they want to be a animal, then let them. I will not lower myself to such childish actions though. Sleeping around is very dangerous in numerous ways.

I believe very firmly in the following... "Ejaculation without purpose is a waste of spiritual energy".

newforyou29 42M/40F

6/15/2005 5:38 pm


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