Personality types... How do they effect your relationship?  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
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6/16/2005 6:52 pm

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Personality types... How do they effect your relationship?

Personality types…

I was angry when I first began researching my personality type. It declares that we absolutely love “sexual basics”. I then realized that this would apply to making out and kissing and making love. I am no longer upset about it after I realized that. Many also mention that we are extremely passionate lovers… makes sense seeing as though we love the basics.

It also mentions that we do not find attraction often… when normally get struck by “love at first site” or do not have an attraction at all. I hate that fact, but can say it is true. I have not very many women I have such an attraction for at all. We are big time saps… luckily women do not know though that we are in love with them before we even approach them. If women actually knew this then I guarantee some would play us since they know we would not object. The passion we carry is a great thing, but love at first site is not, not unless the woman returns it to a degree.

What are the strengths and weaknesses of your personality type when it comes to relationships?

I can actually only think of three women so far that I have been really attracted to. A lot of cute ones… but only three I can safely say I desired enough to have sex with them.

Never acted on it though

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/17/2005 8:08 pm

Yeah, I like that to Juju... very good point Starlight!

juju34single 46F

6/17/2005 5:19 pm

Oh... I LOVE the way she thinks!

juju34single 46F

6/17/2005 10:20 am

That is interesting, Mystic, since I have always hoped to meet someone like you, who not only would be able to stimulate my physicality, but my mind and spirit as well.
Curses distance as a serious pain in the posterior
as I continue to research ancient Rome and Greece

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/17/2005 5:38 am

A guy like me has been searching for a gal like you for a long time Juju... if only I was your type and you lived closer...

juju34single 46F

6/17/2005 12:55 am

I am an IFSP Introverted Sensing Feeling Perceiver

The last three words of that there mouthful say alot in themselves. Sensing, Feeling and Perceiver. In the manifestation of those words, I am highly empathic, and sensitive to who I am with.
I can have a tendency to pay more attention to the one I am devoted to, and lose track of what I need, and I am a peace maker, I hate fighting, and will try to help friends with ideas about how to get out of trouble constructively, and how to stay out of trouble. lol

The part about me I almost hate is the fact that when I am with someone, I give everything. I can't hold anything of my self, or inner self back, and if I feel that I need to, I don't give anything. I am an all or nothing kind of woman.
I find that it is a easy way to get hurt, especially if I get involved with people like my exes. I was unlucky enough to find men that were interested in nothing past their noses, if you know what I mean. I tend to approach love/relationships with an innate innocence that really seems to get me into alot of trouble (as in getting hurt alot).
On the flip-side of that intense dislike of how easy it is to hurt, I know that when and if I am able to meet the one that would be happy with someone that is faithful, honest, honorable, funny, educated and likes working on cars that will be a happy man, and I will be jsut as happy...ok, modesty button just toggled on... (lol)

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