Ladies/Gentlemen: How Do You Feel About This?  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
2/26/2005 5:27 pm

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Ladies/Gentlemen: How Do You Feel About This?

Recently one of my friends has been having problems with her boyfriend...

The problem is that he masturbates to pornography oppose to wanting to have sex with her. I mean it seriously, he actually prefers to watch pornography oppose to having sex with her.


What would you do in this situation?


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
2/27/2005 5:15 am

I agree with your opinion of it's role in a relationship. I tryed to make it clear to her that the way he is using it is as a substitute and that is not ok. She is to stubborn to listen to me though LOL.


ExcitedSenses 38M

2/27/2005 12:54 am

If there was a woman I liked in front of me and some porn, I'd take the woman every time. If there was just porn, well hey, do you blame me if I'd take the porn? That said, she needs to find a guy who reciprocates her need for sex. Tell her to sign up here and come and find me


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
2/26/2005 5:46 pm

My advice was rather simple really, I told her to get out of the relationship. No woman deserves to be with a man who apparently has no desire for her. Staying in a enviorment like that can result in mental abuse over time and lower her self-confidence.


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