I will never understand some people  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
6/25/2005 8:53 am

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I will never understand some people

I really can not stand some people…

These hot shot people who get a master degree or such… they think they know everything.

I must be honest… modern day schooling is about memorization abilities more then it is philosophical abilities. A lot of people can memorize a lot of information, which does not truly mean that they know what it really means on multiple levels. Tests focus more on factual information then they do the complex psychological ones.

America is really the biggest practice of these issues.

Monks are some of the most powerful scholars that exist in the world. They do not have degrees at all and yet that does not change the fact that they can outsmart virtually any human being that crosses their path. They seek knowledge and do not need a little piece of paper to hang on the wall to show them how smart they are.

I recently came across a woman who read my Q & A blog. She tore me a new one because I did not mention the medical aspects of why women can not orgasm. Well, anyone who has followed my writings has seen me write very specifically on that subject on several occasions. My Q & A were, and I quote, “Quick and easy answers that do not involve the complex workings”. I wrote it as a quick reference guide and nothing more.

She responded, “I have a Ph.D. in female sexuality and therefore you should not ever speak about these issues unless you have a degree to match it”.

Needless to say, her degree only covers the American teachings. When I asked her about the other Hindu and Chinese beliefs… she knew nothing of them. America is not the entire world… many other countries have very different beliefs. In order to know female sexuality, one should know the arts from around the world and not just the narrow-minded arts that (most) Americans know and follow.

The most famous and obviously highly known sexuality instructors and sex therapists all come from outside of the United States. They do not even have sexuality degrees! The world’s leading female orgasm and female ejaculation specialist has a law degree and not a sexuality degree. She learned after getting her degree that she did not enjoy it much. Later she experienced what tantric sex was. After that experience she decided that she wanted to learn more and then teach others.

The point being… most degrees don’t really mean anything at all. To think that our modern society allows people to do things with only a requirement of needing a piece of paper is rather appalling!

Much of sexual functions are within beliefs and understanding those different beliefs. The brain provides more sexual functioning then out genitals do. Most sexual dysfunction can happen on a psychological level and not a physical level. I would trust a run of the mill psychologist to give me sexual advice before I would trust an actual doctor to give me advice.

Sex really breaks down to a serious philosophical tie. It is not about right from wrong, it is about understanding both the human body and the mind. However, every body and mind you encounter will be different and thus you must have the ability to be understanding of each and every person you might give advice to or actually have sex with.

juju34single 46F

6/26/2005 1:06 pm

funsailor, if you don't like his posts...MOVE ON!
Just because he doesn't have a piece of paper doesn't really mean diddly. I have seen some doctors that don't deserve their 'papers'.
For the most part, there is no schools that offer courses in what he knows, so he took it upon himself to learn on his own.


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/26/2005 5:47 am

I think you missed how many women I have fooled around with. I have experienced absolutely everything aside from intercourse and many of my readers know that.

Second... do you realize how many sex books I own and have studied?

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/26/2005 5:42 am

Funny thing is... a lot more women have agreed with my theories then they have disagreed.

A lot of women have disagreed with my theories on politics, but not on sexual techniques.

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