Grr @ Women (Some of them, not all of them)  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
6/27/2005 4:26 pm

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Grr @ Women (Some of them, not all of them)

I have re-posted this above... I have been yelled at for deleting posts or comments in the past therefore I will leave them here. This is in reference to "separating the girls from the real women."

guynamedjim 58M
728 posts
6/28/2005 8:58 am

It so sad that in maturing understanding in her part took backseat to play games. Question lingers why?

patsam69 51M/51F

6/28/2005 8:21 am

I think it was just her way of flirting with you.. You are taking it the wrong way.

lustmirror 63M
2897 posts
6/28/2005 8:00 am

.....I would suggest that your company adopt a procedure, whereby all packages without sender information are intercepted at the entry point and denied, if the policy and previous experience are as you say.
.....I assume this entry point exists, as management did indeed know of the package, and somehow deduced that the sender was you, and felt stongly enough about the incident to threaten termination.

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/28/2005 7:19 am


I am only 23, not much older then her.

If I know better at my age then so does she at hers!

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/28/2005 7:18 am

I would have to say, even though I told her I sent them, I still gave without needing anything in return. I rejected what was offered and did not play into her childish game.

freetime648 52F

6/28/2005 7:11 am

Wow...that one stings a bit. First what she had "tried" to do to you Mystic and then guynamedjim saying that women are being "trained". It is alot more complexed than me. But, Mystic, not talking to this girl just shows her that you are like the other men who have poo-poo'd on her. And obviously, you are defenitely not like them. You should have gently called her on it and explained how you felt about it all. Sorry that that had to happen.

xx FREETIME648 xx

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/28/2005 5:45 am


I was told by the personal manager that I had to tell her I sent the flowers or I was to be fired.

They had a stalker inncodent about 6 months before at a store about 40 miles from where I work. A customer was stalking a female employee and because i sent the flowers without my name on it they called the police.

I was unaware of the stalking incodent that had happened. Had I known that I would not have sent the flowers even though I wanted to.

By telling her that I was the one who sent them, it cleared everything up so she would know that she was not be stalked by someone.

guynamedjim 58M
728 posts
6/27/2005 10:14 pm

I would of done the same thing in presenting the flowers! Sad women today being trained this way, and neglecting their true inner beauty.
Indeed it is the difference worth celebrating and nurtured. Men are not stepping stones.

dancewithme29 46F

6/27/2005 7:55 pm

She's young. Blame it on the folies of youth. She just doesn't know better, was flattered and the only way she knew how to respond. With age comes grace and wisdom...Don't be angry about it...she did what she thought was right in her little naive 21 year old world.

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
6/27/2005 7:08 pm

I sent her a gift, and in return she threw something on the floor intentionally just to see if I would kneel down and pick it up for her.

That was what was insulting!

playfulwithyou33 56F
961 posts
6/27/2005 6:38 pm

Just what was it that she did? (maybe I'm missing something...but did she merely flirt with you?) (or was she getting nekkie and that offended you?) I AM SO LOST.

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