Family can be a Royal Pain in the Arse...  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
8/18/2005 5:07 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Family can be a Royal Pain in the Arse...

I really have to love family… they always stick their noses where it does not belong…

My sister has a habit of thinking she is the greatest gift in the world…

She started going around asking questions to some local people about the girl I recently met from here…

She did not bother asking me but instead started talking to people behind my back…

The last time her and I went out she stayed over but I slept on the floor instead of sleeping in the bed with her…

The following morning my sister made the comment that people don’t sleep in the same room together unless they are sleeping together. I corrected her and told her I slept on the floor but she just shot me a dirty look.

I remember just a few years back my sister went on a date with a guy right after we became roommates…

Him and her never even made it to lunch, instead she brought the strange guy right home and fu**ed him.

Then a few weeks later she met another guy and asked me if I would keep my mouth shut so that she could continue dating and fu**ing them both without me interfering.

I don’t know where she gets off trying to watch after me…

I have never done the partying and sleeping around that her and my brother have done…

I have taken the liberty of studying medical issues and sexual issues before I have even attempted to date…

The other night the girl I was seeing made it clear that she would not have stopped me if I had tried to sleep with her that night she stayed over…

And that is exactly why I slept on the floor…

It is not the first opportunity that I have had to have sex and it won’t be the last…

I don’t believe in sleeping around though unless I am in a relationship with someone and not just casually dating.

Regardless…

This girl got wind of the questions my sister has been asking and now she is no longer speaking to me…

It is not the first time this has happened and I am surprised it did not happen sooner…

The first time we met, I stayed the night and the following day my sister rifled through my bedroom till she found her phone number and then called to find out where I was.

I had not even been gone for 24 hours and she was already freaking out…

I think she needs to realize that I am not like her…

While her and my brother was out sleeping around and partying I was out volunteering my summers by working with disabled children at a Christian camp in Maine.

They have spent their whole lives fu**ing different men and women and I have spent my life helping children and women…

We all come from the same blood, but that does not mean we are actually the same.

I know that it is good my sister tries to watch out for me, but she is doing it all wrong…

It has just cost me a girl that I actually liked and had spent a lot of time with over the last month…

I guess it is in fact a good thing that I did not sleep with her a few weeks back…


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
8/18/2005 5:14 pm

I will try eventually... but with her not talking to me at the moment it is impossible...


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
8/18/2005 9:20 am

have you considered moving to your own place, away from your family? or installing a lock on your door so others stay out? just because they're family doesn't give them the right to go thru your personal stuff.

have you tried explaining to the girl about the fact you had nothing to do with your sister going around asking those questions (whatever they are)? i guess if she's not talking to you anymore, it makes it difficult. hopefully she's just feeling hurt right now, and in a couple days will calm down and realize that sending your sister out with questions is not in your character, and will start talking to you again.

hope everything works out for you.


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