LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
8/19/2005 5:31 am

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I am not a fan of cyber sex…

I did do it a little when I was 18/19 and was rather disappointed by it…

In order to do it correctly you need to be giving details to create a imagine within the person’s mind that you are talking with…

A lot of people lack the ability to give this kind of detail…

I think how someone cybers is a testament as to how they will be in bed…

A person who focuses on the little details and can express themselves will most likely be generous in bed and focus on making love…

A person who can not offer detail is probably just a wannabe pornstar that you settle with when nothing else is available…

There is no excuse for being bad at cyber…

It is not like you have to be a talented writer or anything…

You are just using words to describe what you would like to do with the person if you were actually there with them…

Someone should be able to describe how they have sex just as easily as actually doing it…

How do some of you other people feel in regards to this? Is detail better then just the "I wanna slam it in!"

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Treating Women Like the Goddesses that they Truly Are (Rough Draft)

Setting the Stage... "Different Ways to Arouse Your Partner" (4th Edition)

Acting like a Gentleman (3rd Edition)

A Blend of the Old and the New Intro (Rough Draft)

My Groups...

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~~Extreme Orgasms~~

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PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
8/20/2005 2:54 am

In cybersex the importance of detail is crucial. I enjoy cybersex mainly because I like pleasing my partner, but also as an exercise in creative erotica writing. I do, however, have a technique that enables me to masturbate while stil having both hands free for typing.

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
8/19/2005 12:10 pm

I love details as well dirty

No details means a total bore...

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
8/19/2005 9:49 am

i have done (had?) cybersex many times before. there are only a couple that i really enjoy that with... though i guess mine is just 'active imagining' while my partner is 'cyber sexing'. i tend to use both hands typing, and usually just store it all up in my mind to re-live later. i do agree, however, that the more detail you give the better. however, i do NOT think that you can equate how detailed you are to how good a lover you'll be in real life. some people are just not very verbose and can't express what's in their mind into words. i've found that the men i share cyber=sex experiences with are men that i am good friends with first, and we can talk of anything... it makes me comfortable with them, and then the attraction and interest is there too, so the comfort extends into other realms too.

um... hope this isn't too rambly a post... i'm falling asleep whilst typing. lol. goodnight, loyaltyandhonor.. and everyone else

btw: not sure if you enjoy reading 'fantasies' in the blogs, but i posted one about a week ago.

AlbertPrince 58M

8/19/2005 6:00 am

Ignore that previous post, it should have been - check outReal Life Cybersex

AlbertPrince 58M

8/19/2005 5:57 am

check out Random musings

DirtyLilSecret61 55F

8/19/2005 5:54 am

I love detail. I love verbalization. I love creating images in your mind with my voice and my words.


P.S. OH GREAT, the verification number for this comment is 666.

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