Can someone help...?  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
5/16/2005 7:03 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Can someone help...?

This is in fact a sex; swinger and personals site isn’t it?

This would mean that we are all here for different reasons…

Some may desire to seek out numerous sexual partners, some may desire to only find a few, and some may desire to only find just one.

It would appear that many over-look the “personals” part and only hear the sex and swinger part.

Furthermore many people seem to think that one can not know much about sex unless they have had sex with numerous partners or one partner for numerous amounts of time.

If this is true, then can someone please explain this to me…?

Based off that principal, then any person who has had sex should be able to decipher the following… and someone, who has not had sex, should not be able to decipher such text without the help of others.

“If she is a young girl, he should first put his hands on her breasts, which she would probably cover with her own hands, and under her armpits and on her neck.”

“If however she is seasoned, he should do whatever is agreeable to him or to her and fitting.”
- The Kama Sutra

The largest sexual organ in the human body is the brain…

“Those who are good physically and not intellectually are just lucky. Those who are good intellectually and physically are true lovers.” ‒ Sir Edward

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
5/18/2005 5:34 am

Sex and women have changed a great deal though. Men have changed a significant amount as well.

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
5/17/2005 5:18 pm

Well the one thing that makes it LESS amazing is that the main connecting factor between the ancient girl and the modern girl is that both...
.................are human.
................................some things aren't meant to change.

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
5/17/2005 11:50 am

Grr... I can edit a post, but I can not edit a comment.

I think your analogy is dead accurate. And to think, this was written several thousand years ago. That is also amazing!

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
5/17/2005 11:48 am

What I know does not matter, many have stated recently that due to the fact I have not had sex yet... my wisdom means nothing. Many have said that I should not even be commenting on the issue in general due to the fact I have not experienced it. Some have said that because I lack education... I am not capable of being able to understand such things.

Perhaps my ability to understand that in which I have never done is intimidating and offensive to many. I do not know...

I have never claimed to be better than anyone else. I hold myself to the same standards in which I hold anyone else to.

I do personally believe however, that anyone who has had sex should be able to naturally understand and communicate better then I. Otherwise they are proving that the are motivated by LUST and nothing more. Giving into LUST is cowardly, giving into passion is honorable.

rm_lovelyLady 64F
434 posts
5/17/2005 11:37 am

Why should he should first put his hands on her breasts, which she would probably cover with her own hands, and under her armpits and on her neck?

Some of my thoughts on this would be - (and I gather this would be a joining of two lovers? for a sensual and loving experience)
If this is a first time experience, she would surely be unsure and embarrassed and try to hide her body…….

Not being experienced, she would not have knowledge of the body being a wonderful and beautiful thing……….. something not to be ashamed of………….

More reasons I can think of would be for making this first experience to be one to be remembered with love and of extreme pleasure. Going slowly, very slowly, and paying attention to all of the gentle sensations...

An experience of having a man 'Take' a woman, 'fast and hard' will not make her crave and desire more of that sort of treatment. Well, at least I can say for sure that is 'not' my idea of a good time.......

Going slow, giving pleasure, is, I believe, what we all crave. (It IS what I crave) Having someone pay attention to all of the small details, not rushing, but taking the time to mentally and physically give pleasure……. Paying attention to how she reacts to every touch and in that way, being able to stimulate her in the way She needs it……. Just the way she likes it………

I am also guessing that there are extremely sensitive nerves in the arm pits and on the neck ‒ just as there are in the nipples. There are nerves - that start in the nipples and go 'straight' to the vagina. That produce a craving and throbing that can only be satisfied with more stimulation............

mmmmmmmm yeah.......

So, even though she may be inexperienced, nature takes over and she will have a feeling of desire, if approached with Tender Loving Care, that will ultimately result in a feeling of completeness and desire for penetration……..

Although I am guessing you already knew this...........

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