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I noticed a recent comment on one of my blogs that I figured I would respond to separately…
I do not delete comments that provide a difference of opinion. A few of the women here have voiced a difference of opinion on some of my posts and I did not delete them. Instead we exchanged posts in an intellectual manner, which did not bother me at all. I do not like an argument, but I do love a mature debate.
Sometimes I post something that I am in the process of working on, and when I make a lot of updates to it I delete the old one and re-post the new “changed” one.
I do however delete comments that are of a crude nature; I do not tolerate abusive language or general treatment of women at any point in time. I mostly speak about treating women with greater respect. Negative comments on those types or blogs or articles I will not allow as it does not insult me but instead insults themselves. One guy posted a comment on my “treating a woman like the goddess she really is” and said he thinks it is crap because all he wants to do is fuck. That was probably the dumbest comment I have ever seen a guy openly post, he said that women deserve nothing at all but a good fucking.
The truth of the matter is that men treat women “in general” with about one billionth of the respect that they actually should be treated with. I can not change that, but if at some point in time I actually reach out and effect at least one guy then that to me makes all the time and effort worth it.
4/8/2005 8:04 am
Hello Mystic friend,|
I have read your deep insight and am inclined to agree with you a great deal.As a very "Victorian" woman I have forgone sex for a great many years..My children are grown now and I have decided that after 13 years of celebacy that I really miss the feeling of being held....Though I dream of the one partner who would worship me as did my father to my mother,I can't say I have found any out there...There are those who are looking for the quick satisfaction(without thought to the other),those who are attached looking to find a lost youth or find what THEY feel they are missing out on,or those who are so angry that all they want is to use and lose....where are those that you say are out there?
I am alone by choice but now I feel as though the gentleman of yesterday no longer exist.Thank YOU for putting into words what many of us wish to say....Maybe,if you are who you portray,there are others.