A Philosophical Look At Swinging...  

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
2/25/2005 1:48 pm

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A Philosophical Look At Swinging...

A Philosophical Look at Swinging


While it may seem that us helpless romantics are only into basic sexual stuff, I would have to say that is a bad assumption. I would love to meet a woman who would be open minded enough to be hammered on while I am kissing and caressing her upper body or licking her clit for added stimulation. I do not wish to double penetrate her, instead I am aroused by it because it is two very intense sexual emotions.

If I softly kiss her and fondle her the same way I would if making love to her then it would keep her very relaxed and makes her feel my love for her. If a man is hammering on her then she gets to feel the lust he has for her. That lust combined with my love is two very intense sexual emotions triggering all at once. It is possible that she could gain both a uterine and blended orgasm from the encounter, which is rare and maybe physically impossible according to my research, and yet theoretically possible.

This makes it tough because it is not something that I want to do very often. Maybe 3 or 4 time a year at most. It’s just something new to keep the fire going and excitement at its absolute peak. Even if all she wants to do is suck another man off while I watch I consider that to be very hot as well. It isn’t about the added person cause personally I don'’ want to see my girlfriend or wife fu**** by another man, I do however want to see her emotional reaction before, during, and after the encounter.

The really tricky part is finding a woman who can handle that and yet not want to suddenly up and leave you because she might have just found someone better.

Once I have my degree as a sex therapist I have intended on taking some time to look very closely at the swinging life. In all my studies I have yet to see sexual techniques documented for threesomes or higher. Most people I know who end up in those situations always only fu** each other and I think there could be more fun to be gained then just rough intense sex. I think there would be a great deal more women less nervous about multiple partners at once if they knew they would be getting caressed and fondled lovingly while still being shared by many guys.

The porn industry is again a horrible point of reference when it comes to this. In the porno’s most of the actors treat each other like animals during the group sex scenes. People see and imitate this, which is again very bothersome, because much of the true intense and intimate things sex has to offer are getting lost in history.

As a result doctors are once again proving that the truly intense sexual emotions women once got to experience are no longer happening. Many roman orgies were lovemaking orgies. They were “very” different then what you will find in xxx porn, they were more a soft porn kind of style.

The biggest point in my mind of a group sex encounter is the ability to have multiple men fondle and caress the women. Having a whole bunch of guys hands rubbing and pinching her body could very easily make herself soar and then in pain quickly. Now on the other hand, having 2,3,4 or more men all fondling, caressing, kissing, and massaging her could be a very intense thrill and possibly unlock a more powerful orgasm then yet documented. While one man making love to a woman could lead to extreme pleasure, imagine what it could do to have a group of men all making very intense and passionate love to that woman.

To be continued…


rm_badgirl84101 43M/50F

2/25/2005 10:59 pm

I love it that you feel it would be a turn-on. Thanks so very much. cant wait until you have more to say.


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
2/25/2005 4:35 pm

I am glad my analysis was acurate. I have never done multiples yet, so I had to speak straight from the brain that time. (Like pissing into the wind). I am glad I have some good philosophical abilities lol.


k'riouscouple 53M/46F

2/25/2005 4:07 pm

Mysticwritter88, you have hit it on the nose take it from us the way you described it is the only way to do it. There are plenty of woman out there who fantasize about it all the time, the trick is to get them to admit it. We do it about 3-4X per year and have the most intense sex. Good Luck - Need any advise feel free to write back


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