is there anyone out there?  

LovesPussy910 45M
11 posts
10/13/2005 8:18 am

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is there anyone out there?

Ok all you ladies .why is it were all on hear for a number of reasons. and yet no one replies to you winks or letters. im starting to think this is just a scam to get money from us.dont get me wrong now. i just want a women to prove me wrong!

md_girl77 39F

10/13/2005 10:59 am

Ok, I can say honestly, I'm real....I get responses from people, but not much has panned out...check out my'll see....

dicegrrl 39F

10/13/2005 11:23 am

Oh it's real you just have to put some effort into it. Unfortunately you may need to start emailing people yourself instead of waiting to be approached. I'd refrain from winking because I personally have never responded to a wink. It's all I can do to keep up with my emails!

Good luck and Happy Hunting!

29cm76 40M
2 posts
10/13/2005 11:54 am


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
10/13/2005 11:54 am

Welcome to Blogville young man. As a resident old timer, I assure you that there are hoards of ladies in the wings. It's all in the approach and packaging.

[blog talldarkavg1]

29cm76 40M
2 posts
10/13/2005 11:56 am


brattygodess 39F
28 posts
10/13/2005 12:40 pm

I respond to most of the mail i get. I try to respond to the winks, and I have followed through on meeting quite a few people. So even though it seems like it could be a scam, and from what i've been told alot of the girls are flakes.. I have met some real people and had great sex with some so give the site a chance.

Rowan_Taltos 48F

10/13/2005 12:41 pm

Ok, it depends on who is doing the winking. If I get winked at and no followup email. I delete it. If I get an email first, I am more than likely to follow it up.

To be honest, some of the email's women get a scary if not downright illegal.

That's just mho.

spoldrtn812 51F  
1056 posts
10/13/2005 12:48 pm

yeah 910 we're here. I have met several people some, I'd like to forget. Just don't give up, show the goods. let them ask to see your face. I've been here off and on 6 years. I can count on one hand the number of "keepers". Overall, I have enjoyed some fun feeble attempts, but the good far outweighs the bad!

Please, Sign my Guestbook Screw me!

UtterlyLuscious 30F

10/13/2005 1:24 pm

Count me in, write me a thoughtfull message, and you can guarantee one in response.


10/13/2005 3:36 pm

I'll tell you why dude but don't let it upset you. This site is like a fantasy shopping catalog to many,( not all )of the singles. and I really beleive that many, ( not all )of the ladies on here are shopping for a drop dead gorgeous guy with a perfect personality,more money than he knows what to do with,and a perfect fairy tale life waiting for them.For the third time,not all are looking for that but most are.It's pick & choose on here like a kid in a candy store with plenty of time and money. That sounds bitter but no, just stateing the facts.

Ladyblue85 58F

10/13/2005 3:39 pm

I have been here a year.... as a woman, I am overrun with mail and winks. To me, a WINK is just a guy showing me he's interested. I ONLY reply to the wink after checking the profile, then send an invite if I am INTERESTED in him. As far as letters.... I only respond to those guys who have obviously taken the time to read my profile COMPLETELY and actually understand what I am looking for, AND they write "respectable" letters of interest. If someone writes sending a full blown story of pure porn fantasy, or telling me how good my "pussy will feel filled with his large cock that spews quarts of cum"...... sorry. Turns me off. Also, because I do have somewhat of a life off of AdultFriendFinder, I do not like to be pressured to rush to meet someone. The best thing for a guy to do once he's made it into someones network -- KEEP IN TOUCH but be repsectful and dont push to meet the woman immediately.

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