To all the girls I've never loved before  

Lover_and_Lady 42M/45F
28 posts
5/15/2006 2:04 pm

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To all the girls I've never loved before


Lover here. Apparently my presence needs to be felt on this space. I write sporadically mostly because I only write when I have something to say. Here goes something.

The last few days I've been searching through this site checking out local women. Since we are looking for mostly single bi women that leads to me to view almost all the local women in hopes they will agree to join us in our quest for mind blowing sex. In looking at the profiles I notice a couple irregularities.

A lot of women say they aren't looking for "one night stands". That's fine. Respecting people is important and you don't want anyone to feel like a piece of meat. But every situation is a one night (or afternoon, or evening) stand until you meet for a second time. Sometimes things click for a first meeting and nothing after that. It's sad but true. Women that say that they don't want one time situations almost seem like they want to control the future. But I try to live for the moment. C'est la vie.

Why do women come to a sex-focused personals site for love?? I have come across multiple profiles where women want to find their soul mate. Awww that's sweet. But this place is for fucking. Did you not look before you did your profile? There are plenty of dating and romance sites out there. Hell AdultFriendFinder has affiliated sites. If a anyone contacts you on here 99 times out of 100 (really it's 100%, I'm just messing with you) it's for sex. And that's the way it should be. That's what the site is here for. Do you go to McDonald's for fine dining? I doubt it. It's the same thing. Form follows function. Sex site = sex seekers.

Mislabelling. The number of women who list themselves as bi when they aren't is irritating. If you want women say so. If the thought of being with another woman does not interest you why put on your profile you're seeking couples or single women? That's false advertising. I know most people don't take the time to read these profiles (judging by the number of single men who message us, it ain't happening fellas), but we do. Be honest about these things. And for you ladies who are bi or bi curious say so on your profile. I see just as many (if not more) profiles that don't say they are looking for women or couples but the text box has them saying they'd like to try it. Go wild here ladies. Be honest and put anything that interests you. I guarantee more will cum .. I mean come from it.

I'll end off my rant here. I hope this doesn't sound anti-woman at all. Clearly I enjoy the company of the fairer sex. But I just see some roadblocks to that. With your help we can end these injustices with a nice female dominated orgy with one lucky male thrown in for kicks (ME!).

We are accepting candidates now. Get in touch with us for fun, Fun, FUN!

No false advertizing there.

saddletrampsk 54F

5/15/2006 2:29 pm

Hope you guys find what you are looking for..


Lover_and_Lady replies on 5/15/2006 8:40 pm:
Thanks. And to you too.

crazygurl2xx 56F

5/15/2006 2:40 pm

Why do women come to a sex-focused personals site for love??

hm...why do men come looking for the same thing?

at some point they can be bound together. apparently the women here want a sexually focused love affair of whatever duration.

so ok, you have love with your lady and you're looking to play...good for you.

to each their own.


rayoctober 46M
11 posts
5/15/2006 2:41 pm

Great perspective.


Lover_and_Lady replies on 5/15/2006 3:01 pm:
Thanks. I call 'em as I see 'em.

spacecadet561 59M

5/15/2006 2:59 pm

I've noted before that this place needs more icons. I have the opposite problem: someone shows up in chat with an interesting handle, I go to her profile and she's looking for women. Maybe we should compile lists and exchange them periodically.

SpaceCadetรน


Lover_and_Lady 42M/45F
25 posts
5/15/2006 8:39 pm

    Quoting crazygurl2xx:
    Why do women come to a sex-focused personals site for love??

    hm...why do men come looking for the same thing?

    at some point they can be bound together. apparently the women here want a sexually focused love affair of whatever duration.

    so ok, you have love with your lady and you're looking to play...good for you.

    to each their own.
You might have missed the part where I said "There are plenty of dating and romance sites out there. Hell AdultFriendFinder has affiliated sites."

If women (or men) are here looking for love or their soul mate I wish them the best of luck. I just think the majority of the time all they're going to get out of it is screwed.


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