Not getting serious responses  

LovemyJaguar 50M/34F
3 posts
4/26/2006 11:42 am

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5/19/2006 7:04 am

Not getting serious responses

Ok. I know I probably sound like a rude, inconciderate bitch on this one, and hey, it could very well be that no on is really interested, and I would be fine with that. Maybe it just takes some time to really get something out of this site. But it seems to me that people are not apt to respond to communication attempts. I would think that since you signed up on this site, that the goal would be to meet people to hook up with or whathaveyou. And if sent an e-mail, or a wink, or an invite that out of common courtesy, would respond with a very simple, non-time-consuming "NO" or "NOT INTERESTED". Rather than to leave that person to seem like a desperate stalker type...Standard Contacts could not be working, the e-mail or invite may not have gone thru could be any number of things..... if you just "don't respond" then how am I supposed to know if this whole thing is working?!?!?!? I don't usually have such a bad attitude, but I didn't sign up for this to look at pictures all day....

angel19641964 54M/52F

4/26/2006 12:06 pm

Your profile is very, very limiting. We have looked and Emailed single women in our area for months without response. We have also talked to many couples and met with dozens and have found that only one out of about 15 of those we are intested in the benefits part of a relationship. Now for the positive side. The couples that we have "hooked up" with have become such close and very hot friends that it has made the search worth it all. You may want to consider meeting with couples and trying those in their mid 30s to 40s there are a lot of extemely hot bi ladies that are married with children.

cyncy66 48M/50F

4/26/2006 1:26 pm

I'm going to have to agree with the previous posts. We originally started looking for the single female to join us as well. We have discovered that she is a very rare occurance. While the FFM 3some is still strongly desired, you must understand that it isn't going to come knocking quickly. Give a few couples a try. You may run into a couple that you become close enough with to have the female play with you alone. Eliminating the largest portion of our population is simply too idealistic.

LovemyJaguar 50M/34F
2 posts
4/27/2006 7:49 am

Thank you so much for your responses. I'll keep all of that in mind...I guess I just have an "Instant Gratification Complex". Then again, as a woman, who doesn't?!? The thing is that my man isn't going to go for the whole "other meat" thing....So I guess I'll just keep my fingers crossed, and wait for the right woman to come along!! Thank you guys again

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