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EVERY WOMEN is an Ethical Slut !!!
EVERY WOMEN is an Ethical Slut !!!
(READ the WHOLE thing FIRST before YOU BITCH at ME !!!)
I couldn't sleep and did some light reading to educate myself and other women that are consider a SLUT, but they are misinformed.....
In the 1950’s an old black and white ‘Tammy and the Bachelor’ that was played by Debbie Reynolds.
Yeah my father force it on me, he though and now looking back and what I see on T.V. those were appropriated for my eyes or any little girl should watch.
Remember or being remember through a dream of Debbie Reynolds co-actor making a comment on her navies small mind she had. She was label as ‘Free written Page’ meaning ‒ a student and a seeker of knowledge.
That I am or everyone else is that are learning this new life styles and just bored with them selves or their partners but they still love each other to try anything to keep that spark going, that eternal flame of passion with in their own soul.
My conversation with ………… I mention the word to label me as if I did bounce around to different men as a Slut. That how women are view, for a man he’s consider a Stud.
History on the word Slut, Where did that word come from:
Today English ‒
Slut is a pejorative term for a sexually promiscuous person (usually females), more than is deemed socially acceptable. The term has traditionally been applied to women and is generally used as an insult or offensive term of disparagement.
Slut is also a slang term in the polyamorous and gay and bisexual communities. It may be used by the person concerned as an expression of pride in their status, or as an expression of enviousness in their "success rate" by others.
Your History Lesson ‒
Although the ultimate origin of "slut" is unknown, it first appeared in Middle English (1402) as slutte (AHD), with the meaning "a dirty, untidy, or slovenly woman." Even earlier, Chaucer used the word "sluttish" (c.1386) to describe a slovenly man; however, later uses appear almost exclusively associated with women. Another early meaning was "kitchen maid or drudge" (c. 1450), a meaning retained as late as the 18th century, when hard knots of dough found in bread were referred to as "slut's pennies." In the 19th century, the word was used as a euphemism in place of bitch in the sense of "a female dog."
The modern sense of "a sexually promiscuous woman" dates to at least 1450; but this sense of the word appears to derive from another definition, "a high-spirited woman or girl" in the non-sexual sense. A notable example of this use is Samuel Pepys's diary description of his servant girl as "an admirable slut" who "pleases us mightily" (February 1664).
Similar words in appear in Dutch, German and Swedish dialects meaning "a dirty woman," indicating a common ancestor in Germanic languages. A popular theory connects "slut" to earlier Germanic forms meaning "slush" or "mud puddle," but this derivation remains in question. Please note that the word "slut" used in modern Swedish means "ending".
So I looked further in to the word and I found my favorite word…..
• Hoe and Whore
• The Ethical Slut
Hold on there……Ethical Slut, I got to press this link.
The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities (ISBN 189015901, written by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt (a pseudonym of Janet Hardy), discusses how to live an active life with multiple concurrent sexual relationships in a fair and honest way such as how to deal with the practical difficulties and opportunities in finding and keeping partners, maintaining relationships with others and strategies for personal growth. According to their principles, "a slut is a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you."
Although the term used most frequently in the book, other than slut, is "consensual nonmonogamy," many practitioners of polyamory, swinging, open marriages and other forms of open relationships consider The Ethical Slut to be a crucial guidebook to putting their lifestyle into practice. It contains chapters discussing how consensual nonmonogamy is handled in different subcultures such as the gay and lesbian communities, information on handling scheduling, jealousy, communication, and conflict in relationships as well as diverse issues such as etiquette for group sexual encounters.
The Ethical Slut was first published in 1997 by Greenery Press.
For all you Women out there, as I’m learning every day of my life and so are you. If anyone calls you a SLUT as I once did many times before for the ‘Freely written Page’ of being non-educated that I was on the word SLUT.
Now I’m am Educated and so are you, if anyone calls you SLUT they are ill-ly educated for it’s Ethical Slut.
You’re a Higher Class of a Life Style…..in a Ethical Sense.
3/31/2006 4:11 am
3/31/2006 8:09 pm
Society......societies rules and laws.....who are they really created for? Not me....i have my own laws and ethics...Society....Bah! We always are quick to judge and label what we do not understand or agree with....what makes the leaders of society able to do this? bah! double bah! Call me a slut...i would be happy to own it...knowing that it was something that someone else did not want!|
4/1/2006 2:33 pm
A very edifying post ... thank you.|
look forward to reading more.