The blog as a weapon  

LongFrank9 58M
7 posts
7/29/2005 11:59 am

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The blog as a weapon

Has anyone else had the unfortunate experience of being the target of a blog on here?
A person I became involved with has decided to use her blog to attack me in a very personal way,posting things that have no basis in truth whatsoever,in an attempt to ruin my reputation.
I treated this person with kindness,compassion,tenderness and honesty. Never did I give her cause to think twice about becoming involved with me. Never did I lie to her about expectations,I listened with an open mind and heart to all her fears and concerns and try to allay them to the best of my ability.
We met twice for conversation,and then twice for really wonderful intimate times. Then she decided that she had had enough,and cut me off without another word. I emailed her,telling her I accepted her decision of course,and there were no hard feelings. I posted a very complementary note on her blog. And then came the blow up. I posted another note on her blog,and she then accused me of threatening her,trying to intimidate her,and a host of other REALLY off the wall accusations. She contacted AdultFriendFinder and then posted this long rambling untruthful blog entry about me.
Blogs can be a great thing,they really can be. But in the wrong hands they can also become a weapon. So beware who you meet,beware who you trust,because it may come back to bite you in the ass. Has anyone else suffered this same fate?

redmustang91 57M  
8599 posts
7/29/2005 12:56 pm

Blogs contain opinions, and like noses, everyone has one. Sorry it did not work out but that describes most human meets and attempts to form a relationship. Next.

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
7/29/2005 1:41 pm

Mostly when things turn bad there's a severe breakdown in communication... Apparently you and the lady don't share the same opinion (as redmustang91 pointz out so nicely) about the events that occurred

maybe just close that chapter and start another one?

LongFrank9 58M

7/29/2005 4:05 pm


Chapter closed,and yes,time to start another one.
It bothers me so much,because she not only blew things completely out of proportion,but because she impunged my integrity and my character.
Thank you by the way for reading my blog and posting a comment,I appreciate that.

_CoffeeNoCream_ 52F

7/30/2005 8:55 am

Frank....always listen to a Goddess

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