The taste of things to cum (or the great spit or swallow debate)  

LondonDerriere 36F
1281 posts
6/15/2005 10:55 am

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The taste of things to cum (or the great spit or swallow debate)

Have to say that this one has always confused me a bit. The way I see it is that the female world splits into two camps, those that do give head and those, for whatever reason, who don't.

Those of us who fall into the 'do' camp can be further split into those who will let a man cum in their mouth and, again for whatever reason, those who won't. I have a very good friend who is in the latter category. She loves to give guys blow-jobs, she's quite happy for them to cum all over her but, based on the one time she did let someone do it, she won't let a guy cum in her mouth because she doesn't like the taste.

OK so far, I can accept the arguments and points of view up to this point but then I get confused.

Assuming that, like me, you are one of those girls who is happy to let a guy unload in your mouth, what is the point of spitting it out? I mean, it's in your mouth already isn't it? Spitting it out isn't going to get rid of the taste any more than swallowing it and, if you don't like the taste, why on earth do you let him cum in your mouth in the first place.

Ok, so I know there are some guys who promise to stop before they do and who don't keep their promise (it's happened to me and I'm sure it's happened to most girls in the cock-sucking fraternity at one time or another) but, assuming it's all consensual and you are in control; and from experience I have to say that a woman who has her lips wrapped around a guys dick has an enormous amount of control over him ; then why, if you don't like the taste or texture of cum, do you let him do it?

I'll be the first to admit that a guy's juices aren't up there on my list of favourite flavours and, in the vast majority of occasions, a blow-job is just a way of getting him in the right frame of mind to fuck my brains out but occasionally, as a treat, I'll forgo my own pleasure just for him (it's a good way of banking favours) and, if he wants to cum in my mouth, well, so be it and, I swallow. If nothing else, it's a hell of a lot easier to clean up afterwards.

So, I guess my question is, if you're going to let a guy cum in your mouth, why spit? What is the point?

rm_eberly930 49M/51F

6/15/2005 12:10 pm

Personally, I wouldn't let any guy cum in my mouth, LOL. My wife swallows and my girlfriend did it for the first time last week, so I guess I pick my "friends" carefully, lucky me!

On the other hand, my wife tells me that her lover's cum tastes better than mine, in general. Of course, what you take into your body affects the flavor of semen (smoking, alcohol, & asparagus=bad --- pineapple juice, juices, etc=good).

rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
6/15/2005 1:16 pm

I don't know why anybody would want to spit it out. I would think that's part of the eroticism of sucking a cock, having it spurting cum in you mouth. I know that when my wife orgasms and squirts, I love to have her squirt in my mouth. Maybe I'm just a male slut!

expatbrit49 62M

6/15/2005 1:30 pm

The best answer I read on this question of swallow or spit was: "it depended on if she had clean sheets or not" LOL

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

yknotforme 46F

6/15/2005 1:36 pm

I didn't realize until being told by several sorority sisters in college that I wasn't suppose to swallow. Needless to say it was one tidbit of advice I did not take to heart. Personally I love everything about giving a blow-job. It is just one of many ways to give pleasure and also for me to enjoy the person I am with.

Thank you also to eberly for stressing an important fact on taste. What you take into your body does affect the flavor so if as a guy you are wanting oral, be considerate.

SweetSouthrnGrl 44F

6/15/2005 1:37 pm

It is true...what a man eats/drinks affects his taste. Cranberry juice seems to sweeten the pot so to speak. You are right...if it is in your mouth why not just swallow. However, there are sometimes when it is just too bitter and the texture is just off that it has to be spat discreetly. The whole gag reflex takes over and that would be an even worse mess. I love the expression on my lover's/spouse's face when I swallow, and that earns extra banking points lol!

GentlemanLeisure 54M
192 posts
6/16/2005 3:24 am

well, this month is asparagus season in UK. Best lay off, though, if you're expecting a decent {=}...\8 - it's just impolite.
Anyone got an opinion on oysters, and how they affect flavour? Just curious...

Sillybeggars 45M

6/18/2005 6:09 pm

Since we are on the subject of giving and taking... maybe more taking than giving...! ....which has led to my question.... if you were to visit an overseas country such as portugal, turkey or cambodia where the limbless people areso entitled to any monetary entitlements, so should you find one begging on the side of a path/road... do you a) pass on by, b) give some of your hard earned cash or c) treat the person to a slap up meal d) give her/him the best blow job ever? Remember, it is all about giving and taking.... sometimes you will be rewarded for your faith but sometimes not. Which gives the greater satisfaction? Talk about jumping blind......

Sillybeggars 45M

6/18/2005 6:11 pm

gobshite! i meant no monetary entitlement.... thats what i get for playing with mr jack daniels! pardon me!

BattyLagerRemix 35M
5 posts
6/18/2005 10:12 pm

I noticed SweetSouthrnGrl already mentioned it but i have come to find that certion drinks do change the taste...or so i've been told. Orange Juice, Pine Apple Juice, and Cranberry Juice seem to get the best reaction so far.

theyankeerebel2 56M
8 posts
6/20/2005 3:14 am

Shelly, you can swallow me! It will all work out in the end.

rm_waterbaby595 58F

6/29/2005 4:21 am

I think the gag reflex has someething to do with it too. If a cock is too large, when he comes I gag and therefore I spit. It's not a conscious decision, it just happens. However, I was with someone last year who fit my mouth perfectly, and I could tell from his pre-cum that it tasted good, so I swallowed. Hard luck for the big boys with me though!

Ssq0 46M
4 posts
7/11/2005 4:42 pm

Shelly, thank you. I think the subject is just one of those things everyone has his/her opinion about. As a man I enjoy blow-jobs, I enjoy coming in a woman's mouth, and I like it when she swallows . . .but it isn't an necessity. If she enjoys it, I'm game; if she doesn't, she should not do it. And, I keep my promises
btw when I go down on a woman, I swallow too, it's impossible to orally please a woman without swallowing some of it, so why should I be akward about it?

rm_jcwhitingjr 46M

7/14/2005 4:07 pm

I think the best way to put it is, what is your first reaction to eating some food that tastes terrible? You spit it right back out.

For women I guess dealing with cum is the same thing. You don't really think about the fact that you can swallow it just as easily, you just want it out of your mouth.

ahandfulforu 59M

7/18/2005 1:22 pm

Yes, the ease of cleaning up is probably an important factor but who really thinks of that at the time. I can't. If both parties are prepared to go down on each other then its only fair to take what's on offer. I can understand the reluctance about taste, but that also applies to both parties.

sexsationalnow 37M/38F

7/18/2005 7:25 pm

Avoid smoking, drinking, asparagus, salty foods, most meat, coffee, curry etc etc etc. Basic rule of thumb is anything processed will make it taste worse.

Fresh fruit (& juices), water, salads etc will make it taste better.
This doesn't mean you have to forgo all the nice foods, just cut back and if you've got a date in a few days time - detox the body with some stuff you can get in the pharmacy.

Like most things, it comes down to clean, healthy living (don't get me wrong, I enjoy a few beers and the occasional smoke). You eat right, work out and you will look, feel and TASTE good!!

As for those who won't give oral at all (i'm including all those 'gents' who won't pleasure a girl) it's just down to social misgivings like everything else or a bad experience.

Smouldering_Eyes 43F
35 posts
8/31/2005 1:26 pm

Well, to be truthful, much as I enjoy going down on a guy (I love the way it turns him to putty in my hands), I generally prefer not to let it go that far, if for no other reason than the fact that I'll then have to wait dear only knows how long for him to recover enough to give me what I really want, namely a good, hard, mind-blowing fuck.

That said, I do occasionally like to give a guy a treat and, as Shelley has said, it's a good way of getting him to owe you a few favours. On those occasions where I do go the whole way with my mouth, I swallow (unless there's just too much of the stuff). Again, as Shelley has said, it's in my mouth anyway. And I agree that there's really not much point in trying to act all coy and innocent when you've had your lips wrapped round his shaft for however long it takes. Similarly, I also agree with the view that since we expect guys to have to put up with our juices when they go down on us then it's only fair to return the compliment now and again.

Mind you, I must say that guys seem to get the best out of this deal. From experience, girls do generally taste better; but hey, if nature wants to give us girls a natuaral advantage, who am I to grumble? Makes up for some of the other inconveniences we girls have to contend with.

Fi xxx

licks_pussy_ie 38M
2 posts
10/3/2005 2:12 pm

I definately find it extremely intimate and erotic when a girl swallows my cum. If it's your first time with him, then at least try it - if you don't like it, but still like to suck his cock, then let him cum either on your face or your breasts. The worst thing you can do is to dive out of the way as soon as he cums - nothing says "I didn't really enjoy it" than that. A guy wants you to enjoy what you're doing, and it's a big turn-off if you're not really into it.

BallymenaBabe 36F

10/8/2005 3:54 pm

It's one thing I've never had a problem with. OK, I admit that the first time it happened I almost choked but that was down to inexperience and the fact that I just wasn't prepared for it.

As Fi and several others have said, letting a guy cum in your mouth is a great way of getting him to owe you a favour (or several ).

As for the taste, well, I'll admit, there are nicer flavours but it's not really that bad although, as others have said, girls do tend to taste better (sorry guys, that's just the way it is ).

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