Regaine: A Reply  

LondonDerriere 36F
1281 posts
10/30/2005 2:01 pm

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Regaine: A Reply

regaine Regaine, thanks for the concern you showed in one of my other recent postings (Yes, I can confirm, I DO take it up the arse!!!), I'm genuinely touched, but, to be quite honest, you're completely wide of the mark.

Yes, granted, I have an exhibitionist streak, but it's got nothing to do with low self esteem. Quite the contrary. I just don't have hang ups about my body. There's also an element of, while I've got it, flaunt it. I don't have a clinical detachment but I know only too well that it won't be in this condition for ever. As for my photos, well apart from one, the others are (in my opinion) quite tasteful. And, if you've ever been abroad and wandered along some deserted beach (you don't have to go abroad though, there's some lovely bits of coast right here in Ireland), I'm showing no more than the people you might encounter there would display. OK, I'm being 'seen' by more people online than would ever see me in the same state on a beach but, the truth is, the people who view me here aren't really 'seeing' me. They're seeing my pictures and interpreting what they see and overlaying it with their own desires.

Nor is my sexual voracity (for the want of a better term) a result of having been hurt. The truth is that I enjoy sex and I'm not ready to settle down and commit myself to one person at this point in my life. I don't doubt that it will happen. It could be someone I meet tomorrow or it could be several years in the future. Until then however, I'm happy enjoying the freedom that being single and attuned to my own needs, desires and appetites brings. I'll admit, I did the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing when I was a teenager, when you think you're in love for at least 10 minutes but, let's be honest, it was mostly hormonal and we females are just as much a slave to ours as you guys are to yours.

I am, despite all appearances to the contrary, quite choosy about my sexual partners. It may seem hard to believe going on the evidence of my pages here but the other person does have to have some 'quality' that makes me receptive to them in the first place. I'm not just going to drop my knickers and hop into bed with just anyone and I'll agree with you insofar as e-mails with nothing but cock pics and line's like 'hey gorgeous, fancy trying this for size?' aren't going to get very far.

I think there is a very definite dividing line between exhibitionism and what you seem to think is the next step, i.e., prostitution. (If I've misunderstood you, I apologise.) Yes, I definitely have an exhibitionist streak. I've obviously posed for some photos (the one's on here were taken by a friend; I took some of her for her ad, and then she chickened out and never submitted them) and I've made a few home movies but that's about it. I've never accepted money to pose for pictures, nor have I ever accepted money to perform sex. OK, if you've read some of my other entries, you'll know I once gave a guy a blow-job for a packet of cigarettes but I was young and foolish at the time. Would I ever accept money to do these things, well the answer is probably not but, never say never. If someone was to offer me a seriously large sum of money (can't say how much, because I'm not going to put a price on myself) then (being brutally honest) I'd probably consider it and I think most people would. You can say that you'd never lower yourself but then, honestly, how easy is it to deny something that is almost never likely to happen? Similarly, I'm lucky that I have a home, friends and a loving family to support me but if I was homeless, penniless and starving, who knows what I'd be willing to do to survive.

But as I said at the beginning, I'm aware that this is a transitory stage of my life. I'm only 25 and I have (I hope) many years in front of me but, if fate should decide that that isn't the case then at least I can take some satisfaction that I've lived my life to date, to the full and on my own terms. The future will no doubt take care of itself.

So there you are, one of my more serious posts.

Take care,


nofun4one 71M

10/30/2005 9:25 pm

I think that your pics are just find and as far as I,m concerned there is a little exhibitionist in all of us. If it were up to me, I would never ware clothes. Well maybe when it gets a little cold outside.

Have a great day!

Choozmi 50M

10/30/2005 10:09 pm

My god, that was one of the most elegant and eloquent responses I've ever read on this board from anyone.

Shelley, more and more I am convinced that you are a very classy lady.

I also admire that you responded so civilly to such a judgmental and unfair comment as Regaine's.

I bet you have royal blood.

bobbydazzler69x 46M

10/31/2005 9:08 am

Everyone's a psychiatrist now and can't spot a clever dolphin, swimming along and having fun. I can believe what I like, can't I? I'll never know for sure. No one will. Ten fags- funny, anal sex pic... isn't that my penis from 2002? The pipes, the pipes are playing...

Carl Gustav Jung
PS.I reckon the girl from Edinburgh...

Loosetooth 41M
1146 posts
10/31/2005 10:00 am

Yeah tell him Shelley!!!!! I mean how can you judge a book by its cover? eh? eh? To look at my profile you would think I was a pretty boring, straight 30 year old and yet I am an utter whore with low self-esteem who sexually demeans himself for little money in order to find self worth. You gave a man a blow job for cigerettes? that is positive respectibility compared to the terrible things I have done (once - at bandcamp - I had an orgy with a load of women for nothing, no bloody reason whatsoever, free of charge, no fags, nothing). In fact Regaine you should come and save me (only don't). The only reason you aren't is cos of the photo on my profile, isn't it? Right that is it, I am putting up a naked photo of me with me legs spread....lets see where that gets me (arrested?). When I look at London's photos I just see a lovely catholic girl who has been bought up right!

My serious comment to this sorry affair is that Regaine's concern seems to be born out of the old cliche that women who indulge their sexual proclivities are damaged (after all women do not actually enjoy it do they?). Of course this smacks of that terrible tang of hypocrisy when it is expressed by a man who is advertising himself on a swingers site to a woman who is also avertising herself on a swinger site. Perhaps Reagaine's sympathy is born out of being sexually attracted to the delightful Shelley (Regaine she took those pictures 5 years ago, she had had 10 children by six different priests by now!!). If this is the case it is ominous that he would express his attraction by implying that Shelley is somehow damaged and he is her concerned friend. Perhaps his concern is real but that would beg the question as to why such a moral man is a member of this web-site? Also why that someone, who reads cod psychology into exhibitionist behaviour, uses a picture of himself clothed in his underwear so as to show off his semi (Regaine that better be semi-wood else its surgery for you boy!).

So what have we all learned, what will we take from this experience? Well Regaine has failed to 'pull' Shelley, or indeed initiate a friendship. A pity as a man with such an underwear wardrobe as he would doubtless bring much to such a woman as Shelley. We have learned about Shelley. Well we have learned that she is an intelligent, young woman, strong in her views and able to express them. Indeed she has added an extra dimension to herself. Such a pity. We were all loving the two dimensional page three-esque airhead and now she has gone and ruined it. Some things can never be fixed once broken and I am not sure if our relationship will ever be the same Shelley.

And what did I learn. Well I learned I am still a nosey twat with too much time on my hands and an internet connection. It is good to reaffirm your relationship with yourself every once in a while.

Good work done here today people. Good work!

GentlemanLeisure 54M
192 posts
10/31/2005 11:25 am

Erudite, charming and illuminating as always. Just how we like her...

BallymenaBabe 36F

10/31/2005 2:17 pm

Personally, I think her pics are particularly tasteful and in some inexplicable manner, manage to capture the essence of her personality. If you've ever been lucky enough to chat to her, you will know that she is a very witty, cheeky and fun loving person who has a zest for life that puts a lot of people to shame.

We're all here to have fun aren't we? And (sorry if this puts anyones nose out of joint) I'm particularly looking forward to having fun with Shelley when we meet up next weekend.


jacko695 47M

10/31/2005 2:46 pm

excellent response,well worded and to the point.nice pics too

donnie157 59M

11/1/2005 7:10 am

Thanks for clearing that up Shel. Will you marry me now?

silkysmoothlegs3 105F

11/1/2005 4:43 pm

Shelly............I would die for your body, dont you be ashamed to show it, if it offends anyone tell them to F>>> off. that silky said so !!!

You are a beautiful girl, and you have alot of admirers here in blogland , and im sure in reality too!! dont you let one person annoy you !!!

I love reading your blogg, keep up the good work

Love silky xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

emm 46M

11/2/2005 6:40 am

Was supposed to be "fun" and not "serious".....everybody can do that thing..."disecate" analyse somebody else.....Deal in the absolute....Wow...this is the AdultFriendFinder University...LOL...give it a "fuck" he will change his mind .....Viva la Vida.....i am not against nor for it i just DO NOT Care....If I would i won't bother with it.....

emm 46M

11/2/2005 6:42 am do my own inside "analyse" why should i need some one else to do it for me...don't bother to explain yourself shelley....keep going .."you way"...

rm_Marantz1972 44M

11/2/2005 12:50 pm

Regaine's not trying to pull a fly one and I'm sure you know that Shelly. If he was you kindly put the ball back on his side. I don't know, he made a point and you let him, which is pretty game and then the rest of us made something out of it, which apart from sex is possibly why we are all here. Keeps the ratings up. Though it got real there for a moment. I nearly lost my hard on there was so much blood on the screen. Emm's right, we could all do with a little less navel gazing, that is after all what THEY want.

Stillwaters18 - yeah I know what you mean our kid. In a single phase which lasted for over a year I started watching a lot of porn. It's so easy to get a hold off these days (no pun). Anyway, I realised two things happened to me in that superporno phase. I started getting 'porn eyes'. In other words - the scenes that I was taking in from the world around me all starting becoming part of a porn movie. I was watching so much I think it laid a track in my brain. This is not a happy situation at all. No matter how much I like sex, it's only sex after all, and after you cum the world is still the place that it is you.

More worryingly mate I started doing exactly what you said - getting out less and definately seeing less women. It was as if my urge to meet people was drying up because I could go home and wank to a DVD - so immediate, so 'real'. My sex drive started waning and I became less and less interested in the whole sensory realm.

So, needless to say, a few quick walks up the mountain and a bit of talking to myself and the porn went in the bin. Low and behold a few months later and the part-time love of a good lady and my chuck key began to turn again. But I never forgot. I made the conclusion that the best bit of casual sex is NOT knowing what is going to happen - whilst retaining a little INNOCENCE. I know, bit fucking much mentioning that word on this site, but why not. It's the biggest self-turn on, realising you have some purity left in the tank, even if you are a dirty bastard too.

Bit of a long answer, but hey so fuck eh! This is Shelly's world and for a moment we can all be real...

Good luck.

LondonDerriere 36F
157 posts
11/2/2005 2:05 pm

Thanks to everyone for their input on this. Actually, I wasn't having a go at Regaine for his views, nor am I angry with him. Each to their own and, as I said, I was genuinely touched by his concern.

The great thing about humanity is that we each have our own make up of quirks, views opinions etc. That's what makes us all individual and helps keep life interesting.

Anyway, enough of this seriousness, If you don't mind, I'll just go back to being a sex mad, exhibitionist airhead and forget this ever happened .


AlbertPrince 57M

11/3/2005 1:26 am

Good, now that you're back to the real you, call me?

Loosetooth 41M
1146 posts
11/3/2005 6:25 am

Hiya Shelley.....Rhino here!!!!!!

rm_twoup32 42M
41 posts
11/3/2005 12:07 pm

so does this sex mad exhibitionhist like to pose for amateur photographers? (seroius request here) i would love to make a profile up for u

maryjaneisgay 31F
7 posts
11/4/2005 7:00 am

Wow u make me hot
Sorry I didnt read but had 2 say sumthing about u

illfulluup 36M
3 posts
11/6/2005 9:55 pm

well i just want 2 say first of all that maryjane ur a waste of good meat 4 us men and it makes me sad 2 c such a fine lookin women waste her body on just women alone, u should give us men more time 2 c if we can at least get u back into the way of having the best of both worlds.
as 4 shelley well wot can any1 say about 1 of the most down 2 earth chicks around, it seems that wot ever any1 says about u or asks u,u hav an answer 4 everthing and not just an average answer at that but a witty 1 full of charm and thought.
i dont really hav a clue wot this blog is 4 on this page and dont care but just had 2 add a comment of sorts so that u can keep up with 1 of the biggest and best looked after and looked at blogs on the hole of AdultFriendFinder.
loved ur thoughts on the hole ireland thing and how some count killed ur car.
wud love 2 try an take u up the ass taking care as 2 wot u said about not just ramming it on in the back door, it wud b like the police trying 2 break a door in on some flat down the port.
besides id be scared of ripping some skin or getting my balls ripped of with a reach around, ha ha the thought even sends a chill down me nob.
how many times wud u dip a finger or so a week in that lovely pink bud of urs if u dont mind me tounge?

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