Debunking a myth  

LondonDerriere 36F
1281 posts
10/8/2005 1:16 pm

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Debunking a myth


I've heard any number of people make comments along the lines of, people who are bi-sexual are either too afraid to admit to being gay/les or simply can't make their minds up.

Now, I daresay, that there will be some people for whom the above statement is true. However, from my experience, for every 'bi-sexual' who is either too scared to come out or is simply confused there are numerous others, like myself, for whom being bi-sexual (or simply just sexual which is the term I prefer) is nothing more than a case of having our cake and eating it and enjoying the best of both worlds.

OK, so put a gun to my head and tell me that I had to choose between men and women and that I would have to live with that decision, without deviation for the rest of my life, and I would chose guys. Why? Well, while it's true that women are generally better when it comes to using their tongues and are, again generally, more willing to take their time and indulge in protracted foreplay the simple fact is that if you want a good, hard, kidney squelching fuck, you're going to need a man. A piece of plastic, no matter how anatomically correct, or indeed any other inanimate object, just doesn't cut it as far as I'm concerned. If they did, there just wouldn't be any use for guys, would there ?

Put simply, there are differences between the sex you can have with women and the sex you can have with men and I (and who knows how many others) love them both.

The other great thing about being bi-sexual is that it lets me indulge in what has to be (for me) the most enjoyable form of sexual expression and that is having sex with both a man and another woman at the same time. Having a woman's tongue on your clit while the man is thrusting inside you is, quite simply, guaranteed to give me the most mind blowing orgasms I've ever experienced. Girls, if you've never tried it, I recommend you do but, be warned, the chances are the other girl will expect you to reciprocate. It's only fair after all.

BallymenaBabe 37F

10/8/2005 3:46 pm

Shelley,

Glad to see that you're back. As always, your observations are as incisive as ever and I couldn't agree more. It's not about being undecided it's about enjoying the pleasures that can be had with a loving partner irrespective of whether they are male or female.

Men and women make love in different ways and being able to enjoy both is the truest form of sexual expression.

Take care,

Karin


donnie157 59M

10/9/2005 12:10 am

Awwwww Shelly... You always put everything in perspective.

And who cares what these words mean or what peoples theories are? In the 60's (the 1960's, not 1860's) we used to say: If it feels good, DO IT! Pithy, don't you think?


AlbertPrince 58M

10/9/2005 8:23 am

How about if I put a gun to your head and tell you to choose me?


LondonDerriere 36F
157 posts
10/9/2005 9:02 am

    Quoting AlbertPrince:
    How about if I put a gun to your head and tell you to choose me?
I guess a lot would depend on how many pices you wanted me to break your arm into when I disarmed you . Amongst my talents is the fact that I'm a blak belt in karate and have been since I was 15. I'm a little rusty mind you so I might not be as clinical as I was then.

Once I've finally completed my medical studies, I hope to get back into it properly and get my second dan.

Still, look on the bright side, I'd be able to set it for you afterwards .


vintage128 42M
1 post
10/9/2005 10:11 am

Hi Shelly,
Quite honest and sincere observations. Well, kudos to you and wish you all the best. I believe that people has no right to judge other peoples choices. Love ya babe.


IrishKev 40M
1523 posts
10/9/2005 4:11 pm

Would have to agree that you can definitely bi-sexual as my last girl was the same and had the same view that girls are good and all that but if she had to choose it would be men all the way. I've never really thought about being with a man but it would be dead handy and you would be spoilt for choice


rm_Gunnerbee 42M

10/9/2005 4:28 pm

Hi London Derriere, like your very direct observations, some people could of course be concerned others may recognise them and dont want all their inner desires posted, personally i like your approach and think at that at some level everyone is bi-sexual but some surpress it more than others.


toothysmile 50M
16514 posts
10/10/2005 5:40 pm

It 's so good to see you back.

You left a question of mine unanswered.
"If I think in your mouth, will you come in my mind?"

PS: Perhaps a better way to say this is "Please visit my blog"?


drnick20054 28M

10/11/2005 10:20 am

well first, its great that ur back.
your honesty was greatly missed

Second at least u still admit theres nothing like a real dick.


Choozmi 50M

10/11/2005 7:19 pm

I've always wanted to learn to make love the way women make love to each other.

I would think it could only make me a better lover whether I chose a "masculine" or a "feminine" approach at any given moment.

But I guess one can't be all things to all people, and maybe I'd really require the mind of a woman to be able to make love like one.


AlbertPrince 58M

10/13/2005 1:38 am

    Quoting LondonDerriere:
    I guess a lot would depend on how many pices you wanted me to break your arm into when I disarmed you . Amongst my talents is the fact that I'm a blak belt in karate and have been since I was 15. I'm a little rusty mind you so I might not be as clinical as I was then.

    Once I've finally completed my medical studies, I hope to get back into it properly and get my second dan.

    Still, look on the bright side, I'd be able to set it for you afterwards .
I'll take my chances: a bit of one on one mortal combat sounds like fun.


very_sweet_thing 52M
15 posts
10/17/2005 2:31 pm

You see, they are men, you start speaking about love and it finishes with guns and fights.

I do agree that women and men do not make love the same way and that it is nice to be able to enjoy all kind of pleasures.

It is also true that all men, (and all women) are mot making love the same way, some men being more "womeny" and some women being more "men".

In fact you are lucky because to the contrary of what some people say, it is not you being uncapable of chosing but it is you being able of accepting you like your are and not the way you ought to be ...


LetheBigDogEat 46M
19 posts
10/18/2005 10:12 am

Full marks for this one, LD!! Not only are you advising women that cock is best, you are also encouraging them to try every man's favourite fantasy, the threesome! So it sounds like your choice of partners in order is:
1. Man + woman
2. Man
3. Woman
4. Toys
5. Solo
So where does 2 men come in the pecking order? And before you answer they come only after you come, allow me to take a wild guess and place this combination at no. 2 in the above list. Not sure if they had you in mind when they coined the phrase 'Two heads are better than one'. And who are 'they' anyway?
Btw, your blog entries have been rather sporadic lately - once in July, Aug, and Oct. I know you have made some excuses for your lack of activity, but I hope your sex life has been more active


AlbertPrince 58M

10/20/2005 3:39 am

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LondonDerriere 36F
157 posts
10/26/2005 11:21 am

    Quoting LetheBigDogEat:
    Full marks for this one, LD!! Not only are you advising women that cock is best, you are also encouraging them to try every man's favourite fantasy, the threesome! So it sounds like your choice of partners in order is:
    1. Man + woman
    2. Man
    3. Woman
    4. Toys
    5. Solo
    So where does 2 men come in the pecking order? And before you answer they come only after you come, allow me to take a wild guess and place this combination at no. 2 in the above list. Not sure if they had you in mind when they coined the phrase 'Two heads are better than one'. And who are 'they' anyway?
    Btw, your blog entries have been rather sporadic lately - once in July, Aug, and Oct. I know you have made some excuses for your lack of activity, but I hope your sex life has been more active
BigDog - It's called real life. It's kind of been intruding on my online life and sadly, it's real life that pays the bills and keeps a roof over my head (at least it will once I (hopefully) qualify next summer).

Yup, I'm in my final year so it's pretty much make or break time and I won't be quite as active on here for the next few months.

Anyway, just to keep you happy, I've added two new threads today.

~~Shelley~~


rm_jeff_in_sf 41M

10/26/2005 8:40 pm

If you and Karin are ever looking for a 3rd, Shelley, just give me a ring. I'd be happy to hop on the next flight to Ireland to oblige you with a "good, hard, kidney squelching fuck" as you so eloquently put it

Jeff


LondonDerriere 36F
157 posts
10/27/2005 12:37 pm

    Quoting rm_jeff_in_sf:
    If you and Karin are ever looking for a 3rd, Shelley, just give me a ring. I'd be happy to hop on the next flight to Ireland to oblige you with a "good, hard, kidney squelching fuck" as you so eloquently put it

    Jeff
I've always had a way with words,. Good to see that all that money being spent on my education isn't being wasted...


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