Women Don't Want "Nice Guys"  

LochiPhoenix 36M
2 posts
8/30/2005 2:26 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Women Don't Want "Nice Guys"

Interesting article i came across today in the AdultFriendFinder magazine; this poor "nice guy" was asking women why it seems that they say they want to meet a nice guy but they keep going for the "bad boys"
I replied with a lengthy answer of "Women dont want nice guys they want bad boys"

The reason for my answer:
I was raised as a good ol' southern boy with southern values like "women are ladies and should be treated as such". For all you men out there who think this to be true...IT'S NOT!!!

Women from my experience want:
A guy with a bad boy image...the reason assholes tend to be confident to the brink of cockiness and good boys arent any fun.
A guy that can play the part for good ol' mom...cause if the family hates you it will only cause problems later, however mom cant love you or that defeats the purpose of the bad boy image.
A guy who can be Ron Jeremy in the bedroom...if you can please here then any argument can be solved here as well.
A guy who wont or cant do everything for himself...women need to feel needed, make a woman think she is helping you out and she is putty in your hands.
A guy who is better than they are (or at least appears to be)...people generally dont want to settle for someone that they knew they could get they want the prize after the fight.

Now all you women out there who just read all of this are thinking...no i would just settle for a nice guy...well shit, why do all the assholes have gorgeous girls and all the sweethearts remain single? Please tell me cause i was a virgin up until i figured out that women dont like the nice guy.

All you men who are nice guys, i commend you on the effort of trying but if you are doing it to get laid...try again.

All you assholes who have a different girl every night, you are just doing what works.

In closing please post a reply, but make it an intelligent one...cause lord knows you women do enjoy confusing the hell out of us men for the fun of it.

polarbear429 43M
2 posts
9/5/2005 4:27 pm

That's definitely true.

rm_MiVidaLoca25 36F
60 posts
10/10/2005 11:13 pm

It is true, very true even. I love the "bad boy image" as you put it. It's rebellion in human form, nice. I love the thought of endeavoring upon something that I know I really shouldn't. The "bad boy" in the crowd is always a for sure thing if you are looking to get laid and have a wild time. However, smart women are not seeking that when they are looking for stability, family and love in general. So I guess that it depends. Are you looking for a wild romp in the sack with someone else every weekend? Or, are you looking to find something more stable than a one night stand? I say just be yourself.

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