And the beat goes on.....  

Lisasaddiction 49F
7 posts
2/26/2006 5:20 am

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And the beat goes on.....

Even towards women......I wonder what it would be like....After one experience with a woman, it wasn't the greatest, I long for another.....If my fantasy comes true.....then it is no longer a fantasy.....And would it be the same? Men......I shouldn't even get started on that.....It seems every man I chat with has some quality that I find incredibly sexy....When does it end? Do I want it to?

elysianpleasure 47M

2/26/2006 6:07 am

The word addiction describes it well... I know the feeling to. It never ends... and the best you can do is control your addiction. Decide what you need to feed the need... so it doesn't consume you. For me, the addiction isn't the actual intercourse... it is the connection with other people. AdultFriendFinder has done a great deal to help. But the urge and desire are always there. Good luck in your search... I am elysian... drop by and say hi sometime.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
2/26/2006 6:11 am

I am still wondering myself.

Purry {=}


campfirecozy 67M

2/26/2006 7:14 am

As a married man, nearly 20 years your senior, allow me words of encouragement: Never allow the fire to settle into no more than burning coals, but constantly fuel it with your passion. Breathe deeply the air that you need to blow air into the raging heat of your fantasy.

philosophically and metaphorically yours,

MWWwantsmore 51F

2/26/2006 7:24 am

Just have to tell you that my first experience with a woman wasnt the greatest either, but keep trying. You will eventually find the woman that just blows your mind But it may take time dont give up, your fantasy only comes true when its feels great!

As for the men I know what you mean, I just cant seem to say NO!

southrnpeach333 50F

2/26/2006 8:38 am

It does have its allure doesn't it, the discovery of another person? And through them we discover something about ourselves. If you find the answers let me know!

Lisasaddiction 49F

2/27/2006 4:00 am

I love genuine responses....Thank you to those who replied......I know I am not even close to being alone out there.....And elysian is correct, maybe it isn't just the intercourse.....but the connection....the human connection....I think of the movie, Same Time Next Year.....that is the kind of affair I would want.....with the very same ending......ahhhhhh....but that is just a movie.....real life just doesn't happen that way.....

pronoforpyro 45M

2/27/2006 5:03 pm

i suspect everyone shares this addiction, we're hardwired for it, how we act it out depends on the version of the 'software' we are running, ie, how much we were sexually repressed growing up. I don't know why i worked in a computer analogy in that statement. At any rate Lisa you are here the same reason some several hundred 1000 of us are here, you are repressed and this is an outlet - we are all in this togethor.


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