Fetish Balls....  

Linds1957 59F
14777 posts
4/29/2006 9:47 am

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5/1/2006 2:13 am

Fetish Balls....

It seems to me that fetish balls are big dressup parties. They get dressed in wierd costumes to make themselves look fierce.. to make themselves look evil, and to make them seem as harsh and bad as possible. Maybe some of those people truly are "bad" people. I think most of them are wanting to have fun and they think spending alot of money on costumes and makeup is going to make their time more pleasurable. And for them, maybe it does make their times more pleasurable...Maybe it's an option for those that need more options...

I'm uncomplicated in what I like. I like unselfish people that are intelligent, humorous, patient, kind, caring, and SEXY..

I'll leave all the costumes, and buckets of paint and garnishes, and rubber, and latex... (and complicated toys), for those who can afford them and for those who can't have fun anyway else, (and for those that need more options....)

Ok.. I might get alot of critiscism for the above opinion..That's ok with me. I'm happy with my definition of what's fun and what isn't.

rm_kneel_be4me 48M
457 posts
4/29/2006 10:58 am

I'm with you... the funnest toy you can use is your mind. I like a girl that likes to dress sexy, but i don't need leather and latex or chains to enjoy the person I am with. I would much rather see a nice blouse and skirt and then have fun revealing the person underneath.

freetime648 52F

4/29/2006 11:34 am

Anything you do is to be considered a fetish. ANd it is all in your own preferrence as to if you like something or not. But, what you may call crazy or not worth your time, may be what another person enjoys. To each his own I always say.......and honestly...who says they do not have fun without all the gadgets and latex and the ball??? Maybe that to them, the ball itself is what is enhancing themselves sexually.....never judge what you have not or choose not to experience yourself.

xx FREETIME648 xx

Linds1957 59F

4/29/2006 1:05 pm

.. I have no money for fetish balls..lol..That pretty much eliminates my participation in them right there...lol

Freetime..Thanks for your comment
i don't call fetish balls crazy or NOT fun.. i just say i don't need them to have fun.. because if i needed them i would never have any fun.

blue061245 71M
331 posts
4/29/2006 2:09 pm


I am with you (alas, only mentally). I think we could have a lot of fun without fetish balls, latex, leather, etc. Just two minds that think along compatible paths and who do not take life too seriously.


Linds1957 59F

4/29/2006 2:38 pm

i wish my life was a beach...

Toodela 59M
1745 posts
4/29/2006 5:51 pm

Yeah, I agree ... it has a lot to do with the way one thinks. When one can find that special something in the person, without fancy or sexy displays, then each moment becomes meaningful


Honor has not to be won; it must only not be lost.

~One Minute in Life~

rm_Thumper8888 68M
26 posts
4/30/2006 1:03 pm

I'm with you Linds. Simple, uncomplicated fun and pleasure is much preferable to all the squalor and pomp and circumstance that you described. Give me a warm caring and simple woman who likes the simple things in life and I'll show you a much more happy and satisfied woman.

Linds1957 59F

5/1/2006 2:13 am

Thanks Blue, thumper,toodela

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