Bad SEX  

Linds1957 59F
14777 posts
4/20/2006 6:24 am

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4/29/2006 1:07 pm


Another beautiful day in paradise...

Well, actually it's the prairies, but spring is the best time for the prairies, in my humble opinion.

All the female cats here are looking decidedly roundish. I think they get far more sex than I do, but at least I dont get pregnant like they do.

If there's anything worse than no sex, I think it would have to be bad sex. I dont like when the guy has no clue what he wants to do, when he leaves it all up to me.. when his only answer is.. "What do You want?" And then, he does a lousy job...

I so long to be looked after, cared for, and cared about...

rm_CDRoss 33M
655 posts
4/20/2006 10:03 am

Awwww... somebody giving you bad sex?
I suppose... the so-close and yet so far feeling?

Linds1957 59F

4/20/2006 10:28 am

CD.. ive had lots of bad sex.. and i dont like

Fox4aKnight1 43F

4/20/2006 10:55 am

hugs Linds ......what a pain ......still the real question is bad sex better than no sex at all? LOL

Linds1957 59F

4/20/2006 12:40 pm

Foxy.. ya.. that IS the question and I still don't know the answer

blue061245 70M
331 posts
4/20/2006 2:34 pm

And when you feel looked after, cared for, and cared about, the sex is usually better, too! There is nothing like a little mutual respect and concern to make sex more enjoyable.

rm_leththrob 62M
13 posts
4/20/2006 5:11 pm

Hey linds...
maybe that's your next tast... 101 things that turn you off.....hope you spring day got even better today.. it's the prairies enjoy it while you can.. it can always change

Linds1957 59F

4/20/2006 6:18 pm

Blue.. i'm sure you're right... hugs..
HI leththrob.. i think noone would appreciate it if i just went on and on about stuff i dont like..
That's true about the weather.. If you dont like it.. wait a minute.. it'll change...

LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
4/20/2006 10:02 pm

The weather is awesome on the prairies right now.

Sex is always "personal" for me and if it doesn't feel personal in return I'm not satisfied. I know what you mean about the bad sex. For me, physically good is only part of the equation. I don't like it when the physical part is lousy either though...LOL


Linds1957 59F

4/21/2006 5:32 am

it can be all good up to that point of really having sex.. but if the physical part is bad, it makes it all bad...
oh well..

Fun12teach 43M

4/22/2006 12:53 am

I guess that you just have to meet the right person. Someone who thinks that sex is more than getting themselves off. It goes both ways, I know that when I have put a lot of effort into a night and just get a roll over afterwards, it really makes me think twice about the next time.

Me on the other hand, I take sex seriously. Sure I might ask what works better for you, just because you know your body better than I do. The biggest thing I love to do is make it a entire evening and, or day about the build up. I always find a great meal, a good wine, combined with a foot/hand massage always helps to get things going. Soft music and candles, and softer coloured lights adds considerablly to the whole evening. THe caresses and special touches have to be there from the get go to ensure that both are in the mood. You have to make sure that you include the entire body as an erogenous zone and provide the stimulation other than the main sites. I love watching my partner roll her eyes back as she has a complete mind blowing orgasm. Finally the afterplay has to be considered to make it complete. I have found it helps to set the foundations for the next night.

I agree, bad sex can be worse then no sex. If you dont take the partners desires and wishes into consideration it can be blahsay and can be quite damaging. Therefore I do my best to ensure that I get it right each time.

Bad sex is like playing music. If you only get 98% of the notes correct, it sounds horrible.

What are your thoughts?


Linds1957 59F

4/23/2006 10:20 am

ive had sex that was the worst ever...and i've had sex that was kinda bad but still good.. and i've had bad sex but it was wonderful because of the guy .. i really cared about him, so it didnt matter...

noluvnostrings 36M
1 post
4/27/2006 8:40 pm

linds........what an amazing bod you have.........what does it take for us to get to chattin?
message me

Linds1957 59F

4/28/2006 7:01 am

thanks noluvnostrings

rm_Thumper8888 68M
26 posts
4/28/2006 11:24 pm

I honestly don't know the answer of whether bad sex is better than no sex at all. To me, I think no sex would be better, but I'm me. Sex has to mean something before it happens anyway.

I know you long so to be looked after, cared for, and cared about. I've been reading your blogs hon. I fully understand now. And, if I have my way, those days are over. Your white knight is here. Huggssss

Linds1957 59F

4/29/2006 1:07 pm

aww.. hugssss.. thumper

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