Third party  

Lind028 39F
23 posts
1/12/2006 8:16 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Third party

Got to know him on irc and he lied about not having any gf. About half yr later, I realised he is living with her. But then i still never leave him since have feelings for him...Till now we been together with him for more than 7yrs now... He is not able to leave her.. Yet he wanted me to wait..

sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
1/12/2006 8:59 am

The ball is in your court. Either you choose to stay for another 7 years while he's unwilling to leave her or you walk out of his life and start a more worthwhile and full of love 7 years. Think for yourself and future. If he can do that to his gf, he can do it to you too.

rm_ginfal 60M

1/12/2006 10:49 am

niet wachten want wat hij met jou doet doet ie ook met anderen

eternal1969 47M
1634 posts
1/12/2006 11:42 am

you know what you want.... but only you can decide if you are going to do what you really want to do

rm_1SweetBitch 55F
8575 posts
1/12/2006 11:47 am

You deserve better...he is holding onto you just incase the other woman tells him to hit the road. You are worth more than this...find a man that will appreciate you...he does not.

No Day Is So Bad It Can't Be Fixed With Great Sex!

1 SweetBitch

FriendlybutKinky 49M

1/12/2006 2:16 pm

Chalk it up to experience, and move on.

7years is plenty, life is too short to deal with that.

Good Luck,

Please, feel free to come by and visit my blog sometime, you might find something you like.

koko_beware 34M
1 post
1/12/2006 4:52 pm

life is too short to waste 7 years like that. obviously he not gonna leave her. so why waste another 7 years....u deserve better..

CallMe97788728 46M
29 posts
1/12/2006 5:49 pm

get a life gal!!! 7 years waiting and still nothing materialised. move on and don't linger on..... not worth it. for him it's best of both worlds.... and you??? wasted time and youth...... sorry to put it so bluntly.... but this is life.....

rm_boredsg25 38M

1/13/2006 3:50 am

sad to hear abt it but i think u had better thingd than him i guess

T56C13O 40M
5 posts
1/13/2006 7:24 am

obviously the b.f of your's is a selfish ballox,i agree the fact that thing are easier said than done,but is he worth it.THINK!

Lind028 39F

1/14/2006 4:04 am

Actually i know leaving him is the best idea. But he really spend most of his time with me. Except every nite he goes back to her. He really cares and understand me. But see how everything goes.. But thanks for the comment.

rm_Darkon33 48M
534 posts
1/14/2006 4:53 am

I guess its not easy for you to let go after 7 yrs cos so much is at stake and so many invested time and feelings involved. I dont have the answers but if it feels better on you to blog it out to share with us here, i am sure many here will lend a listening ear.

By the way, welcome to blogland. Sorry i dont have a welcome drink for you

Hang in there girl. You are in a situation where it is a mind and heart matter. I can only hope that you follow the right one.

If i may, like to quote from one of Chocolatcreme blog (one of my favourite}

Death is the host who opens door for Birth
Welcoming lair with fiery molten earth

Burn your past before you leave
Combust to ashes those ill gotten grieves

You are free to go clad in a new lease
And before you do you must release

Those saddness dust lingering in your hands
Open your arms to the Shimmering new land

Don't be afraid when something in you die.
Life feeds on death for a new begining to rise

rm_joedovenport 43M/35F
136 posts
1/15/2006 9:53 am

I understand that it is hard to break away from someone you love, even though he may have lied to you. Don't worry, you are not alone. I have too many friends who have run into situation like yours - unknowingly becoming the third party and such.

Here may be one good solution for you:

Think about the consequences if you continue to be with him? What good could come out from the relationship if your man continue to left footprints on both boat? Think about it now and think of a conclusion quick.

No matter what conclusion you arrive at, I sincerely hope the best for you... Good luck!

5 posts
1/15/2006 9:15 pm

As a man myself, I still have to speak up for you. You are too naive to continue waiting for a man who had made you waited for 7 years.
Your youth is limited. Open up your world to get to know more men. I believed that one fine day, you will find another man whom deserves your love.
Take my advice. Never waste your youth with this man. He does not have the intention to marry you.

rm_malayboy00 37M
51 posts
1/15/2006 11:15 pm

If he really cares,he shouldnt do this type of thing.Anyway wat kind of man is he having 2 women sleepin n livin at a same time?Cmon this type of jerk would only 2 have pleasure with another in case his devious plan break down!!think about it ok

Lind028 39F

1/16/2006 6:45 am

He do lives with her but does not have sex with her for yrs since he is with me... I could feel tat he is drawn to me nearer and nearer as yrs goes by... Maybe I may sound silly to believe wat he say tat her do not have sex with her anymore, but I believe him... He is with her cause of responsiblilty(maybe a excuse?) due to the past... I am really stuck in this relationshup..

rm_wenchang1966 46M
404 posts
1/19/2006 5:20 pm

Leave him, this kind man need not to wait, it wastes your time.

rm_Iluvasses77 39M

1/27/2006 6:40 am

u know something? 9onesixzeroninefiveonefour, juz sms me. action speaks louder than words ryte? dont wait now, juz do it babe.

rm_yacht6767 57M
27 posts
1/29/2006 7:39 am

you better ask him to take a bath in a bath tub and fuck spider there.Just leave him and find another one > Seven years of your life are spend on being a sex slave for this bloody idiot and that makes you a bloody fool.((((((((WAKE UP)))))))

io888 40M
17 posts
2/6/2006 7:08 pm

hi, would luv to know u...hear from u soon..

rm_wai199 46M
15 posts
2/23/2006 9:51 pm

i can keep you company at nite.

adultfriendlee2 40M
64 posts
3/7/2006 6:55 pm

Hi Linda028,

I think u're very interesting......I hope to get to know u MSN contact is .

Hope to hear from u soon

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