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Like2ChatWatch 41M
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1/13/2006 12:00 pm

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Please post your responses on the Blog not just to me directly - thx

Thank you all for your responses but,

Please post your responses on the Blog not just to me directly - thx

The pic is one of my favorites. My wife has really gotten back in the swing of things lately. She has fallen back in love with sex and especially anything including some sort of anal play. Yummm! She get sooooo WILD!


Georgie007777 67M
419 posts
1/15/2006 12:55 am

Just read your post in the magazine - I agree - why won't women and I've been married over 30 years - she has never masturbated, won't try and worse - cannot see the point in trying - when we do fuck and that is rarely - she just lies there like a plank and i have to get some groovy fantasies going or i would never cum!

We've tried talking and it just makes things worse!

Georgie


Like2ChatWatch 41M
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1/16/2006 9:13 pm

Sure beats me. My wife goes through lots of phases, cant' seem to figure it all out. Someone sure would make an awful lot of money if they could ever fix this marital goof. It is in just about every marriage or relationship I know of. Very few women compared to our numbers that "think and desire" like we do. Sure would make for a lot of fun if the someone could change them all sexually to be more like us.


Like2ChatWatch 41M
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5/2/2006 7:36 pm

that is for sure! (see mag article for more info...)


Like2ChatWatch 41M
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5/2/2006 7:47 pm

Hey George,

The more rest and less stress my wife has the more loving she feels like. The more I take care of her the more crazy stuff she wants. Also the more I am assertive the more variety we tend to have. Also we are openly discussing sex now and on a regular basis.

I let her see all the AdultFriendFinder ladies that are "into" sex and proved to her that there are actually females out there that DO get into sex. I also asked her if she was not going to be up for it all the time would she mind if I found a few others to help fill in the gaps. Not that I would do it but the point was if she wasn't going to fill that position then she needs to move over and make room for ladies who would, so to speak. That is when she got serious about working of the problem.

GL,
Bro


iwantaman4me0 39F

9/23/2006 4:03 pm

i don't understand it i thought sex was suppose 2 be better when ur in a loving relationship, ive never been married and don't know if i want to, love sex alot but just cant find a guy on here 2 give me what i want,so i don't understand the married women i get so many emails of married men but thats the one place i wont go(if i was in a loving relationship i would stay with 1 guy onlyunless he want 2 add another guy in for mei did read your post about married guys turnin ) and they all say they don't get any .i asked them if they have talked 2 there wife's about it but there 2 scared, i don't know what 2 think if i was in a relationship and sex was dropping i would say but then guys class that as moaning, but i do think if the wife don't want sex she cant expect a man to do the same and the other way round everybody is different.but being on here has put me of ever getting married thats for sure i love sex to much and it more sounds like u lose ur sex drive when ur married, i feel like I'm married now as my sex life is so dry i do everything right I'm not on here 2 cyber or 2 make friends I'm on here 2 find a guy 2 give me lots of sex, i should go with a married guy really but he will always put his wife 1st b4 my sex life so kind of no point...i did read ur post about married men turnin gay/bi and have 2 say im a woman looking 2 meet a guy meet loads but they tryed 2 use me so there are women out there that want

love it


Like2ChatWatch 41M
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10/11/2006 10:54 am

Yeh that article was a bit out there - I was trying to spark the conversation. But the sad of it is that if you think about it men want more sex so why not have it with men since they want it more. I am not gay nor desire anything along those lines and I know guys who are not gay that have sex with guys. They simply want sex but not by themselves all the time so they let guys suck them off when their wives won't, etc. If they get find other ladies willing to be actively regularly then of course that is their preference, just not enough to go around per horny guys - I mean do the math - more guys wanting sex and less girls leave alot of sexless men.

Marriage is a wonderful institution and if the couple both works constantly at it, it is GREAT! I hate that it took me asking my wife if she would let me look for other sex partner for her to really see the light. She admits it; she got lazy with our relationship and is still prone to without my consistent prodding. She is a great gal but she has not been as active sexually as when we were dating. But things are improving! And boy does it take A LOT of effort. Whew!


rm_Lvr4Learning 44F
16 posts
10/11/2006 12:47 pm

Well for we women who are shy, inhibited, taught that certain things were naughty, I for one need a man who will work with me, be patient with me, and keep me hot and riled up so that I am less inhibited. When dating it sort of comes naturally, you have an unconscious goal that drives you to be more open sexually. Sort of a pursuit mode, you don’t plan it, it is just there. Then once you get married it is gone and we get lazy. That is when the man needs to step up to the plate and get to batting. Mine did, boy did he ever! You stud!


Like2ChatWatch 41M
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10/20/2006 9:28 am

    Quoting rm_Lvr4Learning:
    Well for we women who are shy, inhibited, taught that certain things were naughty, I for one need a man who will work with me, be patient with me, and keep me hot and riled up so that I am less inhibited. When dating it sort of comes naturally, you have an unconscious goal that drives you to be more open sexually. Sort of a pursuit mode, you don’t plan it, it is just there. Then once you get married it is gone and we get lazy. That is when the man needs to step up to the plate and get to batting. Mine did, boy did he ever! You stud!
What has he done for you, give us som ereal examples. Thx, L


rm_Lvr4Learning 44F
16 posts
10/25/2006 11:30 pm

Well for one he was patient in helping me learn my own body. I never masturbated before him. I never used toys before him. Though I'd drink a guy's cum I never really got into it before him. We experimented with his cum, the taste, sharing, him drinking it (which turned out to relly get me hot for some strange reason). I think his willingness to do "whatever" for me impressed me enough to grow with him. I mean I talked him into jacking off into his on mouth for me. I got him to drink his own cum after I kissed him with a mouthful. He'll eat his cum out of me wiht no hesitation now. And even when he didn't want to in the beginning, he did it with little hesitation and No complaints about any thing I asked of him. And I tried to push him to the limit, he'd do anything for me. I honestly think he'd take a guy's cock for me, not that I am thinking of doing that but you get the idea. He'll tongue me out anally whenever I ask. He'll finger himself and even ram himself with large toys anally for me. If I am not in the mood for sex for several weeks, he'll put on sexual shows for me, whatever I want. I've had him imagine some pretty crazy stuff and act it out, one day I had him doing stuff for over 14 hours. He drank more cum that day than I have from him in a day. He got f***ed in the a** more that day than I have in several months time. He fingered himself with 3-4 fingers with ease by the end of the day repeatively and HARD! The toys got bigger and larger throughout the day and I go to wtch it all as I requested angles, better lighting, better views, more positions, more toys, more descriptive details from him every second about what it felt like, what he was doing, etc.


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