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LickME2Nite71 46F
20 posts
6/29/2005 5:23 pm

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First Post

I thought I would start this as a place to start some discussions and place my thoughts.

Here is the first story....

I went to my friends B-Day party over the weekend. Her brother had come in from out of town to surprise her. Her brother and I were introduced and well, we hit it off. My friend said I should stay the night so I didn't have to drive home. I live about 40 minutes away. Of course, her brother was encouraging it. At this point the only thing her brother and I had done was dance and talk.

We get to her house and everyone goes to bed. Her brother and I start making out and end up having sex. This was Saturday night. I was hesitant to do anything because he is my friends brother. But he was naked so how could I resist. I ended up staying there until 7p on Sunday. Her brother wanted me to stay. She didn't mind either. Her and brother and I fooled around all day long. He says he'll call me the next day when he gets home. He also invited me to come visit.

Now, here is where I'm skeptical. He didn't end up calling me. I called him like two days later and left a msg. I haven't heard from him. I really liked him and wanted to get to know him. He seems interested also or at least said all the right things. Seeing as how I was his sisters friend and he was her brother, I didn't figure it would be a "Wham Bam thank you Mam". Of course, my guts tells me I was played. Which is not a big deal. If he just wanted sex I'm cool with that, just don't blow smoke up my ass..unless it's literal. Seriously though, he could just say he had a good time and not act like he wanted to stay in touch....

Your thoughts?

rm_mooncrip518 52M/49F
4 posts
6/29/2005 9:34 pm

How did I get into this mess?-Your blog just caught my eye,so i read it.
Well,yes I believe you've been played. Unfortunately,I read your post before I realized your age. Sorry, but you came across sounding like a 16 year old. With your "I really liked this guy..." crap.
The dude was in town(most likely for a short time),you are his sister's friend and you gave him an opportunity. Put it all together,and, you became a story a guy gets to take back with him.
Don't take it personally,hopefully your intentions were the same as his(a one night stand,or in this case,a one weekend stand).just a hook up.Well, I'm sure you will get over it.Perhaps you will have this opportunity again. And,whether it's with this guy or someone else,you may want to measure your intentions from the may not know their intentions,and that's what makes it so confusing.
Best of luck to you.And excuse my rude comment about your "whining".

rm_wanderlust88 49M
5 posts
6/29/2005 10:32 pm

I would ask your friend what is going on in her brother's life. Find out some hard facts about his situation is. His sister should have some clues and then go from there and after all your handle isn't LikeME2nite... have fun.

CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
6/29/2005 11:51 pm

Every man is completly diffrent, so i can't really speak on his behalf, yet as a guy from the outside looking in, you might have been played, trust those guts-they have very natural instincts for these issues, waiting 2 days to call him is a good idea (doesnt sound to eager)yet since its what Tuesday when you called him and Wed. that your posting this blog,i say if you havent heard from him by thurs. then just move on.

Oh, and welcome to blogland ! (look forward to reading more of your blogs)


LickME2Nite71 46F

6/30/2005 3:12 pm

I want to thank you all for your comments/thoughts. I am actually thick skinned so the "Whining" comment from mooncrip518 isn't a big deal. I kind of agree, I did sound like a 16 year old. Believe me I was hesitant to do anything with him since he was my friends brother. If I decide to talk to my friend about her brother, I will give it some time. Don't want to do it right away.

What I wanted was to be friends. Get to know each other a little. Be able to visit Florida, enjoy the weather and have sex. What more could you ask for?

I did kind of figure I was being played, but I guess I didn't expect it from my friends brother. Oh well, life goes on......

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