Wow.. is anyone really serious bout meeting on this website?  

LeEnchantress 55F
152 posts
8/21/2005 7:32 pm

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10/18/2006 10:11 am

Wow.. is anyone really serious bout meeting on this website?


I was reading one of the blogs.. and the person said that most people are happy with just cybersex here!!!
Well.. i'm not... to me.. cybersex isn't even SEX.. you aren't being touched.. or caressed or fonded or having your eyes gazing into... you can't really see the person.. of course there are cams.. but it just NOT the SAME.
I'm here to find a great guy to have wonderful sex with.
Heck.. it's almost the end of summer. I live in one of the most beautiful areas of the country.. It would be so cool.. to have someone to gaze up at the evening stars with tonite... or ride down the zig zaggy country roads on the back of a neat bike... No.. harley's aren't necessary. To have someone to float around in a mountain lake with or chase through a cold mountain stream.... trying to find an out of the way spot to get romantic and sensual with. Or even try out the numerous new age and upscale restaurants that seem to be popping up here like daisies in a field... Or even someone to lay down with in a field of daises sounds quite dandy. But still i am sitting here alone at my computer fore ANOTHER nite!!
But you know what? i think most people on this site are fakes! Not all of them... some of them are serious about meeting someone... but a good percentage of them are just picture collectors... or wanting to have you give them a thrill through some exchange of sexual suggestions online.
Sorry, guys. that just doesn't cut it for me.. I want a guy to run his hands over my body.. look deep into my eyes..feel his hands caress my soft breasts and hard firm nipples, feel his hard groin up between my legs.. After all.. this is a sex site... Why don't people want to have real sex on it???
I also want a guy to go do things with.. to go see a great concert... or go walking in a park on a moonlight night or go see a movie.. but I don't think any of these things are going to come to pass from this website.. What a shame.. cuz i'm a terrific lady... one full of passion... such a waste... oh well...
Why isn't this website more full of people wanting to meet?

malehickory31 44M
3 posts
8/25/2005 3:15 pm

I feel the same exact way as you do. people come in and chat about everything and anything except meeting, and make the chat room all busy for nothing where you cant even have a normal conversation if you are trying to meet someone.


rm_PKfresh 30M
1 post
8/25/2005 6:57 pm

im down for meeting if you are and for having a good time... mail me


nc4brit10 48M
8 posts
8/29/2005 7:33 pm

Maybe you should not be so picky and actually reply to people who write to you..?


rm_firehose1964 52M
1 post
9/12/2005 12:45 pm

beleive i am sex starved also. (or addicted). i can possibly give you what you need. were close to each other. drop me a line and make it happen.


OneRomanticMan2 57M

9/13/2005 7:19 am

If you truly wish to meet a real man on this site that is really seeking some great times then email me and I will be at your door!!!


gentledommale 59M
1 post
9/20/2005 4:52 am

I'M up for a ride down that ziigy zaggy road... as long as we stop along the way!


rm_rottrescue 56M

10/8/2005 7:37 pm

I feel your pain LeEnchantress. I've often wondered the same thing myself. And yet another Saturday night has seen me stay home alone with Part #12. But while I agree that a large percentage of the profiles on A FF are fakes (especially women's profiles since we guys make much easier targets), I've had a chance to meet several people from here in the three-dimensional world. Unfortunately, most of those people live too far away to have any kind of regular real-world connection with. Sadly, you fall in to that category too... or we'd have something else to do with our fingers besides type.


witchdr821000 46M
26 posts
10/10/2005 3:22 pm

Tell me about it. I mean as u filter through all the profiles and all, u find one after another that basically tell u exactly what they want yet when u email them u never hear back from them. Some of them sound so desperate for finding someone yet they never return any email u send ever. I dont understand it myself. After all the emails ive sent ive only ever had two respond. One i havent heard from since the first email back and the other has had some difficulties but very good reasons to back her up. It still may not ever happen but at least i have one person to chat with from time to time. Maybe after this, i may have a second. Guess only time will tell.


rm_head4U52 64M

10/14/2005 11:43 am

I don't believe what you're saying. There are plenty of men who would love to meat you.


rm_sweetalker60 51M

10/16/2005 9:47 am

I pretty much gave up the idea of meeting anybody through this site. Although I love sex and everything related to it, I think chemistry is important and sometimes the only way to see if there is any chemistry is through meeting, not necessarily to "go down to business" but just to talka little. It doesn't take long to figure out if a person doesn't click, does it?
I "met" somebody on AdultFriendFinder, or rather... she contaced me one night when I forgot to close the AdultFriendFinder messenger and was doing something else. It was one of those occasions when you just don't expect it and it happened. She is from New Zealand,though and I'm in NC so distance is of course a big hurdle. Nonetheless, we have had wonderful conversations using our preferred messenger with voice capabilities. Ok, one night we got carried away exchanging experiences and ideas (I think we were both just horny that night without anybody to turn to) and well... let's just say that we might've burned the wires... Of course is not the same but it is amazing what words can do, especially if they're spoken in the right way. One of my hobbies is writing (fiction and lately I've plunged into writing some erotica for fun) and I found out that it was just as if I was writing... only that I was actually "talking" instead of putting it on paper. Although there was no physical touching from another person, the mental touch was just as powerful and being a very visual-aural person, I did enjoy it a great deal. Granted, no replacement for the actual "tridimensional" contact (as somebody put it in a post above).

To me it's just amazing how many profiles say "I'd like to meet this or that type of person" and when the opportunity comes there isn't even a polite reply when I e-mail opening up the possibility. After all, the e-mail system on this site does have some preset "quick" replies that can be sent.

I don't know how many on this site are fake. Probably a lot and even if one would think that being in the same area would make things easier regarding meeting somebody, that could actually be a deterrant, especially for those who are interested in a one-time only or a no-strings attached type of encounter. For some, being in the same area is rather risky and they probably think is not really safe. Chatting with somebody from another state or country, on the other hand es relatively safe... or is it?

I too have the same question as you... Why people on this site are more willing to meet? Who knows what the answer is... maybe the main purpose here is not to meet but to fantasize about meeting somebody as exciting as we are.


AGentlemanToo 69M

10/16/2005 12:05 pm

Timing and location, LeEnchantress, plus the usual "Do I really trust this person or feel the match is right?" questions. I'm between locations right now, and would just like to start up cyber conversations with the right people so that we all can have something to look forward to in December or so when NC is my permanent home. In that sense I'm certainly just waiting to meet, but the meeting will take a while to pull off. Nothing's wrong with just chatting, especially if that leads to the trust and confidence we both need to have a pleasant (or even better) encounter.


stevey_b_uk 37M

10/22/2005 6:43 am

hi i am real and would love 2 meet u anytime anywhere


rm_jgiaco101 41M
7 posts
10/22/2005 9:36 pm

Well i know yoiu have read my blog and I have read yours. Funny how we are both feeling the frustration. Pitty we a re thousands of kilometres apart. I agree - this is a sex site, so there must be people meeting out there. unfortunately, there are cybers who like nothing more than pics - there called perverts who et cheap thrills. I to would like to do those things you mention - findle a girls breast, run my fingers up her leg. I just wish some people would take a chance sometimes...


rm_got2b4 45M

11/13/2005 4:45 pm

hey there aviation lady......it is hard to find decent people .....you have to week out hundreds to find one good person......hang in there and shoot me an im or email AdultFriendFinder


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