WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO GET LAID ON THIS WEBSITE?  

LeEnchantress 55F
152 posts
6/10/2005 11:00 am

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WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO GET LAID ON THIS WEBSITE?


I know alot of people seem to be getting lucky while being on this website.. but just what is their secret. Are they just in an area where there alot of other horny AFFers? They have posted enticing pictures? They are married and don't care if other people are too?
It seems that the single str8 people have less chance of getting laid than the bisexual or married people.
What is that?
I know i don't have a picture up.. but have given my pic to guys after we've chatted and i felt that they might be someone i'd like to meet up with...
And then there are the guys who lead you down a garden path.. act like they are really into you.. chat with you for weeks and weeks at a time.. and when it comes time to meet.. just totally flake out on you...
I know i don't have any nude pictures on here... and aren't into the threesome thing.. but i still have alot to offer a decent. nice looking horny guy....
Is it just me or are there others who are totally disappointed with the results they've gotten from this site?

hornymofo19 33M
1 post
6/10/2005 11:28 am

im horny and goodlookin


engelsman1962 54M

6/10/2005 11:39 am

Ha! It's even worse if you are male! There are 50 times more men than women on here, so the chances of finding a woman are slim, to say the least. Anyway, I'd love to oblige, but I'm a few thousand miles east of you, unfortunately....


SuddenlyFree2 52M

6/10/2005 12:10 pm

[quote]Ha! It's even worse if you are male! There are 50 times more men than women on here, so the chances of finding a woman are slim, to say the least. Anyway, I'd love to oblige, but I'm a few thousand miles east of you, unfortunately....[/quote]
Exactly


plumpslut4fun 44F
16 posts
6/10/2005 12:43 pm

a few reasons i can come up with...

1. married people are perceived as safer to fool around with...don't have to worry as much that someone will stalk you...or fall in love with you...or just the fact that, there is no commitment, b/c they already have that with their spouse...(notice i didn't say that married people are safer...some people just see it that way)...

2. bisexuals are going to get more action, b/c their dating pool is double that of a straight person...and...they are also perceived as more sexual...

3. circumstances beyond someone's control can interfere...work obligations...family obligations...guilty feelings creeping in...someone who is cheating has limited time, opportunity, and location issues to work around...

4. regarding sexual orientation...gay/lesbian/bisexual/transgender...have very limited resources when trying to meet other people...maybe not very limited in big cities...but, middle america, small town america...its hard to find people to mess around with...people that are straight can go to any random dive and try to pick someone up...i can't imagine a gay man, walking into a local watering hole and buying another guy a drink...

i'm sure there are other reasons...and these might not be completely accurate...just a thought though...


roguelover11 48M

6/10/2005 12:54 pm

Welcome to the sexual frustration HELL! If you did get someone to meet you you would not like them because they would have lied to you about their apperance, their martial status, and many other things. My best guess is they are looking to fanatize about things but are too scared to try them. As long as they don't meet you then their fanatasy is in tact and can continue along a path of mastrebastion. Guess the easiest thing would be is to go out to your nicest bar in town( or the next town in case you are afraid to get caught) and just pick up the first good looking man you run across and when the money runs out just dump him for another and keep on trucking. Oh and don't be too cheap on giving away the pussy too quick either, it scares some rich men off.


letsplayteachme 63M

6/10/2005 1:24 pm

hey sweetie, if you lived in west central minn. i could help you out!


rm_qcao1 48F
197 posts
6/10/2005 8:15 pm

It is just a matter of finding exactly what you are looking for, takes time, but early or late will happen.


AltumHunksUnite 53M

6/11/2005 8:25 pm

I met a bunch of folks from our local Tampa Bay members group tonight at a meet-n-greet, and some of them tell me how the pickin's are very slim in some areas, even for the women. Some folks drove from as far away as Ft. Lauderdale. I guess some places are just lean on attractive & healthy targets.

In my case, I was lucky to meet someone I already knew from a few years ago, but overall, I've made the aquaintance of many different members from all over the country, and to me, that's something to be proud of.

Let me drive. I like the view


Mr_sweetness 44M
2599 posts
6/12/2005 12:33 pm

Well by your profile who could be disapointed with youhe he he he he

Peace, cause there is to much violence and blood shed in the world!!

Love, cause there is to much hate in the world!!

Happiness, cause it feels good and life is to short to be mean and unhappy all the time!!


cajunpet 70M
1185 posts
6/12/2005 10:16 pm

There are a lot of players on this site, and giving us serious guys a less change of finding someone. Ladies who want to know more about a guy, and become friends first, usually give up this site because of the players and being burnt too many times.

I can not understand these guys. They are hurting themself by not getting to know a lady first, and be in a serious relationship. They send hundreds of crude emails, and expect ladies to respond to them, and their mail box stays empty. They are looking for a quick f**k, and care less about a lady.


Keep On Blogging!!!! Have a great day.


Mr_sweetness 44M
2599 posts
6/12/2005 11:41 pm

Your personality is what i go for first your sweet looks would be the bonus part...I know about haveing some one chat to you for weeks and weeks and fill you full of hopes and promises and then when it comes down to it they skip out and leave ya hanging....Huuuuggggssssss...God bless you...peace, love and happiness

Peace, cause there is to much violence and blood shed in the world!!

Love, cause there is to much hate in the world!!

Happiness, cause it feels good and life is to short to be mean and unhappy all the time!!


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
6/13/2005 7:52 am

Good point Enchantress. Personally, when I joined this site I envisioned orgies and countless partners. A sort of Disneyland in my pants.

As time progressed and I began to meet people my views changed. Maybe an orgy isn't what I'm looking for, and I guess the multiple partner thingy really isn't for me. As much as I think I'd like being a slut, actually when it gets right down to it, fidelity and partnership is what I truly want and offer.

I guess it is a patience thing. You meet, hope, and persist. There is indeed someone for eveyone. In the meantime, do what I do...stand by the dock and wait for your ship.

[blog talldarkavg1]


LeEnchantress 55F

6/13/2005 11:53 am

Hiya Y'all.. Thanks for responding to my post.. I have to agree with a few of you at least.. Mr Cajunpet.. you're so right, "Ladies who want to know more about a guy, and become friends first, usually give up this site because of the players and being burnt too many times. "
I'm about at that point myself.. just giving up.... it's too bad.. cuz i feel i have ALOT to offer some lucky guy.. i'm sweet, honest, very affection, smart, funny, sensous.. not too bad to look at... and love sex...Hey.. who wouldn't want that.. i wonder too abouit the being the slut thing Talldarkavg.. it sounds so fun.. but when you get right down to it.. well. i for one.. worry about diseases...
I don't have any and want to stay taht way.. there are some nasty diseases out there now too.. woohoo.. Aids.. at least there's medication for that.. although i wud sure not want to contract that...

Anyway...i think i really have been patient.. i've been on this site.. literally months now.. it's been 6 months easily... and i'm not getting any from this site...
I adore the friends i've made online thru this site.. there are some really COOL people on here.. at least i can say that.. but that's not keeping me warm at night or scratching this insatiable itch.... is there salt peter for women perhaps?? lol...
well.. sometimes i do wonder if just putting up some kind of pic would net me some better results... or just fill up my mailbox with the horndogs.
I agree with you though Cajunpet.. it's much better to get to know the person.. no matter how sexy or desirable that person is.. that just to jump into the sack with them right away...
Communication and trust is what good sex is all about!!!! How easily is that achieved with a stranger? I suppose it is possible.. but a whole lot easier if one knows the person you are sleeping with.. at least a little bit...
Are guys so shallow that they don't want that also? I sure hope not... I know.. it's considered a guy fantasy to visit as many "flowers" as possible.. but isn't it a gas when you find one "flower" who truly knows your likes and dislikes and pleases you like no tomorrow? that's what i'm looking 4....
well. ty again everyone for all your comments.. I love the blogs on this site.. At least i can feel i'm connecting with people in some way... even if it isn't sexual.


Mr_sweetness 44M
2599 posts
6/14/2005 3:30 pm

Yes there are alot of players on this site women included i have met a few of them ...they must think cause i am borin in the country i am borin in a barn...they fill you full of hopes and promises and maybes and mights that will never happen...some of them have to many men all ga ga over them and it goes to there head same works with men to....Is there any one real and true who does not play games or fill you full of hot air...God bless you leEnchantress i hope you find what you are looking for there are real true gentleman out there who do not play games i being one of them

Peace, cause there is to much violence and blood shed in the world!!

Love, cause there is to much hate in the world!!

Happiness, cause it feels good and life is to short to be mean and unhappy all the time!!


luvdarkchocolate 55F

6/17/2005 1:48 pm

I found the man of my dreams (and a few others) on here. I have to weed them out! And here's some advice for the guys, not all women like dicpics in their faces when they log on. And I personally don't like when guys expect sex if we agree to meet. I want to meet to see if there is something there. If there's not for me, then don't count on a pity lay. I get tired of those playing games or those who think all this is about is a quick random f*ck. I enjoy the courting and romance, even though I am married. I suppose because I'm married and that part of our relationship is long gone, I want more than just sex. But yes, I have often been disappointed by the results of this site -- just recently joined again after having been off for six months. We'll see what happens.


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