Sexual Encounters in the early morning hours.................  

Lapkin4u 42F
497 posts
4/3/2005 9:57 am

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Sexual Encounters in the early morning hours.................

So here it is....I met this guy about a month and a half ago at a bar....we were both drunk of course...unfortunately my two friends were with me and were playing cock blockers....I hate that! Anyway I give him my number and we discretly start meeting one another for sex....we were fully honest with our situations and understood the rules. Things were great...then I caught up with him the other night and his friend was there.....his friend was all up on me flirting...but we all had a good time laughing and carrying on at the bar. Now his friend is aware of our SITUATION and they have been talking about me.I met my guy last night for some after the bar fun and he starts telling me about how they talk about me and his friend is jealous and wants to fuck me. He continues to say "no Way" his friend cant have me.....I'm sensing some ownership issues....yet maintains that our rules still apply and that he wants nothing more than our current arrangment....Do the things he is saying sound conflicting to anyone else? He told his friend that I have ruined him for other woman because I give it to him so much for no strings right? He has a really nice cock and the sex just keeps getting better...I hate to give him up because of the convience of our works perfectly...but I'm concerned he may be getting too attatched to me. Anyone have any thoughts?

snake_8_ 54M

4/3/2005 7:25 pm

Dump him, he is emotionally attached. Next stop isa stalking. There are a very few of us who understand the rules and follow them to the T. There are less of us who know the rules, are great lovers, are albe to please a women over and over and still not get attached.

ExcitedSenses 38M

4/3/2005 10:06 pm

I don't think it's an issue at all. I don't want a share a woman with my *friends*. If you and him agreed you could have sex with whomever you want at least don't go after his friends! He deserves better than that. If you want some other guy's dick at least get it from some guy who doesn't know the guy you are currently having sex with. His friend can get his own pussy, why does he need to go after you, just because he's jealous? His friend is the one with the problem, that is why he was mad at him. Now you may not care which one of them you fuck or want to have both. That is great, if they are both into it, but it's totally understandable that a man shouldn't have to pass his pussy around.

I wouldn't mind having you... you seem hot, ready and fun, but I usually prefer that when i am having sex with one person they are not having sex with other people, not because I want a relationship, but just to limit my chances of contracting STDs!

Lapkin4u 42F

4/4/2005 2:27 pm

thx for your comments guys I appreciate your for the friends thing...if that is truly how he feels then I guess him asking to have a threesome with my friend is an for STD's Thats why I always use a condom.

rm_astrobeast 39M
49 posts
4/4/2005 11:47 pm

I say this...he knows what he is getting into when he fucks you....then he needs to understand that it is a boundless realm. He isn't your husband. You can fuck anyone you want. It's your pussy, not his.

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
4/6/2005 3:47 pm

While of course Astro is entirely correct, I think that ExcitedSenses has made a very good point and you should consider it when deciding what to do in this case.

rm_pooterrm 53M

4/8/2005 11:56 am

Lapkin, I can see both sides of the fence here. You know what rules you have placed on your "relationship" with this guy. If doing his friends goes beyond those limits then by all means you need to step away from that "relationship". I also agree with what Excited and Astro have stated....kinda hard not to when they make valid points. By the way, I'm not far from you and don't know where you go to the bar at so.......if you want some no strings funtimes give me a shout. You are hot! Had to say that because I melt when I see your pic eveeerytime I search or view...there you are...............

rm_bobbythepoet 67M

4/19/2005 8:00 am

Hi Lapkin,
You know what? I think that he talks a little too much to his friend about you. When I have a special someone, I keep the intimate details to myself. I have the feeling that perhaps he's trying to get your feelings for his friend and perhaps suggest that you do a three-some without getting you pissed off.

Just my opinion.

wanakissuallover 57M
411 posts
10/2/2005 6:30 am

Can we say: "fatal attraction"?

i just got out of one like that a few months ago...same situation as you were in...just wanted a little fun...and now i'm still (two months later) trying to deal w/getting back into school 'cause she didn't deal w/the breakup too well (when she started to get all possesive on me); and told the school i wouldn't leave her alone, when it was Her who was always following me around. But, fortunately for me, she didn't press formal charges and just made a complaint against me.

Be carefull, is all i gotta say!

That picture on your 1st blog got me all woke up and alert, so i thought i'd look through your blogs some more before logging off for the day.

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