Red light district?  

Lapkin4u 42F
497 posts
11/1/2005 8:36 am

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Red light district?

So here is a question that is so often brought to light. How do you feel about call girls, prostitutes, women of the night....whatever you want to call them? Men....would you pay for certain services from a experienced woman guaranteed to satisfy you? Women......Could/Would you charge a man for giving up your goods? I'm looking for some real honest insite here, please tell me your opinion on this subject....more specifically....answer the questions I have posted. Thanks! *KISSES*

rm_CpuDocMi 67M
38 posts
11/1/2005 10:51 am

Lapkin, is the stock MAN answer:

I NEVER HAVE TO PAY FOR IT!!!!!!.......<grin>

now the real answer:


I was overseas in Sicily (in the navy), and we got REAL drunk and headed downtown to the red-light district. The girl I picked was real cute and kind of petite. We went into her room, and he undressed me and then washed me. That was new and exciting. She stripped down to her pantyhose and laid back and said 'FUCKY-FUCKY'. (that was all the english she knew) Turns out she didn't need to take the panty hose off since the crotch was cut out. After we were done she took the money and shoved me out the door.

With that kind of an experience, why would I EVER want to try that again....... Thumbalena and her four sisters are just about as satifying......


lifeisablast333 53M

11/1/2005 5:08 pm

I never have had to pay, well out right anyway, it all cost something. But I am not above paying for it, but it would have to be a really hot chickie first, no crack whore meed apply.
But the Sex Goddess and our friends keep me happy, and my cash in my pocket.........the redneck

WhistlinWings 45M

11/1/2005 6:43 pm


I would not pay for it, just wouldn't feel natural. Better ways to spend my money!!!

rm_man5511 65M
13 posts
11/1/2005 7:25 pm

Around here you can't afford to pay for it. You never know if it's a real ho or a cop playing a ho. You hear of something going down about once a month somewhere where they pick someone up for something. Be sides it's just a plane peace then. you can't take you time and have some fun. you know the small talk & fore play. some people still do that. Not all the time but alot. and you chances of catching STD's is alot higher. and no I never have. really we all pay for it someway or another when you think about it. it's just more fun thinking that your getting a good piece.

rm_Funguy82000 69M

11/2/2005 6:08 pm

Hi Lapkin,

I have never paid for sex ether, just not something I would do. Sex is to important to me. It's like a find art waiting to be performed and each person is different.


rm_CpuDocMi 67M
38 posts
11/2/2005 6:14 pm

correction to LAST post......

"We went into her room, and he undressed me...."

should read "SHE undressed me..."

almost gave the wrong idea.....<grin>

rm_jmh48706 43M

11/3/2005 7:29 am

If prostitution were legal, then hell yes.

Sometimes, a person just wants a quick (pardon my language) fuck. They're not looking for intimacy, or anything like a relationship, they're just in the mood. Having licensed, professional, medically checked prostitutes would be a very nice thing.

I think that in some situations in America, some emotional tragedies occur because we DON'T have prostitution. What about the man who's wife is an invalid? He loves her dearly, and doesn't want to leave her, but he desires intimacy from a woman. His wife can't help him, and legally, he's out of luck. He could cheat on his wife, but what if he becomes attached to this other person? That, as we all know, can happen with an illicit relationship. The thrill of it adds some extra excitement, and then you like the situation....

meh. If prostitution were legal in this country, we'd be a lot better off.

rm_jmh48706 43M

11/3/2005 7:30 am

Oh, and as George Carlin put it...

"Selling is legal. Fucking is legal. Why isn't selling fucking legal?"

Lapkin4u 42F

11/3/2005 8:15 am

LOL yeah I caught that Doc but I knew what you meant! Thanks for the correction though, you never know what some will interpret it as.

ByteChaser2 52M

11/3/2005 10:26 am

Well, having been rejected time and again after some serious effort (and yes, expense) and being a pretty liberal kind of guy, yes I have and would consider it under the right circumstances.

See, I personally enjoy a womans company. Be it at a strip club (guys, we pay for that company... or should), an escort or "private" performer or a prostitute. I've only ever had a couple of the latter, and then in my youth. The former on the other hand, well, I suppose you already know about them.

And face it. Guys go to a considerable expense in the pursuit of female companionship under (socially acceptable) normal circumstances. Dinner, dancing, drinks, you name it. A date could easily run a guy a few hundred bucks by the end of the night. And when it's all said and done (this is really gonna sound shallow... but I'm being a realist here), it's not all that common that a date will umm... well... put out I guess. There's little physical recompense for us.

I know, building a relationship takes time but hey, sometimes a guy just wants to get laid ya know?


rm_CpuDocMi 67M
38 posts
11/3/2005 2:55 pm

Actually, Lapkin, that kind of happened to one of the other guys that night. Let me give you a little set-up:

This 'District' was 4 square blocks on the edge of town. It acually had red lights on the corners (honest!!). The girls would hang over the balconies on the upper floors and the lower levels had dutch doors (the type were you could open the top and leave the bottom closed).

WELL, as we were looking around this sailor found a girl he just HAD to have. So, he used the international language and asked "Fucky?", and she said "Sucky", and he said "Fucky!", and she said "Sucky...No Fucky!!", and he said "Fucky!!!!!". At that point she opened the bottom door, showed him "Her" equipment, and slammed the doors. The poor guy wasn't the same for a week!!!!!!

So, ya see, things CAN get a little stange....LOL


craigster4u2000 44M

11/4/2005 4:27 am

I have to admit, that I have paid for it. I actually thought it brought an addaed thrill to a exciting moment. In Vegas, well actually outside of Vegas it is legal and very clean. I thought it was great and may even do it again in the future.

wanakissuallover 57M
411 posts
11/4/2005 4:26 pm

Like ByteChaser2, I've been to a few strip clubs but have only "paid" for a girls company at strip clubs (about 5 years of hanging out w/friends - i was always the designated driver) and have never "paid" to have a Hooker etc. It was always just a little too scary, to me, to do that, so the strip clubs was as adventurous as i've ever gotten...and then there's whole 'nuther conversation alltogether.

Arc_Angel2112 42M

11/4/2005 7:21 pm

well having been through a marriage that kind of was like paying for it,lost everything when it was over! Not dissing marriage,or my ex she's still a friend...Long Distance friend(lives in CA now) but I do not look down on models for mags,strippers,pornstars,anyone in the sex industry...However for me the experience is about getting to know the person and exploring desire and passion with that woman...can't happen with a paid person...If I just want to get off I'd call someone who has a oral fetish or jerk off! Sex is not just some cold thing to me where I'm trying to cum...So no I won't be with someone for money!Just because that is not the test of sex I enjoy!

giggidy1969 47M
43 posts
11/5/2005 8:56 pm

only if they looked like you honey!

Lapkin4u 42F

11/7/2005 8:22 am

LOL Thunder!

Dayrunner4 64M

11/10/2005 9:49 am

Never paid for it because even with satifaction gauranteed I alway want a conection between me and the other person.

singlem1969 47M

11/14/2005 6:10 am

Speaking only for myself, I do not see myself paying for sex, even from a "professinal". Nothing wrong with paying for it, it's just that for me a certain connection has to be made for me to be "satisfied" and "professionals" have to disassociate themselves and cannot make a real link, it is not good for them in their profession. For me, at least, the physical has to go at least in part with mental and sometimes in part with "spiritual" to be truly satisfying. For those that get pleasure from professionals, more power to you! And for those ladies (and men) that provide such a service (as long as you are not hurting yourself, and I mean emotionally, "spiritually") bless you for your services!

rm_nylons39 62M

11/17/2005 7:16 am

as the man says" you can pays me now or you can pays me later. i guess my thoughts are how does it make a women feel? there is something kind of special about women that i quite figured out as yet. it is a nice change i guess that they can decide if they want to have sex everytime they go on a date or not. they don't hav4e to be a bit bashful about asking any more but for men who tend to be somewhat shy it puts them in a funny position of not getting her suggestions. so i have a suggestion for the ladies. instead of hinting alnight just come out and ask. "lets go someplace and play" that takesall the guesswork out of it.

thats what happenswhen you are old enough to remember when you opened acar dorr for her on the passangerside of the car on a date( or truck)

oh well


woodman6877 39M
1 post
11/19/2005 3:17 pm

This is my first time on here but this ? is great and the best answer that I have ever heard on it came from one of my ex girlfriends when she told me I was shocked to hear it come out of her mouth she is so straight edge and all but she said all women are whores because in some way you have to pay for it with dinner or drinks gifts or doing things you dont want to for her so we all have paid for it and taken something for it.

Some_Random_Dude 28M

12/6/2005 6:26 am

Well in New Zealand Prositution is Legal, only reason why i think they legalized it, is to make money cause they found out that they made a lot of money from it. lol cheap eh
But since then there's been a lot of prositutes murdered...
so eh...

rm_garbageman12 54M
7 posts
12/13/2005 7:22 am

I, like others on here, spent time in the Navy,(all you jarheads, wingnuts and groundpounders now wish you had!)and that does put you in the opportunity of using prostitutes. First, Doc's experience was ages ago. Today, the U.S is the only country in the world that doesn't legitimize prostitution, oh wait, there is Nevada. Does anyone wonder why they are so good looking out there? Cuz, its legal. Why do so many women do it out there? Cuz its legal. It is legal in most of the world. Is it any wonder why there is almost no in western Europe? US stats are almost 940% higher than western Europe. France says use of the sexual organs is as important as the mouth! LOL, Says even ugly or disfigured men have a right to sex. Imagine that! Ugly and disfigured women need only go to bar at 2 am.

We live in a country founded by puritans, people who were so tight-assed that even the English couldnt stand them. And people wonder where we get our problems from. Legalize prostitution, tax it, take it away from junkies, crackheads and freaks. Let intelligent businesswomen run this show. Nuff said. Thanks for the rant. LOL

rm_smd70 46M
51 posts
12/14/2005 7:16 am

garbageman12 - are you saying that happens here because we don't have legal prostitution? if you are going to quote stats and percentages, maybe you should check all your facts. doesn't happen because guys don't get laid. it isn't even about sex. its about violence and power.
i too have been in the military - not the navy though (couldn't stand the thought of being called a "seaman")and i too have traveled the world. as much fun as that was, i was glad to come back to the good old U.S.A. as "tight-assed"though it is. if you are not happy here, you could always move back to england. you might even be missed.
oh, and to answer the original question - no, i have never used a hooker. the thought makes my flesh crawl.

slowjohn48144 46M
1 post
1/7/2006 12:56 pm

I'm not the best looking guy in the world, but I've never been desperate enough to pay for it. Something about the thought just turns me off. Most of the pleasure I get from erotic encounters stems from the fact that I am pleasing my partner & she is aroused. There is none of that in call girls, so its not my thing.

outdoorlover25 42M
5 posts
1/12/2006 6:19 pm

The way I see it is if I can't get it for free I must need it. And it is alot safer that way too.

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