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Ladys views and thoughts
 
A place where I can express my views, read yours and hopefully we can all learn a bit more about ourself and others.

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My Heart Hurts
Posted:Jul 8, 2016 8:33 am
Last Updated:Jan 31, 2021 9:27 pm
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Yes, my heart hurts, it cries for the 5 fallen officers in DALLAS.

I was part of Law Enforcement for 20 years. I see and hear of two shootings in two different states, Louisiana, and Minnesota, Then the entire country goes into a up roar, and now we have 5 Officers in Dallas, DEAD. Why??? that is the question. WHAT did those 5 innocent officers in an entirely different state have to do with the two shootings??

NOT one damn thing that is what. They didn't even wear self protective gear, so as not to UPSET the protesters, who were very peacefully protesting. Enter, the element of someone who used the BLACK LIVES MATTER card to execute 5 men doing their job.

Do Black lives matter? YES do WHITE lives matter YES, do ALL Lives matter HELL YES!!!

I am beyond tired of hearing BLACK LIVES MATTER. What or where is the outrage, the complete protesting, and Televised outrage of BLACKS KILLING BLACKS??? In Chicago in ONE DAY July 4 you have 60 yes SIXTY people shot, several killed on the 4th of July. WHERE IS THAT OUTRAGE????????

Where are the protests of blacks killing blacks, where is the outcry of this needs to stop!!! WHERE are those protesters black and white howling to the skiles about those shootings and killings??? NO instead you go to Dallas and kill officers that had absolutely NOTHING to do with the two shootings!!!

In Detroit you have 2 year old shot and killed because they were outside playing and got in the line of fire!! WHERE IS THE OUTRAGE?????

Is it different, acceptable for blacks to kill blacks or innocent in ANY state??? Are our childrens lives so expendable that we shed a minute of tears and then ho hum wait for the NEXT ONE, because as sure as the sun rises there is and will be ANOTHER ONE.

How many of you self righteous indignant people screaming of how unfair the police are would RUN, yes RUN watch those videos of the officers RUNNING not away from the gun fire but INTO IT. Without any self protection, because we do not want to upset or intimidate the protesters!!!!

This country, ANY country, that does not have police protection, the first line of help in any situation and an organization that is RESPECTED, will have complete and total CHAOS, not that we are not in a state of chaos now.

DO NOT GIVE ME GUN CONTROL complaints either. In case no one happened to notice from the get go, the Dallas police were OUT GUNNED and OUT SELF PROTECTED!!! Including a freaking BOMB!! Do any single one with a brain even believe those were gotten LEGALLY!!! If you do I have a bridge for you !!!

Eliminate guns, go ahead, then you will see a switch to Knives, Cars, hammers, you name it, ANYTHING can be a WEAPON in the hands of someone who is intending to do harm to ANYONE, so do we regulate knives? no dinner or steak knives??? it isn't the damn weapon its the PERSON USING THE WEAPON that is the problem. I cannot remember nor will I ever see a single incident of any weapon you can name, leaping up and killing someone, without a HUMAN BEING in control of that weapon. They are inanimate objects, without the HUMAN effort.Did your knife cut your meat without you picking it up and using it?? If yours did you can make a million dollars with it.

EVEN when they are proven WRONG WRONG WRONG, do they give it up the HANDS UP DON'T SHOOT!! THAT was proven NEVER NEVER to have happened, but did that stop them protesting using that chant NO. Even your high and mighty sports figures ran out of a tunnel with their hands up in the air howling HANDS UP DON"T SHOOT. Nothing like perpetuating a lie.

Sit and judge the officer, fire fighters, military that are BLACK, But show me ONE of you that in these instances are going to leap up and RUN into the face of harm. Show me one of you that are going to get up put on that uniform and walk out every single day not knowing if you are going home at night. What a cushey job!!!! Oh yeah and the salary is so enticing.

This political shit of not insulting someone!!! anyone. is over the top. GET OVER IT. Poles have been the brunt of rude, crude insutling jokes for years!!!! I can't recall any of them killing someone for those jokes!!!

A STAR on an article immediately has to be a JEWISH insult. OH for FREAKING SAKE, that is the SAME SHAPE AS A SHERIFF BADGE!! It was proven it was part of a Paint website program available for anyone for anything. but OH NO it HAD to be JEWISH!!!!

It is time you people WOKE UP and started protesting ALL the wrongs NOT JUST BLACK LIVE MATTERS if a white police officer is involved in a shooting!!! ANY SHOOTING by police or citizen should be INVESTIGATED!!!!

WHITE LIVES MATTER BLACK LIVES MATTER

ALL LIVES MATTER
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MAD MAD MAD!!!! ROARING MAD
Posted:Jul 6, 2016 8:24 am
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2024 4:5 am
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OK, I am a 76 year old female, NO SECRET there!!! My name rather says it all, a Lady with an ATTITUDE. Again no secret there. My profile, clearly, states NO YOUNGER MEN PERIOD!!

WHY oh bloody hell WHY!! do you freaking in your TWENTIES keep sending me your drivel emails, telling me how "infatuated" you are that you simply cannot help yourself you are swooning in rapture just gazing at my pictures!!! GET A LIFE

Are you so uneducated that you cannot comprehend the words in my profile that tells you flat out GO AWAY. No, it isn't that, the fact is that todays younger people, both men and women and before everyone goes orbital, NOT ALL, there is no one size fits all but my experiences so far, is that MOST of the ones I have come in contact with these days are RUDE, CRUDE, IGNORANT, ENTITLEMENT, , Generation. Just because YOU want it, like it YOUR EXPECTATIONS and worse yet BELIEFS are that YOU should have, or GET what ever the hell it is.

WELL guess what WRONG!!!! RESPECT is not given, it is EARNED. To get respect for you or your age, you have to GIVE respect. NOT flat out ignore word for word what someone has in their profile and go right ahead and do what YOU want!!

Men and Women BOTH have gone to jail for having sex with minors. Well you are not a minor in your 20's, but to someone of MY age of 76 YOU ARE A MINOR and hold ZERO interest for me!!!. I suppose there are some women that think it's awesome to have that kind of attention, well as the saying goes. For some, even BAD attention is better than NO attention. As my profile says, I DO NOT WANT your attention AT ALL

No matter WHAT anyone says, I realize that it is NEVER going to stop! stupid stupid that will ignore totally all profiles and STILL make a total ass out of themselves and CONTACT older women that clearly say DO NOT, because THEY want to.

Ok end of my rant of the morning.
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Aretha Franklin!! R E S P E C T
Posted:Feb 14, 2015 9:25 pm
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2016 7:29 am
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Respect, now just what does that word mean to you?? someone, anyone?? Well, on this site it appears to not exist at all. OHHH I read so many profiles, that REQUEST that you respect their profile, while they are blatantly ignoring everyone elses profiles!!

IF you want respect you darn well best be ready to GIVE respect. THAT means, when you read a profile, kindly RESPECT the likes, dislikes of the person who wrote it!! Just because you are reading it and you don't happen to LIKE what you are reading, does not mean that you have to immediately fire off a nasty email, calling them hateful names, and hurling insults as fast as you can type them.Or as one genius sent me, "I just couldn't resist" or the very old and boring excuse "Well you just gotta try" NO if you do not match anything on that profile you are reading, you can try till the snow in Boston melts and you have about as much chance as that snow ball in HELL. Trying is not going to convince anyone to change their preferences!!

Have any of you that seem to be seized with the disease of compulsion to send unwanted emails, ever EVER taken one single minute to think about how or what YOU look like sending it??? Seriously, think about that, I know you think you are all saintly, and justified, and very satisfied when you hit send. Then when the recipient gets the email, he/she looks at it and immediately says what a looser, what an ass**** and you get a very nasty reply generally accompanies with a block. Now what may I ask did you actually accomplish other than make yourself look as stupid as a doorknob, rude, insulting, and definitely just burned every chance you ever had if you ever had one at all. Nice going!!

For you compulsive, idiots that feel you simply HAVE to send one of your nasty emails, because you don't like a persons profile, do yourself, and the rest of us a huge favor, just hit delete and move along to the next one. It will save strain on your fingers, and your vitrol will be spared on some hapless person who really don't give a damn about your thoughts to begin with.

I am somewhat amazed that the male/female population does NOT smack down the jerks that make it really really bad for the good guys out there to score. Man if that was me I sure would be saying HEY Ass knock it off, move along.

What a sad blah blah world we would live in if all of us liked the exact same thing. The originality of each of us is what makes the world so unique. And for those magnificent males that have no brains at all and believe this is simply a drive thru house, to pick the flavor you want and she is going to immediately say oh yes thank you for picking me, wise up, the world does not work that way, What the hell planet are you on?? OH NO WAIT, you are going to say "BUT BUT this is a SEX SITE" I do believe the HUGE header on this site is ADULT FRIENDfinder. Emphasis on FRIEND. You would not walk into a bar or some establishment, and approach any female in the room the way you approach females or males on here, if you did you would wind up less some teeth and a whole lot of bruises. OR consider how you would appreciate it if someone approached your the same way would you think it was cool? sexy? great? acceptable?? I think NOT

SO RESPECT it is a relative thing, GIVE it to GET IT.

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HELP!! Really, WHAT would you do!!!!!!
Posted:Jan 17, 2015 10:19 am
Last Updated:Jan 31, 2021 9:31 pm
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Curosity has compelled me to ask this question!!! Here you are, a Gold Member on AdultFriendFinder. Or any level of membership here. You have sifted thru all the bazillion emails you have been sent after all you want to be sure that the one you decide on is the exact RIGHT one.

You have made contact, chatted online, exchanged pics, and oh wow Man his package is impressive!!! woo hooo. His photo was awesome, handsome, tall, dark eyes, exactly my idea of what excites me. We have chatted on the phone for a month or so, and I made the decision to take the plunge and meet for lunch.

I shower, and puff and fluff and make sure I am appealing. This is going to be so exciting to meet with this person. I arrived at the designated date place and am seated to wait the arrival of my date.

As I sit here gazing around the room, in anticipation of his arrival, this person arrives at my table and stands smiling down at me. I smile back and say hello. He says, Hello ____Insert your name!! I am ____ insert HIS name. You sit there open mouthed!!!! stutter, stammer a hello. wondering who the hell is THIS!!!!

He is roughly 5 or MORE years OLDER than his pictures and stated age on AdultFriendFinder. He is grossely overweight. You can see thru the large amount of hair on his face that he is also missing some teeth. While you are struck dumb, he sits down and says "HI it's so good to finally meet you in person" Yep that is the voice from the phone, but uh WHERE is the person in the photo on AdultFriendFinder?? As he takes his seat opposite you, you finally find your voice, and after a slight cough, comment, "uh wow you are are different from your photo" He chuckles and says well, that wasn't exactly my picture, it's one I found on the internet. I thought after we met and how good we struck it off it wouldn't really matter. OHHH you say. Um well how old are you exactly, and his reply puts him somewhere in the area of 10 years older than you and now your brain is remembering that sex package he had on his profile!!

Now just what would your thoughts or reaction be??? I mean seriously, How many times have men/women used pirated photos from the internet as theirs, and don't even go there to try and say that don't happen it has been proven over and over that they do.

Just what the hell do you men think women are going to think, or how they are going to react when or if you get past the meeting and all goes well, and it advances to the bedroom, you drop your drawers, and Willie the WORM is there, and you hand her a magnifying glass to see it, to prove it is really THERE, and is not anywhere near that Anaconda you have showing on your profile or in your pictures!! REALLY?? Or the women who have humungo boobs, or other pirated photos of their crotch and the male looks and sees a National Forest of fuzz or even worse!!! What if that person had even spent the money to travel for this meet a long distance, by car or plane!!

I am at a total loss for WHY anyone would use anything other than their OWN photo if they have any remote intention of meeting someone in the real world. Just HOW ,ok I will be open minded, EXPLAIN to me how YOU are going to EXPLAIN the discrepancy??

As for proof of pirated photos, go find an article I wrote years ago on "Wheres Waldo" because that WALDO was a pirated photo that showed up in 8 countries on 8 different men in less than one week all claiming it was them./SIZE]

I am going to sit back and just wait to hear all the excellent explanations for these little discrepancies. OR your JUSTIFICATION for why you simply did NOT use your OWN photo and be YOURSELF.
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The DARK SIDE
Posted:Jan 21, 2011 7:34 am
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2024 4:5 am
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Oh there are many dark sides to people and things. I am going to go into a VERY dark place here.

In your every day life, what would you think of someone who you knew, fleetingly, as a BRIEF friend that once your friendship ended spent the next 4 years digging into your personal life, EVERY DAY. Posting it daily ONLINE to EVERYONE.

Now we are not talking about minor information here. I am talking about posting your home address, your tax information, your personal life, be it a divorce or death etc. Or better yet, how about an event that THEY created such as getting a PPO, that wound up being thrown OUT, in less than TWO WEEKS, due to lack of proof, yet daily they email, or send out ONLY the FRONT page of the thing, telling everyone that is their PROOF. Would you call it proof, if you never saw the ensuing pages where it was DISMISSED? Never EVER served!!.

Now look in a mirror, just how are YOU going to feel if you believed the FRONT PAGE and nothing more, THEN found out that you were DUPED!! That YOU were made to look like an idiot for believing the lie, hook line and sinker. That you were in a chat room, and expounded on your belief and quit socializing with someone you knew on the basis of that lie you were fed. Well, it happens on this site more than you can even realize. DAILY.

Does the word STALKER come to mind in all of this, stalking isn't just for unrequited love this is STALKING of a demented mind that is consumed with doing this against a person for their OWN gratification. It is the ONLY enjoyment or pleasure they get in life, isn't that sad.

Ignore it you say, Umm ok, did you miss where I said it has been daily for FOUR YEARS of being ignored by most but for those new who are unaware they are fresh meat. Or someone who for their own reasons are not friends with, or like the victim, yes they are a victim in this and ultimately, those who buy into and believe the lies spread are also VICTIMS.

I shake my head at those so willing to buy into and believe, without ever checking further, for the real PROOF is right there available to them by simply going on line to the website from said county and reading it for THEMSELVES!!!. That as Paul Harvey used to say "is the rest of the story" The part that is never told.

Of course I realize that most do not want to get involved in anything remotely connected to something like this. Who would!! But for God sakes, don't join in the witch hunt and believe like a sheep being led to slaughter either. Somewhere it should cross YOUR mind that maybe ONE DAY, YOU may run across someone so obsessed and possessed that YOU will be the next VICTIM of a STALKER.
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PLEASE oh PLEASE
Posted:Jan 20, 2011 1:05 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2011 1:09 pm
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Would someone, ANYONE, come up with some logical, feasible explanation of what or what is with SOME people, and I am sure it is not gender exclusive, that they go OUT of their way to be rude and insulting.??

WHAT is with THAT!!! Here is the thing, be it male or female, you come across a profile, photo, something, anything that right that instant grabs you and makes you turn into some alien from another planet, or you are possessed by the devil himself.

You suddenly, start typing, fingers flying over the keyboard, your mind racing like it is competing in the Daytona 500, and all of it that appears is NEGATIVE, Insulting, RUDE beyond belief???

It makes me wonder are you this ignorant in your real life? every day life? Would you talk to someone you passed on the street like that or in a bar or ANY social setting? I mean you see them and just walk right over and light into them with all YOUR negative viewpoints!!. Does the computer afford you such sanctity and safety of hiding behind your keyboard that you suddenly think your brilliant??? That this creature that you have turned into is free to talk to someone you will NEVER, not EVER meet!! in your entire life and vent your venom, and spew vile like it is spontaneous barfing?.

Do you have an ego!! that is larger than the collective states of Texas and Alaska, together that you actually believe that once you inform this person of YOUR! that is ONE person's OPINION, that they are suddenly going to say, "Oh my goodness, I better change my profile, or who I am to make this ONE person happy".

There is so very much in the world that is suffering, miserable, and unhappy, what makes you suddenly decide to ADD TO IT? Does it make you a better person?? Absolutely NOT but it sure lets the recipient know what a rude, ignorant ASS YOU ARE. It isn't the person who GETS your email, if you want to call it that, who looks bad, its YOU the SENDER!!.

Obviously, in your haste to inform others of your view point and opinion you have forgotten that it leaves THEM with the very clear picture of what kind of person YOU ARE!!!. Is that how you really want people to see you?? Is that REALLY who you are? Is that REALLY the kind of individual YOU ARE?? If so, or any part of that is a yes YOU NEED HELP!!!! Please feel free to go get it.

I realize a lot of those charming emails, sent, which are like from other countries, states on the opposite side of the country means you stand a snowballs chance in hell of ever really hooking up with them to begin with, but I guess, just call me DUMB, cause I can't figure out why the hell you people WASTE your time, and energy to reach out, FIRST CONTACT EVER with a STRANGER, and tell them all that????

If you see someone, you obviously have a distaste for MOVE ALONG, go to the NEXT ONE!!! no one will arrive at your house to arrest you for doing so, or give you a report card telling you that you flunk surfing because you remained silent. I promise they won't.

The old saying SILENCE IS GOLDEN!!! is a wonderful thing, and a lot of people really should practice that!!! not just for the person they are contacting but for themself!!!

Annoyed Lady
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Stop, GO, STOP, go
Posted:Jan 11, 2011 3:04 pm
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2016 10:12 am
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Ahh that is the traffic outside right now. The snow has been coming down since around noon, and it is still falling. All the work traffic is doing the STOP GO, gonna be a lot of people late for dinner tonight!!! Then they cheerfully said that Saturday we are going to get more.

I really have no right to complain this is the first snow we have had that we can say its SNOW. The poor east coast has been hammered.

Makes me wonder how come when I was a I thought this was better than bubble gum and couldn't wait to go out and play in it, make a snowman, snow angel, in and out getting warmed up to go back out.

NOW I hear today we are going to get 10 real honest to god snowflakes and my moaning and groaning begins with NOT AGAIN, not to mention it isn't an AGAIN but a first timer lol.

Ok, going to sit here and watch it piling up, with my squirrels looking like white coated aliens.

Lady
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Is it cold?
Posted:Jan 10, 2011 8:58 am
Last Updated:Jan 31, 2021 9:30 pm
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Well, I guess that would be up to each individual to determine if it is cold or NOT. Sitting here in what feels like 16 degrees is COLD if not downright frigid by my standards.

What is with this weather!! Global warming yeah right, tell that to the people on the east coast, and those in the deep south such as Mississippi, that are snowed in!! Boy is it warm there or what!!!.

For an Eskimo, this would be considered balmy I suppose, maybe even bathing suit weather!! Makes you wonder how other people manage to stay warm. Just what do they do to get warm??

Ok, going for some hot cocoa and a blankie to ramp up the temps around here.

Lady
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Its OVER
Posted:Jan 2, 2011 3:41 pm
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2024 4:5 am
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No, not a relationship, but the holidays. They are forever getting here, then in the blink of an eye, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Years fly by!! Then we are left with the tree, decorations, trimmings, and for me a bit of sadness that it has all passed for yet one more year.

I took down my Christmas tree today. My who was home from the Army for the first time in along time wanted a real live tree. He and his sister are the original Christmas !! The fresh smell of evergreen makes me smile.

It took me over two hours to get the last two strings of lights off that tree. By the time I was done, I was glaring at the tree like it was a mortal enemy engaged in combat for it's life. Well in a way I guess you could say it was, after all I was removing its dress and ornaments stripping it bare for goodness sakes.

Now we are all back to the normal hum drum of our lives, the every day chores, and jobs. I always am amazed at the transition one single day can make. The 2010 Holidays, from Thanksgiving on are but a mere memory, not to be thought of until Thanksgiving of this year 2011. Then the cycle repeats itself, which is the most wonderful thing of all, we can keep redoing it and making it better each year.

So, maybe it really isn't OVER but merely in the planning stages now.

Lady
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Tis Christmas Time
Posted:Dec 20, 2010 7:48 pm
Last Updated:Jan 31, 2021 9:29 pm
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My My where does the time go??? Christmas is knocking on our door, and I am positive, it was 85 just the other day, so what is all this white stuff outside making me shiver??

For the first time in many a year, I am actually looking forward to Christmas this year. My is home from Iraq for a change. SO, it may blizzard, rain, hail, sleet, hell freeze over, I really don't care, nothing can erase the smile from my face.

The year has had many up's and down's twists and turns, but to have my home safe, my along side of him makes the season, and holiday perfect. It don't get much better than that in my book.

I always ponder what the new incoming year is going to bring. I am thankful for the many blessings, I have been given for this year and wouldn't even dream of asking for anything more than what I have.

So to whoever, should happen to stumble across this blog entry, I wish you and yours a very Merry Christmas. My prayer is and will always be for peace, so perhaps, my and everyone elses 's and daughters will not be in some far off land engaged in combat but will be home safely with their family as well.

Merry ChristmasSIZE]
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Vagina, oh darling vagina
Posted:May 4, 2010 7:41 am
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2010 7:38 pm
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Sigh, I can tell spring has sprung, my brain is beginning to bloom with dormant ideas. Some are great, some good some just plain weird.

I have been on this site for quite a while, read all the arguments about men/women posting crotch shots. Nude shots, etc. That idea that was ran thru my brain yet again the other day was the birth of this blog.

I am imagining a world, where it is forbidden to display ones face, only thing allowed is to go forth and display your crotch area. Male and female alike, no body, face, arm, leg nada just your crotch!!.

It makes my eyes cross, and brain hurt to imagine what on earth the results of THAT would be for everyone. Can you imagine, going along and OH MY GOSH, that vagina is AMAZING!! just look at the color of the hair, the puffiness, the, the, well the VAGINA!!!.

OH MY GOSH, wait, there is one that is smooth, NO HAIR!!!! just pink and smooth, some with a days new growth, sorta prickley if ya rubbed your face on it but what the heck!!!. Then there are the ones that are shaved in designer patterns!!!!!

Imagine, a flight path!!! smooth all around, patch of hair down center, with little cute tattoos of lights running down each side. The ideas are limitless. Smiley faces!! hearts, sigh so many decisions.

Suddenly, you espy one of those vaginas, and it takes your breath away, its the EXACT one you have spent your entire life searching for. You feel your heart race, palms get sweaty, your tongue tingles with possibilities, you head swivels around looking to see if anyone else has discovered this amazing vagina.

Tossing caution to the wind you approach the vagina, smile bend over for closer inspection, and introduce yourself, "Hello, I am a Penis Card Carrier, I am so overwhelmed by your beauty". Of course there is no answer we all know no matter how beautiful, or brilliant a vagina is it cannot vocalize speech!!.

Not to be thwarted, you continue speaking to your newly found love, the silent Vagina. You ask it if it would enjoy going to dinner, the thing don't even smile!! It might drool a bit, but hey!! that's to be expected from vagina, ya know wet, drippy, squirtey!! all divine traits to entrance you further.

Slowly you uncross your eyes, your heart slows, and you look at the REST of the body carrying around that vagina. NOW your eyes widen! that heart starts up again pounding like a drum in your ears. WHAT THE HELL or WHO the HELL is this!!!!! Frantically you look around to see if anyone has seen you with this, this well whatever this is!!!! Cautiously, you say "Hello, nice to meet you, my name is Penis Card Carrier, and I am 30." "thats nice, I am 85, look good for my age don't I!". gigling again, people always say I look a lot younger.! and age is just a number.

A smile breaks Vagina's owner displaying a tooth here or there. You are mesmerized by the mole on her nose with those three hairs growing out of it, thinking well she could braid it if she wanted to. You hear the voice saying, "uh huh? giggling, and chewing gum, snapping it loudly" little bit of spit drips down her chin, for some reason it isn't nearly as exciting as the vagina drip and wetness. You slowly look her over from top to bottom and now suddenly you realize, that vagina is the ONLY thing that drew your attraction.

Your brain is hollering in your head, RUN PENIS CARD CARRIER RUN!!!! you can be saved if you make the dash for freedom now. At which time your feet finally get the message and begin moving.

I know, I know, sounds pretty silly the entire thing, well guess what, having NOTHING but your penis or your crotch on display there is NO WAY that anyone can tell a single thing about you. Not your personality, not your sense of humor, not your overall looks. Obviously, crotch shots, can be decieving!!!

A penis or vagina is NOT what you are truly interested in when you see someone, unless there are a LOT more things that are interesting, or attractive you are NOT going to accept JUST a VAGINA or a PENIS!!!.

Lady
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Its about time
Posted:Apr 3, 2010 8:51 am
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2015 9:13 pm
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That I got myself busy and added something here. I have been so busy lately, my finally came home from Iraq. YEAHHHHH. So much to do, people to see, and places to go. I am not sure how long he will be home for this time, but I sure am going to enjoy every minute that I have before the Army snatches him away again.

I am a member of a few groups, been a member of a few groups I left for various reasons. Usually it was either the person or persons within the groups that I had no inclination to waste my time on going over and over petty squabbles and ego searching and self ego boosting efforts. No grand dramatic departure, no grand declarations of my departure, just a silent removal of myself from that spot. To each his own, that just was not my own. One day I was there, the next I was not.

I always sit and chuckle at the persons, mods and others, that portray themselves as "self sacrificing" for their group or groups. At the drop of a hat they fling their hand to their forehead and in a saddened voice filled with drama inform the group that they are "leaving" yes, "leaving for good never to return" The site, group has taken it's toll on their emotional state and for the sake of their own sanity they need to step down and pass the baton of authority to the next in line.

All members flock to the fore to bemoan the tragic loss of such a magnificent leader, how would they ever go on, one wonders. Consolations and memories abound of all the good the person has done and contributed.

Poof gone, at least for a week or so while I personally believe they sit in the sidelines with another name and watch his/her ego getting stroked. When they have received enough adulation, like Easter Sunday, there is a miraculous resurrection of the person, they return humbled, but healed ready to resume the helm of their domain. Welcomed back with open arms and hearts by those who had priorly bemoaned the leaving. Unfortunately, those same people who do this it becomes a never ending loop of happening over and over, like Ground Hog day movie. Like how many times can you LEAVE FOR GOOD?

Some view themselves as being the voice or conscience of this site, which again is totally laughable. They view their self as being the only one on this site ready and willing to take on the front office or any hapless member here and will challenge them by drowning them in volumes of words in their effort to point out their own brilliance. Standing tall, or as tall as they believe they are in their own minds, they challenge anyone to prove them wrong for they honestly are so brilliant they are fearless and cannot wait to prove that either. Just ask them they will tell you so.

You can read posts from said persons in many realms on this site, and without fail, you will read the following sentence, after a long diatribe of moaning wails of how they were treated, or mistreated, or quoted or misquoted, insulted and never apologized to, which they heartily believe they are entitled to, inspite of the fact that they themself are guilty of the exact infraction they are wailing about was inflicted upon them. Here is the quote.

"well, it really isn't important and does not matter"

Now those of you out there that have NEVER read that quote raise your hands, I won't be able to count them I am sure as there will be that many raised up.

My question is IF it is NOT IMPORTANT why the hell did you find it necessary to post an entire diatribe, in glorious description to the world? Obviously IT DID MATTER. Did you figure if you regaled the world with the dastardly offenses committed against your magnificent self, then followed it up with that, it would generate more sympathy to your plight?

In my case it makes me laugh and realize that if I were the person who committed the alleged infractions then I really DID get to your weak spot, thanks for letting me know how effective I was.

Sigh, well, I need to get some things done, but before I tackle my chores I need to check out the sea gulls flying around they are such messy birds, they even manage to crap in your hair sometimes, ewwww messy isn't it. Maybe I will blog about them and their infractions on us mere mortals.

Amused Lady.
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Those of you who follow along with this blog know that we push a release to our site about once a month. Each of these monthly releases contains fixes to bugs, any new tweaks or features, and a bunch of back-end site performance improvements.

This February we using our monthly release to focus on bugs you want fixed. I want to make sure I'm paying attention to all the issues you guys are having. All bloggers, group members and mods, broadcasters, chat room junkies and advice line warriors should add their feedback. Please add your bugs in the comments.

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Stuff that doesn't work like it should. Here are a few examples:

* If you look at your Blog post in Title view, clicking on any of your blog posts takes you to a blank white page.
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