Ladyblue85 58F
117 posts
2/14/2006 7:11 pm

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3/16/2006 6:20 pm


Ok, not bad enough i've been in a flaming mood over the past several days because of shit with men...... i've been on this site for over a year and dealt with MANY MANY rude men -- more widely known as "rectums" !

Because of this behavior, my profile has changed probably a dozen times. It started as ur general "nice" profile, single gal looking for friends w/bennies. As more and more men started treating me like an idiot, a whore, etc., I have had to change one line or another, eventually a whole paragraph to the point my entire page no longer resembles what used to be the nice, friendly me.

I am really a very nice caring person, always have been, probably the reason I've ended up getting screwed over one way or another.... i trust people too much. But i have learned, ya just gotta be a frigging bitch to not only survive but get people to pay attention that you mean what u say! Sounds simple, huh?

I finally had to make alist of "Rules".... I felt if any men could get thru the whole profile, just maybe they could understand exactly who and what I was looking for. Sounds simple, huh? YA THINK??????

While I have received my share of nasty e-mails, etc., things have been good for a while with people just respecting the fact that I state WHAT i want and expect. And yes, even a few outside my age requirement, etc have tried to sweet talk their way to me, but have been polite about it.
That gets a polite refusal.

BUT now, tonight...... yes, another rectum-man has chosen to take his frustration out on me and my HONEST profile. from someone called: cmb831
i receive a letter with the

subject: NOPE!

body of letter: Too many GD rules lady.....

Ok, now, ...... what the fuck??? evidently i hit a sore spot..... someone not meeting enough "pussy"?? And my profile does state that i will blog people that piss me off!

That stupid fucking comment and matching mentality is the same as me seeing a man's profile that he is looking for someone with "...long hair.... or slim, slender, petite body...." and then having the balls to write a flaming letter to him telling him he doesnt know what he's missing because i have a few extra pounds on me. OMFG!! (and oh yeah, just chopped off my hair!)

Do people have nothing better to do with their time or energy than to harass other members??
Get a life buddy, or better yet, buy yourself a portable pussy to relieve some of that tension u got!

moonlightphoenix 45F
6508 posts
2/14/2006 7:55 pm

I hear ya on the write and rewrite. I've changed my profile weekly and it's gotten less and less nice. I eventually said I wasn't replying to anyone new, and THEN I had to put up a list of who I qualified as "new". I STILL got emails. Now I've just taken all info off my profile and say I'm not looking for anything or anyone. That seems to have stopped it.

CopesPolerLeges 58M
10 posts
2/23/2006 1:16 pm

A friend of mine said that the best way to weed out the losers is to say next to nothing. "Pictures do get more responses" Glad you are still talking, you make a nice read.

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