Vaca update  

LTsGirl915 34F
312 posts
8/28/2006 2:46 pm

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9/5/2006 7:36 pm

Vaca update

So, all in all the vacation was pretty nice. We went to an amazing Dave Matthews Band concert last Saturday in Dallas, then left Monday from Galveston. We spent a day in Progreso, and a day in Cozumel (I actually preferred Progreso, Cozumel was disappointing, IMO ) plus 3 drunken days on the ship. I spent a shitload of money, got a decent amount of sun (although we had some crappy weather at times, including much of our day in Cozumel) and only had a few big blow outs with my EH (estranged husband). One came on the first night, after I had gone to bed, and he fucked some random chick without a condom, came back to our room, and started touching me. I woke up and the argument was so bad security showed up. I told him the next time he laid his hands on me I'd have him arrested for sexual assault, but not before I ripped his balls off. Another in Progreso, when said whore's mom turned to him and said "Oh, Jess has been looking for you!!" Yeah, could have gone my whole vacation without facing his whore's mom. One on the topless deck when he freaked out on some nice older guy I was talking to, actually apologizing because I had disappeared a few days earlier because I had an appointment in the spa. EH's response was to make a huge scene, (threatening the man, calling him names, and bragging about being a soldier) again security was called, and it was stupid and loud enough that people on the ship that didn't even witness it were talking about it later. Talk about embarassed. Oh well. Other than dealing with EH's constant sexual advances, it was relaxing, mostly because I avoided EH as much as possible. I found it hilarious that it was acceptable to start drinking as soon as you woke up, no matter what time it was. I spent a good deal of the trip drunk. I SWORE I wasn't going to go to the casino, but I did... of course we all know how that goes.

Now, for when we returned... I went to Jersey's for a few hours, he had gotten off a 24 hour shift, so we slept between sex sessions. I left his place early afternoon, and he came over after dinner to watch last week's "Rescue Me". Some more great sex last night, and a peaceful night's sleep curled up in his arms was just perfect. When his alarm went off this morning, I considered holding him hostage, I needed a few more hours in his arms, but he had duty for a funeral today, and had to leave very early. I'm really not ready for the real world again, I want to kidnap Jersey and head back to Mexico!

longhairman0013 46M
110 posts
8/28/2006 5:48 pm

i know exactly how you feel. except for the EH, i never did that and he certainly sounds like a pain in your ass.

i mean about not enough time with the one you care about. i vote you grab jersey and go back. he makes you happy like my sweetheart makes me happy, and we both should go kidnap our respective lovers and tie em to our beds. deal?

LTsGirl915 34F

8/28/2006 6:37 pm

LOL, sounds like a plan... only problem is Uncle Sam will be a bit pissed off if I kidnap Jersey. Otherwise I would totally do it.

bipolybabe 55F

8/28/2006 10:24 pm

Geez, Honey, what are you doing hanging out like that?

If you're spending your vacation drunk, it's a bad sign. I'm not judging. I'm sharing from my own experience. That's what the last couple years of my marriage looked like...minus his having sex with "some random chick without a condom."

Geez, Honey, you deserve better. That's not poly. It's yucky. And hurtful.

Let me know what I could do to support you in creating the life you love and the one you deserve.

BPB (who is now minus a LIP, live-in penis, for lots of good reasons)


Check out my blog Bi-Poly-Babe for more sensual, sexual pleasure!

LTsGirl915 34F

8/29/2006 10:48 am

The husband and I are no longer together, we had planned this vaca before we split, and decided to go forth with it. I do deserve better, and hopefully I'll have better one day, in the meantime it was a pretty fun time even though I was quite intoxicated the majority of the time.

HeatedCondition 60M
890 posts
9/4/2006 4:49 pm

    Quoting LTsGirl915:
    The husband and I are no longer together, we had planned this vaca before we split, and decided to go forth with it. I do deserve better, and hopefully I'll have better one day, in the meantime it was a pretty fun time even though I was quite intoxicated the majority of the time.
Now that's something I've not read before, going on a cruise with an estranged spouse, and sharing the same room with, apparently. Holy moly! It's not hard to predict there would be some problems. I commend you on your fortitude in going ahead with it!

After reading you old blog and this one, I'm struck with the idea that you drink an awful lot. You've probably heard it before, but it is the low road. I've seen a number of people die before their time from it, a couple commit suicide over it, and many others with DUI convictions and other numerous assorted problems, a plethora of nightmares. And every one of 'em thought they could handle it. In all likelihood, at this rate, by age 50 your liver will be fried should nothing worse happen before then.

You should cut WAY back, at least for your children's sake. Don't you want to see them graduate from high school?

Of course, this is all coming from a guy over age 50, by your description, I am "gross", per the beginning page of your old blog.

LTsGirl915 34F

9/5/2006 8:12 am

Yes, we predicted problems, but we had our reasons for going forth with the vacation. And thank you for your concern, but I find it hilarious when someone takes a snapshot look at my life (ie: this blog), and makes a judgement off of it. I don't post my entire life on this blog, or even on my other blog, this is just one aspect of my life. I actually don't drink that much, and only on the weekends under normal circumstances. I definitely drink less than your average 23 year old, and never went through the college drinking phase, so I'm fairly certain I'm doing just fine.

HeatedCondition 60M
890 posts
9/5/2006 1:16 pm

You're right, it's only a snapshot view. But telling nevertheless. Finding your arm sliced open and not knowing how it happened. Next could be waking up in bed next to someone you don't know, and no condoms around. Or waking up in jail. Or waking up in a car crash.

Weekend drinking, that's how it begins. Don't drink as much as others, another rationale. They're time-tested classics. But it's progressive, like most other things.

But whatever, I tried. Enough outta me! Good luck!

LTsGirl915 34F

9/5/2006 3:50 pm

Heated, I took your first comment gracefully, because you don't know me and I don't find it appropriate for you to come here and judge me. I never drink and drive, I never get sloshed enough to not know who I'm with, and where I'm at, I am your average social drinker. "Finding you arm sliced open, and not knowing how it happened", well that was taken out of context. What happened is I brushed my arm against my jeans, and although I had nothing sharp on me, I cut myself. There were three people, including Jersey, right there, and no one could figure out what happened, it was just a freak accident, and had nothing to do with my drinking, considering I was sober. I'm tired of the older men who come here and decide to comment on my life. Did I ask for your advice? No, I sure didn't. You basically question my ability to mother, be a responsible citizen, and take care of myself, which is not appreciated in the least. Your profile says you are a light/social drinker, as am I, so who the fuck do you think you are to pass judgement on a complete stranger? I don't come pass judgement on you, it's not my job to do so, so who appointed you my keeper? I suggest you keep your opinions to yourself in the future, or I will ban you.

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