Sex, Lies and....  

Kristofer32 46M
101 posts
8/31/2006 10:27 am

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8/31/2006 1:03 pm

Sex, Lies and....

...well Lies.

I am in a rut and am not too certain if there is a solution. I have mentioned before I am in a very small place...every person knows you, and worse, they know (at least think they need to know) your business. Obviously it isn't all bad or I would simply pack and leave. I know this site isn't the only place persons of a certain disposition can meet, but when you are in a town, with very consevative values I might add, and a population of less than 12000, it limits some interaction. I finally met one of the, I think it is up to four now, women on this site who are in my town and within a couple years of my age. Amazingly, we had never met before. In my blog I have been honest about my trials and attempts to alleviate myself of my estranged, or is that just strange, spouse. This person claimed to have read my posts and "understood" I am looking only for a social friend right now, as an extramarital fling would cause me another round of ankle-grabbing butt sex with no lube, courtesy of some money grabbing lawyer. I never lied about my situation; I also understand that hormones are difficult to control. Control is what makes humans better than wild animals...we are supposed to be advanced enough to control ourselves. Needless to say, we were not on the same page at all. I though racquetball and dinner was racquetball and dinner. Silly me, in girl-talk that appears to mean, let's get sweaty while we fuck like monkeys. As long as my "without" spell has been, it was damn appealing, but then I remember a certain lawyer who likes to stick it in me every chance he gets. Frankly I have no more to give or my sphinctor is going to fail from all the rough treatment in the last...way too long...

Needless to say, I am going to have to go over my profile with a fine toothed comb and hope I see where I led this woman on and "...lied about your (my) intentions..."

Can a person be on this site and not be looking to immediately get laid? Can a person look for more in a person than sex, even though for me to have sex with someone besides me sounds like a damn fine idea?

Good luck and I hope you are all getting laid for me...


silverhawk762 51M/47F

8/31/2006 10:50 am

Yes, you can be on this site and not be looking to immediately get laid. Yes, you can look for more in a person than sex - we're looking for the same thing! I think that a lot of people here are, whether they actually state it or not! {=}

Kristofer32 replies on 8/31/2006 11:05 am:
Thanks...I was really starting to believe I just didn't get it. I appreciate the fact I am not totally alone in my beliefs.


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