OMG, I think I'll become an editor!  

Kokomo1963 46M/53F
42 posts
4/19/2006 8:58 am

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4/20/2006 8:38 am

OMG, I think I'll become an editor!

Before I get into the Title comment, I just have to get something off my started with a hilarious comment in a guy's profile, directed towards women who were sending him notes, and asking them to quit sending pictures of their breasts because everyone had them and he wasn't just looking at that as a decision-maker. I thought that was hilarious because you see so much of that on this site--but more from the guys. Unless size is an issue for the ladies, we don't care what your dick looks like, it's how you use it that counts, which you can't necessarily get across in a still picture. Let us see pics of your face or you doing something fun and spontaneous. If I never see a picture of a dick again, I would be soooo happy. Personally, the average guy will be much better than the guy with a large dick because they think that's all they need to bring to the bedroom (strictly MY experience).

Ok, back to business. After reading one blog entry yesterday in particular (you should know who you are!), I've decided that I need to be a porn editor! LOL. Some people have a knack, that's for sure. So I guess maybe I need to draw up the contracts and see if I can sign the guy up, huh?! Who knows? Might be the career I've been looking for! LOL

I've been reading the new Dr. Phil book (groan if you want to, but if it's such "common sense" then why do we need this guy to write a book about it?!) Anyway, it is really good--if nothing else--for making you think about stuff that you may have thought or projected out to others in the past, or even now. So I've decided that my lack of success here in the past was due to me... Ya, I know. I know I'm doing things much differently this time, partly because I just am different. But I'm trying to get more out of it--yes, even though I don't know what the "it" I want is. Do I sound like a fickle woman? Oh well.
And I'm also figuring out that I don't know if I can truly be "casual". I've never been like that and don't know how to start--my usual friends-with-benefits are ex's that I know what they do and there's already a repoire (sp?) established. I don't know how people keep it all clear-I feel like the proverbial clown with too many balls in the air (so to speak).

I've gotten many responses, some from people I would actually want to either get to know or hook up with, but it never goes beyond notes. (Although if you've heard Garth Brooks, "Unanswered Prayers", you'll know that's not necessarily a bad thing LOL. )
Ok, with the exception of one person who I still haven't decided where I want to go with it because it feels like there is more expected of me than I can give right now, although the "more" hasn't been verbalized, I feel it like an umbrella over my head.

rm_GenuineTaste 51F
261 posts
4/19/2006 9:37 am

Interesting! Seems like you know pretty much what you want out of life. One day a light will shine and you will know what the "IT" is that you've been searching for. Until then follow your "HEART." By doing so, there will be less time for regrets. Peace&Joy to ya!

Live&Let Live...Live&Learn

Kaliedascope61 41M
4084 posts
4/19/2006 10:31 am

hehe....i know what profile your talking about.

imLadyBambi 58M/50F

4/19/2006 11:42 am

When the time is right you will know it.

Lady Bambi

rm_8tooffer 47M

4/19/2006 7:44 pm

I never seem to have issues like that.

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