Is it just me or is it just a guy thing???  

Kokomo1963 46M/53F
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5/17/2006 9:20 am

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5/15/2007 5:52 am

Is it just me or is it just a guy thing???


Musings for Hump-day:

I don't understand how guys can be so into being with another couple like it's no big deal. I guess because guys seem so territorial in that respect. I know I've been involved with couples from the girl perspective and it's different--if the wife/GF likes women, then they're usually pretty open-minded all the way around. It just seems like guys aren't that way...and yet, I see that on here all the time. So maybe I just needed to change my little naive thinking! -- Or maybe it's just the men that I know! LOL. They've loved the idea of another woman in the bedroom, but not the idea of having that 3rd person be a man (or even a couple). I guess I presume because you men are so damn concerned about the size of your cock that you would have some sort of "performance anxiety" having another guy there. Guess not.
Ok, so I'm just fascinated by it--you're a guy who doesn't mind coming in and being with a couple...and that doesn't seem 'weird'? I guess now that I write it out, it's just me.
And why these ponderings? Why else? A request has been made and again, to me, it seems like something that will be difficult to acquire. But then I have to remind myself: it's men we're talking about here and you're little horndogs! LOL. And that is said with lots of amusement.
Then my head goes off into the other direction of, "all these variations of something that used to be so private!"
Some days I feel like a prude! LOL.

shadowshiver 49M

5/18/2006 1:19 am

i think it would depend in part on the security of the relationship but also on the expectations of all parties involved

If you want me just whistle....
you do know how to whistle don't you?


Kokomo1963 replies on 5/18/2006 8:54 am:
Oh completely. I've gotten a lot of offline comments about this. Kind of interesting.

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