Back to earth  

Kokomo1963 46M/54F
42 posts
4/20/2006 9:03 am

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4/20/2006 1:25 pm

Back to earth

It's funny to go in and look at things like who views you, the Winks and Hotlist reports. I must be doing something right with the wording in my profile because I've seen a couple of those men who fall under the "married but looking for a discrete" relationship category browsing but no notes, Winks or Hotlist additions. Thankful for that. Doing married men definitely falls into the category of 'casual'...times 10!

Of all things, I've found a new penpal. Strictly sexual of course And what a penpal; he kept me pretty spun up most of the day yesterday. Couldn't wait for bedtime when I was all alone and could masturbate and fantasize about the things he wrote me. (Ok so I sent a few of my own back...I'm no slouch in the writing dept myself, in case you couldn't imagine) Since there is some distance between us, it will probably never go anywhere, but that's actually part of the attraction, you know? Of course I've always loved all variations of porn so it's not really a surprise to get an erotic penpal, but he makes it more real than a Penthouse Forum story.

Have met a nice couple on this site who I'm going to meet next week. Meeting a couple was definitely low on my list, but they've had a lifestyle in the past that was intriguing (polyamorous--probably screwed that up, but most of you will get the gist), which I find fascinating and if nothing else, make some new friends. There's always more to everyone's story than you can get here so we'll have to exchange all that info to know if I can even go 'there'.

Not feeling very bubbly today. I'm meeting a girl I met online a few weeks ago (on another site) and I'm just not feeling the spark, or even any sort of connection. There was some initial drama/stress because I was looking for new friends in the area and she wants a relationship and somehow that info got overlooked on her part and...well let's say that lunch today is my way of making sure that what I've seen over EM and on the phone plays out in person. If we meet and there is a spark, then I'll know that it was good to plan the lunch. But if there's nothing there, then I can start moving away from it and know that I gave it all opportunities for success. (And before I get notes from some of you saying that I must have not been clear upfront, WRONG! In the pull down for what you are looking for I chose, "Penpals/Friends"...doesn't get much clearer than that. There was also the pressure to meet, have a date, talk on the phone all the time, meet, blah-blah-blah--right from the start. I'm human...I want to get to know someone before I start deciding that we need to purpose a romantic future...AND I was clear that I wasn't to a place of pursuing a romantic future by my Penpals/Friends designation.)
But in all fairness, the lesbian scene in Spokane is so conservative and minimal that you get one that looks even halfway promising and you go great guns. Anyway, I'm not looking forward to the meeting.

n0tatalker 39M

4/20/2006 9:50 am

Well I hope yours goes better than the meeting i had with a member i met on here. She was 60lbs heavier in person than her picture for her profile! What the *^#$?

Kokomo1963 replies on 4/20/2006 11:43 am:
That sucks! I always ask when a picture was taken and if it's more than 3 months old, I ask for a newer one.
Some guys like big women so be honest and you'll get what you want, not what you don't.
Don't give up, so far I've been lucky. Just remember to be honest in return.

lovetolovemilfs 36M

4/20/2006 1:17 pm

wow...sounds like personal porn .Directly and only to you , wow

Kokomo1963 replies on 4/20/2006 1:25 pm:
huh? Are you on my Editor post? Yes I am getting personal porn just for me, Youngster. Send me some and I'll send you some back. {=}

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